Something that I reflected about

[PersonaPimp]

When I was on work (and in school too, but the work is a more fresh memory), I noticed a guy who is more ugly than me, but he atracted women, he was from "favela" (I'm brazilian) and the girls liked him. I was totally and brutally ignored all my season in that work, but that guy gained all the fame in the first week of work.
Detail: He was far more ugly than me.

It's because of that type of examples that I think lookism is a bullshit, I'm not saying that looks don't matter, I'm saying that there are a series of factors in the game, not only looks.


But the most hard thing to me accept, is that.. Only women are allowed to be good, and shy, and introverted... A man who is a "nice guy" and have a good personality like I ever had, it's fated to loneliness.
People say "just change your personality then bro" like I never tried that in my entire life, I'm just so like the guy who is a extroverted bad boy did nothing of effort to be like he is. It's him natural personality.

It's like EVIL isnaturally expected to MEN only, and innocence, purity and goodness to women. A man who isn't Dark Triad is smply out of the game, just for existing.

 

[Ap0calypse]

Greycels and bluecels get worse every day

 

[Deleted member 39605]

Things aren't as objective as we'd like to think. I've read somewhere that short guys have several sex partners in Latin America because women aren't too focused on height around there as they are in the States, for example. Maybe your problem is lack of money and poor location. Just my two cents.

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

Nah bro. Favela kangs are above us in the social hierarchy, in fact they have a social network that can be useful for foids trying to sex max or tip max in the ghetto ... And it's even worse in Brazil since degenerate foids come here from all over the world to taste the local carroussel of favela kangs.

 

[Mecoja]

Maybe you underestimate his looks, what men find good-looking isnt the same as what foids do.

 

[trying to ascend]

Its just thugmaxxing, not something unknown here.

But the thing is that thugmaxxing only applies to blacks and some pardos, because they look very masculine. A white soy faced guy won't be able to thugmaxx

 

[PersonaPimp]

Greycels and bluecels get worse every day

Why?

 

[TheProphetMuscle]

Anecdotes don’t mean much to me. There could have been a lot of factors like he was just entertaining/getting friend zoned at best. That doesn’t disprove all of our experiences that no matter how much unattractive men try or what they do the best they will get is friend zoned or accused of harassing them

 

[PersonaPimp]

Its just thugmaxxing, not something unknown here.

But the thing is that thugmaxxing only applies to blacks and some pardos, because they look very masculine. A white soy faced guy won't be able to thugmaxx

Yeah, that I noticed too, I was writing about that but dropped to the text don't be so extense.

It's like dark men have a big advantage that they're naturally more extroverted and NT than white men.

 

[Lolimancer]

you underestimate his looks

 

[ThreeInchesLong]

For average looking men, it's all about low inhib vs high inhib. The low inhib man does thousands of approaches and doesn't care about the 99.9% of rejections, he just moves on and eventually lands a f*male. The high inhib man on the other hand, is either too scarred from a previous failed approach leading him to give up on approaches, or over analyses things to such an extent that he self rejects 99% of girls before he even approaches them, obviously leading to a lower likelihood of ending up with a f*male. You mention you're a dickcel, personacel and mentalcel, and you claim that a man uglier than you attracted f*males. All of that points to your problem most likely being that you're high inhib, rather than your face being your problem. Please don't discredit lookism because that explains the exceptions to the low vs high inhib rule.

 

[HarryDresden]

All this post is, is a story about a guy you watched be successful with woman.