Jabba The Hutt
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1) your dick is used to years of masturbation to porn
Let me tell you this: the first time I fucked an escort, the experience was quite bad, because I didn't feel much at all, because I had death grip syndrome from years of masturbation.
So the incel finally gets the courage to see a whore, but the experience sucks because he is not used to having actual sex.
The good news is: this is fixable. NoFap is basically the solution to it. So before you see an escort, you should do at least a few weeks of nofap, maybe more, depending on how much you masturbated before. And if you do need to masturbate, at least use a fleshlight.
My experiences got MUCH better once I had fixed this problem.
2) you will be too nervous to enjoy the experience.
Again. There is a pattern: Incel goes to see a whore for the first time. He is nervous as fuck, so he maybe doesn't get it up, and the entire experience will be shit. And again, incel draws the wrong conclusion from it, that escort coping sucks in principle.
This is like driving a car for the first time, being nervous as fuck, and then concluding driving cars just isn't for you (not realizing, that if you were to do it more often, you would eventually not be nervous anymore, and be able to enjoy the activity)
The solution is again: just do it more often.
If it still sucks after at least 10 attempts, then you can finally conclude it's not for you. But to make this conclusion just from the first time, is idiotic.
3) And this is the main reason: you are still brainwashed with bluepilled/gynocentric beliefs that only sex in a "relationship" is "real" sex
Many incels have this delusion, and it's quite pathetic to be honest.
This idea, that sex is only enjoyable in the context of a loving relationship, is culturally pretty new, and it is very gynocentric, because it benefits women (women benefit more from relationships than men, so it favors them if men believe that they need a relationship to get sex, what they really want)
This entire idea that "love" should be that basis for a relationship, is pretty new. For 99.9% of history, men just conquered women as war brides, or had arranged marriages. The idea that the woman should "love" you would have been totally alien to them. Of course in some of those relationships there was affection. But these men didn't see that as mandatory. It wasn't the main reason they got into a relationship.
And in a marriage, it was her duty to fulfill your sexual needs. Her desires didn't factor in at all. You also have to consider that the female orgasm is basically a biological accident. it's not required for reproduction.
I don't know the solution for this one. Many of you incels are low IQ, and you don't have the self awareness to question your own beliefs and dogmas.
Reading history can help. Reading about more androcentric cultures can help.
I wasn't always as based as I am now. so it is possible to slowly change your mindset.
And with the right mindset, you will be able to enjoy escort coping much more.
Let me tell you this: the first time I fucked an escort, the experience was quite bad, because I didn't feel much at all, because I had death grip syndrome from years of masturbation.
So the incel finally gets the courage to see a whore, but the experience sucks because he is not used to having actual sex.
The good news is: this is fixable. NoFap is basically the solution to it. So before you see an escort, you should do at least a few weeks of nofap, maybe more, depending on how much you masturbated before. And if you do need to masturbate, at least use a fleshlight.
My experiences got MUCH better once I had fixed this problem.
2) you will be too nervous to enjoy the experience.
Again. There is a pattern: Incel goes to see a whore for the first time. He is nervous as fuck, so he maybe doesn't get it up, and the entire experience will be shit. And again, incel draws the wrong conclusion from it, that escort coping sucks in principle.
This is like driving a car for the first time, being nervous as fuck, and then concluding driving cars just isn't for you (not realizing, that if you were to do it more often, you would eventually not be nervous anymore, and be able to enjoy the activity)
The solution is again: just do it more often.
If it still sucks after at least 10 attempts, then you can finally conclude it's not for you. But to make this conclusion just from the first time, is idiotic.
3) And this is the main reason: you are still brainwashed with bluepilled/gynocentric beliefs that only sex in a "relationship" is "real" sex
Many incels have this delusion, and it's quite pathetic to be honest.
This idea, that sex is only enjoyable in the context of a loving relationship, is culturally pretty new, and it is very gynocentric, because it benefits women (women benefit more from relationships than men, so it favors them if men believe that they need a relationship to get sex, what they really want)
This entire idea that "love" should be that basis for a relationship, is pretty new. For 99.9% of history, men just conquered women as war brides, or had arranged marriages. The idea that the woman should "love" you would have been totally alien to them. Of course in some of those relationships there was affection. But these men didn't see that as mandatory. It wasn't the main reason they got into a relationship.
And in a marriage, it was her duty to fulfill your sexual needs. Her desires didn't factor in at all. You also have to consider that the female orgasm is basically a biological accident. it's not required for reproduction.
I don't know the solution for this one. Many of you incels are low IQ, and you don't have the self awareness to question your own beliefs and dogmas.
Reading history can help. Reading about more androcentric cultures can help.
I wasn't always as based as I am now. so it is possible to slowly change your mindset.
And with the right mindset, you will be able to enjoy escort coping much more.
