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Brutal Sorry I just have to make an update/vent

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Came back from car&airplane-museum and restaurant trip with my dad

- small kid said, pointing at me, "he looks funny"
- many people stared or pointed at me, most made a comment
- old people (in restaurant) and a group of tourists joked about my face. As in made implied "jokes" and also quite direct "jokes" - or more accurately, comments - about my face. I'm so saddened by this, venting here helps a bit.

All, like always, with no regard that I may overhear.

But sure....he's deformed and look different so let's make fun of him, he's nothing.

I'm just a lonely, timid, shy guy (mostly due to being ugly), who wants a gf but is rejected by society due to deformities, nothing more. Only person I'll ever hurt is myself, if at all. I'll probably never will.
 
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Brutal man. People can be cruel. When I was in middle school they called me “pear face” because of my big forehead and narrow jaw. I was also skinny and they joked around that I was anorexic. They jokingly offered me candy bars so I wouldn’t starve.
 
I'm sorry to hear that man, do you believe you can maybe be saved by surgery within a reasonable amount of money?
 
Maybe if you have deformities consider wearing a mask in public. Like a face mask. The normie advice would be me telling you to not care and take 69 showers and work on your pERsonality but the real advice is be mindful of what people think about you and deal with it like a politician would. With that being said dont let it get to you so just like politician when you behind closed doors take that mask off and return to your true self. Fuck what people think but in the same time it is all we think about.
 
Maybe if you have deformities consider wearing a mask in public. Like a face mask.
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have similar stories, hurts a bit too read the thread. how you feel better brocel
 
Children are not innocent. The same children who make fun of you now are the ones that grow up to be the normies that treat you like crap.

It’s human nature to exploit someone else’s appearance for a quick laugh.
 
Incredibly brutal man, I salute you for enduring it and not making a scene but yea, I dislike going outside for this exact reason
 
I'm sorry to hear that man, do you believe you can maybe be saved by surgery within a reasonable amount of money?
Unfortunately, no. I've talked to 4 surgeons in the past 3 years. The problem is not only my facial structure and skull/head form but also the underlying facial muscles and bones. And most importantly I have A LOT of actual nerves in the depths of my face (these are only visible with a ct scan/x-ray). This makes surgery very hard to impossible anyway, and the surgeries that MIGHT help A BIT start at 50k altogether
 
I'm sorry to hear that man, do you believe you can maybe be saved by surgery within a reasonable amount of money?
But thank you for your empathy bro, you're a nice guy.
 
Maybe if you have deformities consider wearing a mask in public. Like a face mask. The normie advice would be me telling you to not care and take 69 showers and work on your pERsonality but the real advice is be mindful of what people think about you and deal with it like a politician would. With that being said dont let it get to you so just like politician when you behind closed doors take that mask off and return to your true self. Fuck what people think but in the same time it is all we think about.
Good idea actually and good points. I understand.

During corona I often wore a mask but it didn't really help it only reduced my anxiety a bit. Wearing hat sunglasses or both doesn't help either my face and head (they're structure, missing facial bones, shape, dimensions....) are unimaginably fucked. I know I shouldn't let it get to me and it's mell meaning advice but it's been happening every time I go outside for the past 14 or so years now (I'm 27).
 
Sorry that youre going through all the evil normie things. Heartless hypocrites. People sometimes pointed the finger at me, it hurts.
 
Sorry you gotta deal with that, man
 
Brutal, my condolences.

What’s awful, is that you genuinely have one of the best personalities here- I mean it. Anyone would assume based on the way you type, that you are smart & very nuanced in understanding others, based on your experiences.
 
Incredibly brutal man, I salute you for enduring it and not making a scene but yea, I dislike going outside for this exact reason
Thanks man.
 
Good idea actually and good points. I understand.

During corona I often wore a mask but it didn't really help it only reduced my anxiety a bit. Wearing hat sunglasses or both doesn't help either my face and head (they're structure, missing facial bones, shape, dimensions....) are unimaginably fucked. I know I shouldn't let it get to me and it's mell meaning advice but it's been happening every time I go outside for the past 14 or so years now (I'm 27).
No way, if you wear a mask, sunglasses and hat, you wont look deformed in the face maybe all is left is the neck so maybea turtle neck or a scarf or a hoodie or something
 
Brutal, my condolences.

What’s awful, is that you genuinely have one of the best personalities here- I mean it. Anyone would assume based on the way you type, that you are smart & very nuanced in understanding others, based on your experiences.
Thank you brother, really appreciate you saying that.
 
I'm sorry man. It sounds like a really brutal experience :feelsbadman:
 
No way, if you wear a mask, sunglasses and hat, you wont look deformed in the face maybe all is left is the neck so maybea turtle neck or a scarf or a hoodie or something
Then the shape of my head/skull is the problem... the distance of my ears to the back of my head and ears to the mask (or without the mask, the eyes, nose and mouth)
 
Unfortunately, no. I've talked to 4 surgeons in the past 3 years. The problem is not only my facial structure and skull/head form but also the underlying facial muscles and bones. And most importantly I have A LOT of actual nerves in the depths of my face (these are only visible with a ct scan/x-ray). This makes surgery very hard to impossible anyway, and the surgeries that MIGHT help A BIT start at 50k altogether
thats really unfortunate man, you were dealt a very bad hand in life. I was gonna tell you to wear a mask, but i read your other reply and it seems it won't work. This is a sick joke by god.
 
thats really unfortunate man, you were dealt a very bad hand in life. I was gonna tell you to wear a mask, but i read your other reply and it seems it won't work. This is a sick joke by god.
The fact any of us are here is a sick joke by nature
 
Brutal, my condolences.

What’s awful, is that you genuinely have one of the best personalities here- I mean it. Anyone would assume based on the way you type, that you are smart & very nuanced in understanding others, based on your experiences.
it makes me sad that this shit happens to good people but some sociopath piece of shit gets to spend the rest of their life fucking people over and never paying any consequences for it :cryfeels:
 
That is absolutely brutal
 
Sorry that youre going through all the evil normie things. Heartless hypocrites. People sometimes pointed the finger at me, it hurts.
Thank you for understanding man, yeah I don't understand how even middle aged or old people make jokes about my face/head. I look weird af ok but just ignore me
 
Came back from car&airplane-museum and restaurant trip with my dad

- small kid said, pointing at me, "he looks funny"
- many people stared or pointed at me, most made a comment
- old people (in restaurant) and a group of tourists joked about my face. As in made implied "jokes" and also quite direct "jokes" - or more accurately, comments - about my face. I'm so saddened by this, venting here helps a bit.

All, like always, with no regard that I may overhear.

But sure....he's deformed and look different so let's make fun of him, he's nothing.

I'm just a lonely, timid, shy guy (mostly due to being ugly), who wants a gf but is rejected by society due to deformities, nothing more. Only person I'll ever hurt is myself, if at all. I'll probably never will.
You will never be happy in your country, I know because I go through the same shit but your case sound even more brutal than mine. Random people don't point to me on the street and make fun of me JFL. But when I was working in a restaurant with a bunch of zoomers they made fun of me balding and being ugly 24/7 and kept mocking me all day for literally no reason, I literally did nothing to this people and they would mock and put me down and bully me for their own amusement.

Idk if you are doing this already, but you should wear a hood when you go out. I never go out without wearing a hoodie, it hides a lot of your face, especially when you pull it down. In my case it's even better because it masks the fact I am bald. Also wear tight shirts to mask your chin. Basically reveal as little as your face as possible, it helps me a lot maybe it will help you too.

You need to try going Asia or some shit, staying in your country the only other option is to just lock yourself in your room and enjoy what little copes there are. Watch anime, play vidya, eat food all day, whatever makes you happier if that's the road you want to go down on. Or save some money and go to Philiphinnes to try ascend there, or at least go to Pattaya or some other SEA whore city and have a good time with pay for play, but then again I know some people that would just go to a local escort instead. I am too high inhib to go to a western escort that is why I am going to Asia, my mind works in a retarded way because I am autistic but basically in my mind noodle foids are subhuman so its easier for me to be confident around them and easier to try to fuck them for money if that makes sense, its a lot harder for me to do the same with western woman. Especially as I already tried getting with many western women not whores normal women and I got rejected brutally a lot so fk this shit im out.
 
Thank you for understanding man, yeah I don't understand how even middle aged or old people make jokes about my face/head. I look weird af ok but just ignore me
Bunch of retards, cant mind their own business.
 
I fucking hate normies man. Every single one of them is a cruel bastard. When I see a trucel outside I do my best to not give them any negative attention and if I have to meet one I always act respectful just like I do with everyone else cause I can understand the shit they have to go through. I grew up with the idea that everyone is to be treated equally and that really is a good virtue but guess what... It's the normshits that do the complete opposite always. They jump on every chance to make their miserable mediocre existence seem superior to someone less fortunate.
 
When you are unatractive, weaker and different (Autistic, disability), people begin showing their true colours.
 
Sorry this happened to you brocel :feelsbadman:

I usually get lots of stares and frowns from people when I'm out, so I can kinda relate. Those people openly making fun of you are animals for real
 
Came back from car&airplane-museum and restaurant trip with my dad

- small kid said, pointing at me, "he looks funny"
Bro WTF, if I was that kids father I would have absolutely beat his ass into the dirt in public for that kind of thing.
And he would have had to apologize to you while bawling his eyes out while he tastes the blood running out of his own nose.
That's absolutely cruel to do to anybody, especially someone that can't help but make the best of it.

It's really quite a shame that these people are allowed to be parents while the rest of us dream about a beautiful mid to call our own.
They are actively making the world worse by letting children be this blatantly cruel to other people.
 
What’s awful, is that you genuinely have one of the best personalities here- I mean it. Anyone would assume based on the way you type, that you are smart & very nuanced in understanding others, based on your experiences.
I was going to comment something like this, he doesnt deserve this at all
 
> Egg head
> Mega mind
Lol. I was one of the smart kids back then so it made sense. Luckily after puberty my face shape got a lot better and is basically only slightly below average now. My jaw is still a little weak, but it's way better than it was back then.
 
Bro WTF, if I was that kids father I would have absolutely beat his ass into the dirt in public for that kind of thing.
And he would have had to apologize to you while bawling his eyes out while he tastes the blood running out of his own nose.
That's absolutely cruel to do to anybody, especially someone that can't help but make the best of it.

It's really quite a shame that these people are allowed to be parents while the rest of us dream about a beautiful mid to call our own.
They are actively making the world worse by letting children be this blatantly cruel to other people.
Thanks fir saying these things and yes I agree with all of it. Tbh though young and old grown ups do it too and they should know better.
 
it makes me sad that this shit happens to good people but some sociopath piece of shit gets to spend the rest of their life fucking people over and never paying any consequences for it :cryfeels:
Yeah bro it’s such bullshit, yet boomers go on with their “just world” fallacy jfl.
 
I fucking hate normies man. Every single one of them is a cruel bastard. When I see a trucel outside I do my best to not give them any negative attention and if I have to meet one I always act respectful just like I do with everyone else cause I can understand the shit they have to go through. I grew up with the idea that everyone is to be treated equally and that really is a good virtue but guess what... It's the normshits that do the complete opposite always. They jump on every chance to make their miserable mediocre existence seem superior to someone less fortunate.
yup, it ALWAYS fucking happens. AL—WAYS. Walking down outdoor steps to get the mail. In our garden. And EVERY-fucking-WHERE.
Old, young, female, male, ugly, good looking. 99% of all people that see me...thanks for your comment, I totally feel the same.
 
When you are unatractive, weaker and different (Autistic, disability), people begin showing their true colours.
Indeed! 99% of humans/strangers who see me IRL are bad people. And most people I know personally like people from back in school.
I am 27 now
 
Normies are fucking demons, what do you expect?
Might as well be walking with an ER T-Shirt in public nowadays.

Over for deformedcels.
 
Indeed! 99% of humans/strangers who see me IRL are bad people. And most people I know personally like people from back in school.
I am 27 now
Normies are fucking subhumans bro... I truly wish you one day the RNG to turn 180 on you for the good.
 
Normies are fucking demons, what do you expect?
Might as well be walking with an ER T-Shirt in public nowadays.

Over for deformedcels.
Yes but why almost everyone? Even old normies! Not only kids. Grown ups openly make even implied jokes about my face and I overhear it. (never directly to me but that doesn't make anything better)
WHY????
 

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