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The metaphor I give to normies and IT to explain why incels are human beings

Spyisnotourspy

Spyisnotourspy

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We, humans, are social creatures, we survived as a specie because we worked together so our brain developed a bad feeling, loneliness to make us crave social interaction so that we pursue them, the exact same way hunger makes us crave food.

When you consider a person starving, you feel bad for them and you understand that their hunger is so strong that it makes them go crazy and do stupid shit especially in a world full of fast food restaurants where people throw away gigantic amount of food. You’re not thinking, these guys are psychopaths it’s all their fault for being such weirdos.

Incels are the same but with social interactions instead of food, normies fail to understand that both are vital to survive and that a normal human being can be rejected/ignored by most of his peers without any particular reasons. I empathize even with the most extreme incels who says very rude things, because they are those who suffer the most from isolation and most of them are never going to hurt anyone, they’re just being eaten away by loneliness. Yet all of us are treated as freaks, cavemen, degenerates.
I understand normies in a way, it’s difficult to imagine such a level of ostracism without knowing it by personal experience, and since they probably never will, it’s easier to think that we are the problem, but I think this metaphor can help normies understand.

What do you think about it?
 
We, humans, are social creatures
high IQ first post. @Diocel thoughts?
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That's the metaphor I use. We used to understand that, even though a madman's actions are reprehensible, they come from psychological damage. Like Cho. Back in 2007 he wasn't reviled. His actions were reviled, but the news coverage and public reaction was like "This guy clearly needed help." Help. Not to be made fun of or demonized.
 
Good first post.

it’s difficult to imagine such a level of ostracism without knowing it by personal experience
This is a key point, and this is why their advice is generally off the mark and worthless. They don't understand what it's like to be in our position as they have no experience of it, so they don't know how to advise us on how to get out of it because they don't know, so they resort to worthless platitudes.
 
We, humans, are social creatures, we survived as a specie because we worked together so our brain developed a bad feeling, loneliness to make us crave social interaction so that we pursue them, the exact same way hunger makes us crave food.

When you consider a person starving, you feel bad for them and you understand that their hunger is so strong that it makes them go crazy and do stupid shit especially in a world full of fast food restaurants where people throw away gigantic amount of food. You’re not thinking, these guys are psychopaths it’s all their fault for being such weirdos.

Incels are the same but with social interactions instead of food, normies fail to understand that both are vital to survive and that a normal human being can be rejected/ignored by most of his peers without any particular reasons. I empathize even with the most extreme incels who says very rude things, because they are those who suffer the most from isolation and most of them are never going to hurt anyone, they’re just being eaten away by loneliness. Yet all of us are treated as freaks, cavemen, degenerates.
I understand normies in a way, it’s difficult to imagine such a level of ostracism without knowing it by personal experience, and since they probably never will, it’s easier to think that we are the problem, but I think this metaphor can help normies understand.

What do you think about it?
Excellent post, well thought out analogy as well. Don't expect ITcels to touch this because it is simply too well made.
 
CuckTears won't touch this
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The denial of meaningful social contact wouldn’t be a problem if we not a social species, but we obviously are. Saying you don’t need social contact and sex for a healthy life is like saying you don’t need medicine if you never catch and illness, and saying you don’t need clean water cause people in Africa go without it for years on end. It’s just a way to keep incels and the socially ostracized out of the conversation/society
 
They always respond to this by saying that food is a much more important requirement to survive, but they simply do not even believe nor understand that being ugly results in a lifetime of ostracization and exclusion for factors that lie beyond our control. Seeing your good looking peers enjoy life and excel in every social interaction, while you are completely stagnant eventually wears you down to breaking point.
 
You can ask the normfags a question and substitute sex with food. The same norman logic they will use and reply "you eat to live, you should not eat just for the taste of it". Norman logic dont seem to comprehend that mother nature made food tasty so humans crave it so these humans dont die. Ie. the craving for sweet is like a involuntary reflex. Normons have this luxury position they can spout ideological nonsense. Meanwhile they all eat just for the taste of it never knowing what they eat and whats its use in their bodies. Same for sex. They pretend its about care in a long loving relationship. Meanwhile (even) fat little becky gets 150 tinderdates in 1 year and she still hasnt found her "true soulmate". She just fucks for the taste of it.
 
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That’s not a metaphor, it’s an analogy.
 
I don't think incels are starved of social interaction because we can just get it online now. Irl social interaction blows if you're ugly because everyone treats you like shit because your face is ugly, so to get social interaction we can go online now. It's another reason why introvert just means ugly. The reason why introverts are addicted to the internet is because they can actually enjoy social interaction online because irl if you have an ugly face and you're not tall enough to make up for it, it's over. The thing incels are starved of mainly is sex and relationships (which is still social interaction, but it's just with a female you bang).
 

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