When I think personality in the normie way I only think some guy jestermaxxing to entertain the crowd. That's not me. I can hold a normal conversation, make eye contact, I'm cognizant of my body language, I'm kind to people who are to me, and I can crack a joke here & there IRL, but I'm not the completely extroverted, entertaining NT guy that foids seem to like, I never was.
If you mean personality as in anti-social type of behaviors IRL : Close-ended answers that don't leave people the opportunity to converse, short answers, Coldness, Aspie body language, problems making eye contact, general awkwardness, etc... I could see that being a pussy repellent.
I don't doubt some guys here aren't socially adjusted in the normie way IRL, but I doubt the majority are willing to express the same sentiments IRL as they do here. Nobody actually wears that badge around IRL, the majority here are too high-inhib so we'll probably toe the line and keeps are feelings to ourselves for the most part.
Everything being equal the 4/10 foid will take the more socially-adjusted guy over the Aspie, I'll agree with that.