
Justanotherbloke
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At first, it’s brutal, realizing how much of life is dictated by factors beyond your control. The rage phase hits hard, followed by the depressive slump. But once the initial shock fades, there’s an odd sense of relief.
Finally, you understand. It’s not just you. The evidence is everywhere, lookism, hypergamy, the way people unconsciously judge status and attractiveness within seconds. Studies on first impressions and dating app stats confirm it. Knowing the truth doesn’t change reality, but it does quiet the self-blame.
Of course, some drown in nihilism. Others find a grim peace in acceptance.
I find myself going back and forth, transitioning from the depression stage to the one of acceptance and apathy.
Finally, you understand. It’s not just you. The evidence is everywhere, lookism, hypergamy, the way people unconsciously judge status and attractiveness within seconds. Studies on first impressions and dating app stats confirm it. Knowing the truth doesn’t change reality, but it does quiet the self-blame.
Of course, some drown in nihilism. Others find a grim peace in acceptance.
I find myself going back and forth, transitioning from the depression stage to the one of acceptance and apathy.