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Blackpill The blackpill can have a soothing effect on the soul

Justanotherbloke

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At first, it’s brutal, realizing how much of life is dictated by factors beyond your control. The rage phase hits hard, followed by the depressive slump. But once the initial shock fades, there’s an odd sense of relief.
Finally, you understand. It’s not just you. The evidence is everywhere, lookism, hypergamy, the way people unconsciously judge status and attractiveness within seconds. Studies on first impressions and dating app stats confirm it. Knowing the truth doesn’t change reality, but it does quiet the self-blame.

Of course, some drown in nihilism. Others find a grim peace in acceptance.
I find myself going back and forth, transitioning from the depression stage to the one of acceptance and apathy.
 
Accept you're reality is Important
 
Accept you're reality is Important
Yes and quitting the self blame too.
I really want to stop blaming myself.
It's not my fault, cause I didn't ask to be born into this world.
It's not my fault, that dating revolves around superficial lookism
 
Yes and quitting the self blame too.
I really want to stop blaming myself.
It's not my fault, cause I didn't ask to be born into this world.
It's not my fault, that dating revolves around superficial lookism
Yup. Çest çest.
 
A combination of numbness and dissociation and a healthy tinge of mental derangement help sooth and distract from the pain.
 
Once you reach your late 20s all that will be left is apathy and acceptance.
 
Yeah yeah Just don't become a cuck, spread some hate at least for fuck's sake
 
After I accepted the blackpill I feel way happier, I maximize cope and chill at home whenever I can; interaction irl is brutal and useless
 
It is very freeing understanding it's far from just yourself.

The few times I had an actual discussion with a therapist on blackpill and lookism, all of them assumed I thought I was the ugliest one. I'm the ugly duckling. No, I immediately said many men are going through this. And they never had a good answer for that. The best attempt was saying my forefathers had children, and then that gets into environmental debate.
 
The best attempt was saying my forefathers had children, and then that gets into environmental debate.
The classic survivorship bias cope. They only see the guys who were able to pass on their genes while ignoring all the other dies who died khhv
 

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