These are just a few thoughts I have about inceldom.
Full disclosure, I'm 46 years old. I asked a girl out once in my life when I was 19 and was brutally turned down. In my early 20s I really wanted a girlfriend and had dreams of relationship and marriage, and was intensely jealous of my peers my age who were dating and getting engaged. However, by the time I got to my late 20s I stopped trying altogether and gave up the idea for a variety of reasons.
Reason 1:
Over the years I have increasingly become more aware of female nature and how illogical, duplicitous and disingenuous all foids are. I'm also fully both "red pilled" and "black pilled" at the same time about the realities of female attraction triggers. Females are viscerally attracted to physically and socially dominant men. That is the essence of the “red pill”. In light of this, today's feminist environment, blue pilled gynocentric society, social media and online dating culture are all social pressures that have massively increased the number of male sexual outcasts in society, far more so than at any point in human history.
I am also aware that males inherently fall under a natural hierarchy that is largely genetic.
Roman Reigns, Dwayne Johnson and Jeremy Meeks were born Chads. You guys reading this were born incels. Most of the rest of the male population browsing dating apps or stuck in unhappy marriages are beta males who lie somewhere in between those two extremes. This is determined by the genetic lottery. That is the essence of the “black pill”. In today’s world this natural hierarchy is the key paradigm that determines which males receive the attraction and attention of all females. I am under no illusion about this.
In the past, social norms were designed to override the female base impulse in order ensure a healthier and more prosperous society. This was the world of our grandfathers and prior. A world of arranged marriage, strict social enforcement of gender roles, and women being raised to obey their husbands. 100 years ago someone like myself would be happily married in an arranged marriage with a solid 5 who would have been raised to be an obedient housewife. This would be true for most of you reading this forum right now.
That world is long gone. In today’s world, attempting to “ascend with a foid” (to quote a phrase most of you young ones use these days) is basically applying an out-dated strategy to a game whose rules have changed. It is foolish and delusional to even consider “dating” in the traditional sense in today’s sexual dystopia. You cannot win a game that is rigged against you.
Reason 2:
I am by nature a logical person, as I assume most on this forum are. High functioning autists with a natural aptitude for mathematics, systematic analysis and straightforward communication. All completely the opposite of the way most females communicate.
Dissimulation is innate in women. Once this became clear to me I lost all interest in trying to connect with females in any way. I have zero patience for all females outside of seeing them as sex objects.
Reason 3:
I went on a trip to a Caribbean island (St. Marteen) when I was 26 where I lost my virginity to an island prostitute. This is not to brag that I am a “sex haver”. The only sexual contact I have ever had with females have been with paid hookers.
However, the fact that sex can be bought and paid for with money opened my eyes as to
exactly what I want from women. I have zero interest in a “real girlfriend” in the way a Chad or a beta would define it.
You might call this a “cope”. I call it an understanding of reality, an evaluation of my position on the chess board and a maturity with age that enables me to make the best moves for my own happiness given my current station in life.
Final thoughts:
Given my age, I only became aware of the incel subculture within the last 5 years. I have no idea what my life would have been like had I been exposed to this level of “red pilling” and “black pilling” in my teens and early twenties like many of you reading this are.
However, as an older incel man here is my advice for you younger guys, take it or leave it.
- Resentment is useless: You were fed a lie that men and women are equal and that women want to be treated “equal to men”. Most of you know this, obviously, but still hold resentment over the fact that this pernicious lie was fed to you. This resentment is useless.
Feminism is a lie. Society lied to us. Women by their very nature are liars. Accept it and get over it.
- Fully give up the idea of a “real girlfriend”: You are not Chad. You are not even betabuxx. You are incel. This is of no fault of your own. This is genetic lottery as explained above. That is a fact. The fact that you cannot do anything about that and your expectations of trying to be someone you’re not will eat a hole of negativity in your life that simply isn’t worth it. Accept this reality and get over it.
- Make money and fuck hookers: Once all the points above are fully understood and imbibed, the only next logical step for men like us is Moneymaxx, Escortmaxx. ‘nuff said.
Today my sexual outlets are the occasional escort but also a Tantaly torso doll, a fleshlight, a Doc Johnson pocket pussy and VR porn. I can enjoy all these things worry free because I have overcome my resentment over never having this blue-pilled version of so-called “real relationship”.
My final word to you young Padawans as an older incel is to fully accept and embrace every objective fact listed above, let go of resentments and expectations of something you will never get, enjoy what you can get, and with age, life gets better.
Stop whining. Make money. Fuck hookers.
