Inbuddhist
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It's false when you see it in an absolute way, as in only 20% of guys are having sex.
It's true when you read this way :
Top 20% guys : Don't have to work a lot for it or not at all. Their sexual/romantic life fulfills 3 conditions.
1 : ) Diversity : They aren't extremely dependant on one girl, if one threatens to leave, throws a tantrum, becomes distant or don't wanna give them blowjob, they can leave whenever they want or cheat on her, because they always have alternatives, they can find another girl immediately.
2 : ) Stability, because of point 1 they always have a sexual/romantic life, whenever they want, it's not dependant on a strike of luck, or the whims of a particular girl.
3 : ) Power. linked to point 1 and 2. Some incels may think "But i just want one girl, i wouldn't be a degenerate even if i was a chad", this may be, but what you fail to understand is that, even if you want a LTR, it's good to have POWER in the relationship. The girl becomes more attracted/attached/and eager to please when she knows that you have high value and the possibility to replace her and cheat on her whenever you wants, so it's not about necessarily using the alternatives, jst having them makes the LTR more pleasant, it even makes you more confident, more natural and less dependant on the relationship, which will make the girl be attracted even more. It makes even sex better because they can be more domineering, and in general in the relationship they can take more risk, because it's not their only and unique option.
The other 80%, some of them may have sporadic sex or a relationship there and there, but lacking all the 3 precedent conditions, they are always either deluded or insecure, may live long sexless period or periods of loneliness, become dependant to the girl and feel they have to buy her stuff and constantly prove their value etc etc, their relationships are precarious, the girl will more often lose attraction or cheats on them after they show any sign of weakness, or because she found a chad, the girls are also often trying to forget a 20% ex, or thinking about a 20% chad to fuck while having the relationship with the 80%.
It's true when you read this way :
Top 20% guys : Don't have to work a lot for it or not at all. Their sexual/romantic life fulfills 3 conditions.
1 : ) Diversity : They aren't extremely dependant on one girl, if one threatens to leave, throws a tantrum, becomes distant or don't wanna give them blowjob, they can leave whenever they want or cheat on her, because they always have alternatives, they can find another girl immediately.
2 : ) Stability, because of point 1 they always have a sexual/romantic life, whenever they want, it's not dependant on a strike of luck, or the whims of a particular girl.
3 : ) Power. linked to point 1 and 2. Some incels may think "But i just want one girl, i wouldn't be a degenerate even if i was a chad", this may be, but what you fail to understand is that, even if you want a LTR, it's good to have POWER in the relationship. The girl becomes more attracted/attached/and eager to please when she knows that you have high value and the possibility to replace her and cheat on her whenever you wants, so it's not about necessarily using the alternatives, jst having them makes the LTR more pleasant, it even makes you more confident, more natural and less dependant on the relationship, which will make the girl be attracted even more. It makes even sex better because they can be more domineering, and in general in the relationship they can take more risk, because it's not their only and unique option.
The other 80%, some of them may have sporadic sex or a relationship there and there, but lacking all the 3 precedent conditions, they are always either deluded or insecure, may live long sexless period or periods of loneliness, become dependant to the girl and feel they have to buy her stuff and constantly prove their value etc etc, their relationships are precarious, the girl will more often lose attraction or cheats on them after they show any sign of weakness, or because she found a chad, the girls are also often trying to forget a 20% ex, or thinking about a 20% chad to fuck while having the relationship with the 80%.
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