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Water wet warning.
Normies misattribute most success and failure to hard work and laziness, even with things that are obviously not the result of work but just the good luck of genes and maybe being raised properly.
This is their cope for how they harass people who are born as failures, because instinctively they are monsters who need to belittle those less (genetically) fortunate than them in order to maintain their own self esteem and standards for who they hang with, but they also have to not break their fragile 'human moral compass' so they lie and gaslight literally everyone including us and themselves that the (inborn) differences between people are largely about merit and effort, not the reality that most things come with natural talent and skill and instinct.
Why is this spiel important? Because this applies to the dating market as well. It's the epitome of both red and blue pill, and what's subtle about it is that it ISN'T just looks or height, it's literally everything. Even things that even people here would call changeable, like wealth, being a fatass or skeleton, and how much energy you have, are largely the result of your genes and OUTSIDE your control. The fact is, we are all brainwashed into this matrix or illusion of 'competency' and 'hard work = profit' when really hard work does nothing if your body simply works one way and not the other, and sometimes you get results without much effort because your body is just built for that skill.
The problem is, some skills matter more than others, much more, and the few skills you use to build what skills you CAN build, are often also inborn and hard to make themselves. Like social skills, those help you learn a lot of other skills but they are very hard to learn themsevles if you are aspie like me. Locked out from step zero.
Normies misattribute most success and failure to hard work and laziness, even with things that are obviously not the result of work but just the good luck of genes and maybe being raised properly.
This is their cope for how they harass people who are born as failures, because instinctively they are monsters who need to belittle those less (genetically) fortunate than them in order to maintain their own self esteem and standards for who they hang with, but they also have to not break their fragile 'human moral compass' so they lie and gaslight literally everyone including us and themselves that the (inborn) differences between people are largely about merit and effort, not the reality that most things come with natural talent and skill and instinct.
Why is this spiel important? Because this applies to the dating market as well. It's the epitome of both red and blue pill, and what's subtle about it is that it ISN'T just looks or height, it's literally everything. Even things that even people here would call changeable, like wealth, being a fatass or skeleton, and how much energy you have, are largely the result of your genes and OUTSIDE your control. The fact is, we are all brainwashed into this matrix or illusion of 'competency' and 'hard work = profit' when really hard work does nothing if your body simply works one way and not the other, and sometimes you get results without much effort because your body is just built for that skill.
The problem is, some skills matter more than others, much more, and the few skills you use to build what skills you CAN build, are often also inborn and hard to make themselves. Like social skills, those help you learn a lot of other skills but they are very hard to learn themsevles if you are aspie like me. Locked out from step zero.
