Blackpill “Stop chasing validation from others sweaty xxo” is low IQ bluepill gigacope

[UrgyYevhenii]

You NEED validation as a living, breathing, human being, we are social animals, and without external validation of some kind from others, the soul and mind will ROT and fester from within, you cannot EVER be healthy unless you get validation and the assurance you have VALUE to your social circle

Those who say “learn to love yourself and stop chasing validation”, NO SURPRISES, are EXACTLY THOSE PEOPLE WHO GET A LOT OF LIFE VALIDATION, therefore maintain a high self esteem and love for themselves

Ugly man: ***exists in Suffering***
Attractive people: “stop chasing external validation! Work on yourself!”

IS THE EXACT SAME BULLSHIT as

Poor man: ***exists in suffering***
rich people: “Just stop being poor LOL!”

only difference is... YOU CAN WORKYOUR WAY OUT OF POVERTY.YOU WILL****NEVER**** work your way out of UGLINESS

External validation is critical to a fulfilling and meaningful life with others

 

[jerrycan dan]

YOU CAN WORKYOUR WAY OUT OF POVERTY.

Depends who you are and what you can do/are doing. A lot of people aren't even capable of that because of their innate characteristics.

 

[BachusPL]

JUST BE YOURSELF BRO

 

[Deleted member 23656]

The people who say that are just pretending they're not coping anyway

 

[Words2_live_bye]

only difference is... YOU CAN WORKYOUR WAY OUT OF POVERTY.YOU WILL****NEVER**** work your way out of UGLINESS

 

[Monk of Failure]

Validation is rewarding and rewarding is important in life.

 

[Shigechi]

Normies say this while using social media 8 hours a day looking for validation. Jfl.

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

Normies and foids of course want validation because they are low iq imbeciles but validation would get me nothing. If i was chad, i could get all the sex i wanted, i could get a high paying job, and people would treat me with respect. But thats not about validation, thats about getting what i want with my looks. Just having people tell me that i am handsome and socially desirable is worthless, i actually need the benefits of that. But women just want validation for itself, that is their crack cocaine. They want to look around and have compliments thrown at them and to know that they are higher status than everyone else. I am not that stupid

What would i get from some dumbass normies and foids complimenting me? Nothing, i wouldnt care at all, what does their opinion mean? Its like saying i need validation from chimps or from my pet iguana. I want real, tangible things like sex and money, not half baked compliments and attention from people who can barely pass their 10th grade history class.

Obviously, people who say crap like “stop chasing validation from others, just focus on yourself” are gigabluepilled idiots who want validation themselves, and nothing they say has any value. But just because they are fueled on validation does not mean that I am or that it is naturally what all humans need.

 

[Iwanttolive]

The people who say that are just pretending they're not coping anyway

 

[TheIncelStaresBack]

People that say this are already being validated by everyone around them, they just take it for granted.

 

[FlamingCel]

Validation is rewarding and rewarding is important in life.

 

[UrgyYevhenii]

People that say this are already being validated by everyone around them, they just take it for granted.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

I hate how blue pillers spew this shit out like they are magic spells

 

[Tyrny]

EXCUSE ME!? What you need is SHOWER more and work on your PERSONALITY rather than worry about who's GETTING LAID and why you think it's based on their APPEARANCE, Why! If I had a dollar for every time I heard from a FEMCEL that she's a LANDWHALE when she's actually a curvy goddess and needs to use the treadmill to increase her CONFIDENCE and then she gets the CHAD of her dreams! Why is it so hard for you people to understand ATTRACTION, just go out and give it your BEST SHOT! What do you have to lose? TEE. HEE.

 

[KingOfRome]

You're missing the real meaning behind this advice. They're not really saying you should stop seeking validation because it wouldn't be nice to have, or it would somehow come to you by magic. What they're really saying is it will never, ever, EVER come to you, and all you do by dwelling on it is put unnecessary stress on yourself, so you're better off keeping it far away from your thoughts and focusing on your copes.

 

[Deleted member 21227]

You're missing the real meaning behind this advice. They're not really saying you should stop seeking validation because it wouldn't be nice to have, or it would somehow come to you by magic. What they're really saying is it will never, ever, EVER come to you, and all you do by dwelling on it is put unnecessary stress on yourself, so you're better off keeping it far away from your thoughts and focusing on your copes.

Brutal.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

Normies are fucking retarded. They give advice not actually help someone else, but to feel like a good person.

 

[Convergence]

Not validation, which is more narcissistic, but recognition yes.
Love requires pairbond, and thus cannot sprout from isolation. "You have to love yourself first" is a thoughtless platitude which basically says "SHUT UP I'M HAVING SEX. ROT ALONE".