Blackpill The Myth of "Social Skills"

[Neutraliy]

What are "social skills"? What is this "thing" we social outcast lack -- and that we're scapegoated for not improving -- in our search for mating partners?

I contend that no precise definition yet exists. People have different ideas about whose actions are "socially skilled," who "belongs in society," and who has the "medical disorder" of lacking said skills. Maybe someone doesn't "lack skill" but his society is just crappy. Or maybe judgments about lack of skill themselves proceed from a lack of skill. In the end it's all about your overall bones structure anything else is a cope. ​

 

[rhodie]

I've thought about this, all of these things are completely fabricated. And by who? Who fabricated them and why are these the societal norms?

 

[blackpillednigga]

social skills are only gained when you're a HTN that got alot of validation growing up thus feeling more confident and blending in easily with other groups

 

[OwariDa]

dnrd + take your meds

 

[Gokubro]

Social skills are your BONES.

 

[slashER]

We humans are designed to pick berries, hunt, have sex, sleep, shit, and eventually die. So all this "social skills" bullshit is entirely subjective.

 

[zerozerozero]

looks = social skills

 

[SCP-Gorillion]

Tbh autistic cannot even gain social skills, but HTN and up simply can learn about them and improve them and nt uggos and manlets are capable of learning them but also bullying makes them social outcasts

 

[based_meme]

Social skills are your BONES.

 

[incel god]

social skills are having a chad face. foid psychology is the same as dating coaches. just talk to women

 

[Clothgowns]

I think it has more to do with character development and self realization. If you're attractive that makes everything easier.

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

I think it has more to do with character development and self realization

lmao normies don't have 'character development,' they are just NPCs

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

high IQ thread

most normies drift through life belonging to society, and are integrated into it. they don't need to continually exercise any particular 'skills' in order to do it. if you need to develop 'skills,' then it's generally too late

normies with 'high social skills' are generally just boring and annoying if you actually meet them in person. they are rigid conformists and don't generally know how to adapt to conversing with people who aren't retarded

besides, it's not like socializing in the modern day of social media attention-seeking culture is the same as socializing in the 1800s. the culture changed, due primarily to economic and sociological reasons rather than anyone's 'skills'. but normies + psychs are retarded and think that society is always the same thing and only individuals are the problem, because they are more ardent collectivists than the CCP