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Serious So how many of you went through a "Nice Guy" phase?

Did you used to be a Nice Guy?

  • Yes

    Votes: 49 52.1%
  • No

    Votes: 45 47.9%

  • Total voters
    94
KingOfRome

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By Nice Guy (capitalized), I mean someone who beta orbits religiously and puts on an overly polite act to females with the hope of getting them to want to date you for your supplicating sycophantic persona. We all know the type. They tend to have a oneitis who doesn't even know they're interested, or may be stringing them along for non-sexual and non-romantic profit.

Personally, I was blackpilled too early in my life to go through a phase like this. I knew the score when I saw all the girls in middle school flocking to the tall handsome skater Chads while I rotted in sad corners.
 
Who hasn't been a nice guy when you been fed bluepilled BS about being nice and good to women and they'll happily fuck you? I'm more than positive most of us has me being no different, sadly as long as young boys are being fed bluepill BS this is only going to continue.
 
Yes, I used to orbit several after I left school when I was still in denial.
 
Who hasn't been a nice guy when you been fed bluepilled BS about being nice and good to women and they'll happily fuck you? I'm more than positive most of us has me being no different, sadly as long as young boys are being fed bluepill BS this is only going to continue.
Men with strong father figures don't get this crap, or at least, the father figure offers them a more realistic perspective. Those raised by dominant mothers and weak or absent fathers get force-fed the bluepill and have to learn reality the hard way.
 
Men with strong father figures don't get this crap, or at least, the father figure offers them a more realistic perspective. Those raised by dominant mothers and weak or absent fathers get force-fed the bluepill and have to learn reality the hard way.
Fatherhood is almost nonexistant in the West due to gynocentrism,the Welfare State, Divorce Rapes etc. As long as these issues persist the bluepill will keep spreading, thus more incels are bred into existence. There is no way around it honestly.
 
By Nice Guy (capitalized), I mean someone who beta orbits religiously and puts on an overly polite act to females with the hope of getting them to want to date you for your supplicating sycophantic persona. We all know the type. They tend to have a oneitis who doesn't even know they're interested, or may be stringing them along for non-sexual and non-romantic profit.

Personally, I was blackpilled too early in my life to go through a phase like this. I knew the score when I saw all the girls in middle school flocking to the tall handsome skater Chads while I rotted in sad corners.
No I was never a nice guy or bluepilled for that matter, my parents just never told me anything about that stuff so all I had was my own judgement on my experience and it made me a combination of red/blackpilled.
 
I was one between 13 and 22. But never overly cucked.
 
Yes, got called a “good guy” before I realized that’s just code for fat, ugly piece-of-shit pathetic loser.
 
I was, but I stopped doing it around 2 years ago
 
During my denial days yeah.
 
White Knight. But never been an orbiter.
 
I was in middle school tbh
 
never orbited but was a lot more nice in my earlier yrs, only to find out that it leads to nothing but disappointment
 
It's all Shadenfreude for me.
I am very sadistic and like to see people miserable.
I'm way worse than a psychopath.
At least the psychopath doesn't care about others' feelings.
 
I was a genuinely "good person" back when I was a kid. I was nice to pretty much anyone as long as they didn't give me any trouble and even when they did I was quick to overlook any past insults or attacks. When it came to girls I treated them similarly to anybody else though I would try to present myself as a "cool guy" so I kind of ended up becoming a mix of a wannabe batboy and a gentleman simultaneously which obviously did me no favors in the past
 
I have been autistic my entire life and femoids always disliked me. Been nihilistic and blackpilled since I was 8 years old or so.
 
Yeah. That shit is truly nothing but a waste of time. It doesn't matter how long you've known them or what you've done for them, they will never give you even the most bare minimum treatment you desire/deserve. I've had enough. They'll never value men like us. To hell with them.
 
I was when i was 15 acting all nice and sending love quotes only for her to move to another account and acquaint herself with a few of her friends. I was so pissed off.
 
I never had that mentality and even if I did I never would have a chance to orbit a female.
No I was never a nice guy or bluepilled for that matter, my parents just never told me anything about that stuff so all I had was my own judgement on my experience and it made me a combination of red/blackpilled.
 
Yes, even though i'm ashamed to admit it.
 
No man
I have been autistic my entire life and femoids always disliked me. Been nihilistic and blackpilled since I was 8 years old or so.
 
I remember doing foids homework in elementary school JFL and maybe in middle school.
 
I was a Nice Guy, but then I found 4chan in highschool and got redpilled. After sperging out on the school bicycle I became blackpilled. Kind of hard not to when you see the same guy in your social circle of weirdo bronies get TWO girls, while I got none. The answer would be obvious to anyone on here: he was more attractive and (half) white while I'm an ethnic.
 
I never learned how to orbit because of autism, but at one point I was somewhat bluepilled because of my parents. I never really fully bought into it though, because I was depressed from a very young age (8-9 years old).

JFL my hypocrite mother taught me that being honest is the most important thing in the world. Even though the world runs on lies, and she herself regularly lies and acts dishonest in her business practices.No doubt the vast majority of what she taught me growing up was lies too.
 
I'm still a nice guy...
 
Most people did at some point in their lives. I think a lot of people who voted are lying.
 
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By Nice Guy (capitalized), I mean someone who beta orbits religiously and puts on an overly polite act to females with the hope of getting them to want to date you for your supplicating sycophantic persona. We all know the type. They tend to have a oneitis who doesn't even know they're interested, or may be stringing them along for non-sexual and non-romantic profit.

Personally, I was blackpilled too early in my life to go through a phase like this. I knew the score when I saw all the girls in middle school flocking to the tall handsome skater Chads while I rotted in sad corners.

I first selected yes, then I read this and selected no, if you restrict nice guy to the criteria you have here, what you have is the most extreme and pathetic version of the "nice guy", I've never been a "beta orbiter", too much of a loner for that tbh, and that whole oneitis BS is blue pilled retardation, I've never been obsessed with just one single woman.

You need to change that poll too "have you ever been an extremely blue pilled cuck"

Very few men are ever this much of a cuck, Im surprised to see so many men selected yes, I am doubting my eyes, I don't think they properly read this part of your post, or maybe this site is really filled with ex-cucks.
 
I don't really agree with the normie definition of "nice guy". The term basically means any unattractive male, its a way for females to call you ugly indirectly.
 
I first selected yes, then I read this and selected no, if you restrict nice guy to the criteria you have here, what you have is the most extreme and pathetic version of the "nice guy", I've never been a "beta orbiter", too much of a loner for that tbh, and that whole oneitis BS is blue pilled retardation, I've never been obsessed with just one single woman.

You need to change that poll too "have you ever been an extremely blue pilled cuck"

Very few men are ever this much of a cuck, Im surprised to see so many men selected yes, I am doubting my eyes, I don't think they properly read this part of your post, or maybe this site is really filled with ex-cucks.
I didn't say all Nice Guys had oneitises, just that it was a tendency among them. But I'd still agree that the definition of Nice Guy I gave is pretty extreme even without a oneitis. Still, I'm not surprised so many incels have this much cuck behavior in their past. Lots of ugly guys get duped into believing they can compensate for their looks with cuck behavior, and before they come to terms with the reality that they were lied to, they double down on it thinking their failure is due to not being cucked enough.
 
yeah i was once a bluepilled faggot. i thought nice guys actually got women. i'm ashamed that i was so dumb
 
I thought being the nice guy was the shit. Yeah I did get female friends, but they always say "any girl would be lucky to have you." Even I approached the entire pack of girls in HS and every single of them said that they would be happy to help me get a girl. FML if only I got blackpilled early, I'd looks the fuck Maxx out of me in my puberty years instead of being such a pathetic loser
 
I thought being the nice guy was the shit. Yeah I did get female friends, but they always say "any girl would be lucky to have you." Even I approached the entire pack of girls in HS and every single of them said that they would be happy to help me get a girl. FML if only I got blackpilled early, I'd looks the fuck Maxx out of me in my puberty years instead of being such a pathetic loser
That's the worst. "Aww, don't worry, plenty of girls would be happy to date you. Maybe not me, or any of my friends, or anyone within a 200-mile radius, but still plenty, teehee!"
 
That's the worst. "Aww, don't worry, plenty of girls would be happy to date you. Maybe not me, or any of my friends, or anyone within a 200-mile radius, but still plenty, teehee!"
Extremely worst. At least that completely crush IT's and retards' logic about personaliteehee
 
By Nice Guy (capitalized), I mean someone who beta orbits religiously and puts on an overly polite act to females with the hope of getting them to want to date you
Nope. I just knew it was over before it began.
 
Even split between yes and no so far. Really goes against the "all incels are former nice guys" narrative. Cucktears won't touch this.
 
Your description of "nice guy" was me the first 25 years of my life although I didn't pay for anything when being an orbiter type. I wasn't even red pilled until I was about 30.
 
Yes in my junior year of high school, however I quickly became blackpilled
 
Yup.

I dont even want to think how much of a cuck I was because it's worse than that kid with a fedora who danced for a foid.
 
yes when i was still :bluepill: now i know the truth :blackpill:
 
I was blackpilled since age 12 and before i was a violent psycho kid
 
I'm still recovering, it's a daily struggle not to relapse into old nice guy habits..
 
Nope never. But I haven't had any real life romantic interaction with a woman. I never even flirted.
 
50/50 lmao at the poll, lotta normiecels in here....

I never did because Im autistic, im incapable of doing that normiecel shit.
 
I wasn't that (still not) interested in relationships back in school, so no. I was raised by a single mother too, maybe my autism contributed to this.
I never did because Im autistic, im incapable of doing that normiecel shit.
LMAO this just came up as soon as I finished typing that.
 

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