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The main reasons 99% of incels won't be able to enjoy escort coping

Jabba The Hutt

Jabba The Hutt

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1) your dick is used to years of masturbation to porn

Let me tell you this: the first time I fucked an escort, the experience was quite bad, because I didn't feel much at all, because I had death grip syndrome from years of masturbation.
So the incel finally gets the courage to see a whore, but the experience sucks because he is not used to having actual sex.

The good news is: this is fixable. NoFap is basically the solution to it. So before you see an escort, you should do at least a few weeks of nofap, maybe more, depending on how much you masturbated before. And if you do need to masturbate, at least use a fleshlight.

My experiences got MUCH better once I had fixed this problem.

2) you will be too nervous to enjoy the experience.

Again. There is a pattern: Incel goes to see a whore for the first time. He is nervous as fuck, so he maybe doesn't get it up, and the entire experience will be shit. And again, incel draws the wrong conclusion from it, that escort coping sucks in principle.
This is like driving a car for the first time, being nervous as fuck, and then concluding driving cars just isn't for you (not realizing, that if you were to do it more often, you would eventually not be nervous anymore, and be able to enjoy the activity)
The solution is again: just do it more often.
If it still sucks after at least 10 attempts, then you can finally conclude it's not for you. But to make this conclusion just from the first time, is idiotic.

3) And this is the main reason: you are still brainwashed with bluepilled/gynocentric beliefs that only sex in a "relationship" is "real" sex

Many incels have this delusion, and it's quite pathetic to be honest.
This idea, that sex is only enjoyable in the context of a loving relationship, is culturally pretty new, and it is very gynocentric, because it benefits women (women benefit more from relationships than men, so it favors them if men believe that they need a relationship to get sex, what they really want)
This entire idea that "love" should be that basis for a relationship, is pretty new. For 99.9% of history, men just conquered women as war brides, or had arranged marriages. The idea that the woman should "love" you would have been totally alien to them. Of course in some of those relationships there was affection. But these men didn't see that as mandatory. It wasn't the main reason they got into a relationship.
And in a marriage, it was her duty to fulfill your sexual needs. Her desires didn't factor in at all. You also have to consider that the female orgasm is basically a biological accident. it's not required for reproduction.


I don't know the solution for this one. Many of you incels are low IQ, and you don't have the self awareness to question your own beliefs and dogmas.
Reading history can help. Reading about more androcentric cultures can help.

I wasn't always as based as I am now. so it is possible to slowly change your mindset.
And with the right mindset, you will be able to enjoy escort coping much more.
 
i owned a fleshlight and my dad stumbled across one day as i was in the room

utter suifuel
 
Another reason (and the only reason for me, personally) is you always gotta use a condom. You're actually fucking a plastic bag.
 
Another reason (and the only reason for me, personally) is you always gotta use a condom. You're actually fucking a plastic bag.
even if you were a normie, you would want to use a condom. unless you want to be enslaved paying child support to some cunt for the rest of your life. so this is a bad argument.
 
even if you were a normie, you would want to use a condom. unless you want to be enslaved paying child support to some cunt for the rest of your life. so this is a bad argument.
This 'bad' argument is a million times more intelligent than any of your 3.
 
@ADHD_cel thoughts?
No particular thoughts about this ngl. I just seek pleasure in escortceling without overthinking, kek. I don’t care how the foids perceive me nor if other men view it as cuck behavior. Sex is sex, nothing else.
 
This 'bad' argument is a million times more intelligent than any of your 3.
yeah ok idiot. you would end up paying 20-30% of your income to some cunt for a kid you are not even allowed to see (and the mother will also brainwash the kid to hate you) if you were a normie.
 
why i wont enjoy is i am high inhib and its temporary.
 
why i wont enjoy is i am high inhib and its temporary.
everything is temporary. even if you managed to get into a relationship, your girlfriend can break up with you any time
 
why i wont enjoy is i am high inhib and its temporary.
and your inhibition is correlated to your experience.
in most activities if you do them the first time, you will be high inhib. but once you get experience. you will become more low inhib.
so it's simply a matter of doing it regularly
 
Fuck escortcucking. Fuck this nigger life.
 
glad to see you back pres
 
you cannot enjoy the sex if the foid makes you feel how disgusting you are for her :forcedsmile:
 
Don't give money to foids just for having roast-beef flaps between their legs.
No woman is entitled to such easy source of income.
Spend your hard earned money somewhere else.
You don't want to be the cuck who pays a girl for something she gives for free to other men.
 
Don't give money to foids just for having roast-beef flaps between their legs.
No woman is entitled to such easy source of income.
Spend your hard earned money somewhere else.
You don't want to be the cuck who pays a girl for something she gives for free to other men.
based. w take
 
Don't give money to foids just for having roast-beef flaps between their legs.
No woman is entitled to such easy source of income.
Spend your hard earned money somewhere else.
You don't want to be the cuck who pays a girl for something she gives for free to other men.
This.
 
Yes incel IQ is below average

We need To put more effort into learning and being high IQ
 
I don't have the money for it nor the will to participate in intercouse with females that are, deep down, unattracted to me.
 
You have to be very rich to have productive enjoyment with escortmaxxing. Even the cheapest and ugliest escorts in Turkey asks for one-fifth of the minimum wage and leaves after sex without stay even one night, it's definitely not worth it.
 
No advocating for incels to make better use of their brain
Note the cognitive limitations (hard cap) for every individual within our community — you can take the entire genetic pool into account, too.

Do you think ADHD is a real mental development impairing condition?
 
Note the cognitive limitations (hard cap) for every individual within our community — you can take the entire genetic pool into account, too.
Yes but I believe in the growth mindset

I can learn way faster if I put in more effort
 
I can learn way faster if I put in more effort
I'd like to relate on this very last sentence, but my (most) recent life experiences have shown otherwise.
 
Another reason (and the only reason for me, personally) is you always gotta use a condom. You're actually fucking a plastic bag.
 
Your first 2 points make sense, but I think you're coping in your third. I want a foid who loves me and that I can love back, and I think most want that too.
 
1) your dick is used to years of masturbation to porn

Let me tell you this: the first time I fucked an escort, the experience was quite bad, because I didn't feel much at all, because I had death grip syndrome from years of masturbation.
So the incel finally gets the courage to see a whore, but the experience sucks because he is not used to having actual sex.

The good news is: this is fixable. NoFap is basically the solution to it. So before you see an escort, you should do at least a few weeks of nofap, maybe more, depending on how much you masturbated before. And if you do need to masturbate, at least use a fleshlight.

My experiences got MUCH better once I had fixed this problem.

2) you will be too nervous to enjoy the experience.

Again. There is a pattern: Incel goes to see a whore for the first time. He is nervous as fuck, so he maybe doesn't get it up, and the entire experience will be shit. And again, incel draws the wrong conclusion from it, that escort coping sucks in principle.
This is like driving a car for the first time, being nervous as fuck, and then concluding driving cars just isn't for you (not realizing, that if you were to do it more often, you would eventually not be nervous anymore, and be able to enjoy the activity)
The solution is again: just do it more often.
If it still sucks after at least 10 attempts, then you can finally conclude it's not for you. But to make this conclusion just from the first time, is idiotic.

3) And this is the main reason: you are still brainwashed with bluepilled/gynocentric beliefs that only sex in a "relationship" is "real" sex

Many incels have this delusion, and it's quite pathetic to be honest.
This idea, that sex is only enjoyable in the context of a loving relationship, is culturally pretty new, and it is very gynocentric, because it benefits women (women benefit more from relationships than men, so it favors them if men believe that they need a relationship to get sex, what they really want)
This entire idea that "love" should be that basis for a relationship, is pretty new. For 99.9% of history, men just conquered women as war brides, or had arranged marriages. The idea that the woman should "love" you would have been totally alien to them. Of course in some of those relationships there was affection. But these men didn't see that as mandatory. It wasn't the main reason they got into a relationship.
And in a marriage, it was her duty to fulfill your sexual needs. Her desires didn't factor in at all. You also have to consider that the female orgasm is basically a biological accident. it's not required for reproduction.


I don't know the solution for this one. Many of you incels are low IQ, and you don't have the self awareness to question your own beliefs and dogmas.
Reading history can help. Reading about more androcentric cultures can help.

I wasn't always as based as I am now. so it is possible to slowly change your mindset.
And with the right mindset, you will be able to enjoy escort coping much more.
Does the foid enjoy the fact that u last long in bed? Or is she desperate to get it over with I want to compare experiences as I'm considering being done with escorts aswell.
 

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