I sometimes daydream about being a father. I also reflect on the way my dad raised me and how much of a bad job he did.
If I had a son, I know exactly what I would do for him. I would provide the protection, the guidance, the advantages that my father didn't give me.
These are some of the things I would do, and things my own father failed to do for me:
Foundation: Firstly, I would start by making sure that I am healthy to be a father. I would make sure I have no physical ailments or disabilities. Next, the woman that I select to be his mother. If there's one thing that's truly out of our control, it's deciding who our parents will be. My mother turned out to be a psycho, unfit for parenting. I can't believe my dad did this to me. Things I would look for: her height, facial proportions, mental stability, character, etc.
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) I'll allocate a dedicated fund from birth exclusively for potential future cosmetic procedures, just in case he gets a bit unlucky in the genetic lottery.
Bodily autonomy: I will not circumcise him like my parents did to me. I will not mutilate his private parts because 'it doesn't look right'. That's primitive thinking.
Education: I would never send him to public school where he'll get bullied and develop mental problems. I'll have him privately educated or home schooled. Spending seven-hour-a-day in a psychological trench around hundreds of kids who you're not related to and who don't love you sounds like a bad idea. I don't know why parents don't think about that. I will also engineer his social circle by facilitating interactions through controlled environments like martial arts dojos, debates clubs, or supervised male-only groups. This will forced him to interact in mixed-gender settings to burn off social anxiety and learn to lead.
If he's going to do a degree, I'll advise him to anchor his choices that will lead to fields that have high ROI and are AI-proof:
Social: Teach him self defence. That way he'll be able to protect himself if someone tries to emasculate him, and he won't toss and turn in bed recounting haunting memories of not standing up for himself.
I would encourage him to build a personal brand and create a following. Help him create a YouTube channel focused on a lucrative hobby (e.g., tech reviews, music production, video editing). This will provide a passive source of income and social status.
I will give him free driving learns by teaching him how to drive.
Love/Marriage: I will look to get him married young in his late teens, so he wouldn't waste his youth rotting in porn and loneliness like I did. He wouldn't even need to have kids, just to have someone, that intimacy early would be enough.
But here is what stops me cold: I would be consumed with envy watching him live the life I should have had. Every milestone he hits, every confident smile, easy friendships, every moment of intimacy with his toilet would be a brutal reminder of what I never had.
There's no guarantee he would even be grateful for all my efforts. He might resent me for being overbearing. He might take it all for granted. He might look at my struggles with pity, not understanding that his entire existence was built on the ashes of mine. He might commit a crime and embarrass my reputation.
So why bother? To pour my entire soul into someone who might just turn out to be another ungrateful normie, oblivious to the pain it took to build his easy life?
No. It's better this way. The cycle of pain ends with me.
If I had a son, I know exactly what I would do for him. I would provide the protection, the guidance, the advantages that my father didn't give me.
These are some of the things I would do, and things my own father failed to do for me:
Foundation: Firstly, I would start by making sure that I am healthy to be a father. I would make sure I have no physical ailments or disabilities. Next, the woman that I select to be his mother. If there's one thing that's truly out of our control, it's deciding who our parents will be. My mother turned out to be a psycho, unfit for parenting. I can't believe my dad did this to me. Things I would look for: her height, facial proportions, mental stability, character, etc.
Looksmaxxing Trust Fund (
) I'll allocate a dedicated fund from birth exclusively for potential future cosmetic procedures, just in case he gets a bit unlucky in the genetic lottery.Bodily autonomy: I will not circumcise him like my parents did to me. I will not mutilate his private parts because 'it doesn't look right'. That's primitive thinking.
Education: I would never send him to public school where he'll get bullied and develop mental problems. I'll have him privately educated or home schooled. Spending seven-hour-a-day in a psychological trench around hundreds of kids who you're not related to and who don't love you sounds like a bad idea. I don't know why parents don't think about that. I will also engineer his social circle by facilitating interactions through controlled environments like martial arts dojos, debates clubs, or supervised male-only groups. This will forced him to interact in mixed-gender settings to burn off social anxiety and learn to lead.
If he's going to do a degree, I'll advise him to anchor his choices that will lead to fields that have high ROI and are AI-proof:
- Computer Science / Software Engineering
- Electrical or Mechanical Engineering
- Finance / Accounting
- Law (tech-focused or corporate)
- Cybersecurity / Data Analytics
Social: Teach him self defence. That way he'll be able to protect himself if someone tries to emasculate him, and he won't toss and turn in bed recounting haunting memories of not standing up for himself.
I would encourage him to build a personal brand and create a following. Help him create a YouTube channel focused on a lucrative hobby (e.g., tech reviews, music production, video editing). This will provide a passive source of income and social status.
I will give him free driving learns by teaching him how to drive.
Love/Marriage: I will look to get him married young in his late teens, so he wouldn't waste his youth rotting in porn and loneliness like I did. He wouldn't even need to have kids, just to have someone, that intimacy early would be enough.
But here is what stops me cold: I would be consumed with envy watching him live the life I should have had. Every milestone he hits, every confident smile, easy friendships, every moment of intimacy with his toilet would be a brutal reminder of what I never had.
There's no guarantee he would even be grateful for all my efforts. He might resent me for being overbearing. He might take it all for granted. He might look at my struggles with pity, not understanding that his entire existence was built on the ashes of mine. He might commit a crime and embarrass my reputation.
So why bother? To pour my entire soul into someone who might just turn out to be another ungrateful normie, oblivious to the pain it took to build his easy life?
No. It's better this way. The cycle of pain ends with me.
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