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Serious Should I just get fat and stop caring? Should other incels do the same?

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So obviously, gym for incels is cope, foids do not care about this. Now that we have cleared up the thought of a foid liking us through self improvement. Should I just become fat? Just eat non stop as food is pleasurable and never exercise as it’s not enjoyable? I will never receive sex or love from a foid as I am short and not a chad, so if everything I do goes to vain anyway why would becoming obese not be the method? Would rotting all day, eating food, and watching anime not be pleasurable? I genuinely see no reason to not become just fat and eat all day, no woman will ever love me
 
I believe there is good in keeping yourself in shape, but you should do as you will, since it's over anyway.
 
Dude I wish I could get fat, the last half a year or so I've been the lowest weight i've ever been. I'm now officially underweight according to BMI

My advice though if you're a fatcel is to try find a lifestyle where you can simultaneously stay an ideal healthy weight whilst still being able to fully enjoy your copes.

Sometimes that's difficult/near impossible because if you don't exercise and eat food all day then you will gain weight. So if you want to maintain a healthy weight you have to implement some form of exercise in your daily routine. That's easier said than done ofcourse. I myself struggle with it for decades but instaed of losing weight i want to gain weight.


Some incels don't go to the gym because they don;t like the people or are high inhib etc.. you could save for home equipment in that case.
Or if you don't like the gym, try to look ways to change your diet up that still makes you feel satiated but not too many calories.

Those are just general suggestions though, you gotta find out what works for you


Anyways the reason I advise to try to maintaing a healthy weight is purely for your own sake.
 
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Why torture yourself by being fat?
 
Dude I wish I could get fat, the last half a year or so I've been the lowest weight i've ever been. I'm now officially underweight according to BMI

My advice though if you're a fatcel is to try find a lifestyle where you can simultaneously stay an ideal healthy weight whilst still being able to fully enjoy your copes.

Sometimes that's difficult/near impossible because if you don't exercise and eat food all day then you will gain weight. So if you want to maintain a healthy weight you have to implement some form of exercise in your daily routine. That's easier said than done ofcourse. I myself struggle with it for decades but instaed of losing weight i want to gain weight.


Some incels don't go to the gym because they don;t like the people or are high inhib etc.. you could save for home equipment in that case.
Or if you don't like the gym, try to look ways to change your diet up that still makes you feel satiated but not too many calories.

Those are just general suggestions though, you gotta find out what works for you


Anyways the reason I advise to try to maintaing a healthy weight is purely for your own sake.
I’m more of a normal weight? I’m 164 cm and 60.7 kg. The thing is I have no idea how to cope in other ways, I do truly wish a female loved me. I also thought being obese is just bad for your health but like why does it matter, the sooner I die the better, i have nobody to stay alive for
 
Do what you think is the best for you brocel

Some ((people)) here call themselves "incels" but will bully you for being a fatcel
 
Why torture yourself by being fat?
It’s not about being specifically fat but just numbing yourself through eating. I am 60.7 kg however I go through a constant cycle of severely restricting then eating extremely large amounts of food. I truly enjoy binging and I don’t see a reason to try and be aesthetic
 
Do what you think is the best for you brocel

Some ((people)) here call themselves "incels" but will bully you for being a fatcel
lol if you are on incels.is and bully other members for in any way being ugly you are such a fucking bitch and ruin the website. It’s meant to be a safe space from the oppression and bullying women already give us. Also it’s shallow as fuck
 
lol if you are on incels.is and bully other members for in any way being ugly you are such a fucking bitch and ruin the website. It’s meant to be a safe space from the oppression and bullying women already give us. Also it’s shallow as fuck
That's what I try to tell them but too many of those retards keep harassing us, and too many fatcels are still discriminated :feelsbadman:
 
It’s not about being specifically fat but just numbing yourself through eating. I am 60.7 kg however I go through a constant cycle of severely restricting then eating extremely large amounts of food. I truly enjoy binging and I don’t see a reason to try and be aesthetic
I’m more of a normal weight? I’m 164 cm and 60.7 kg. The thing is I have no idea how to cope in other ways, I do truly wish a female loved me. I also thought being obese is just bad for your health but like why does it matter, the sooner I die the better, i have nobody to stay alive for
Well it's up to you, it sounds to me you're describing an eating disorder with the binging, though i'm not a doctor, But I understand why you would do it.

I also sometimes binge in drugs when i'm bored/depressed about my state. It's hard to cope as an incel.

I suppose you would die sooner by eating yourself to death, but it's not a pleasant way to go, and still a slow death too. It might only shave like a decade or two of off your natural lifespan.

The only reason i'm advising you to try to change is for your own sake, to make the life you live a little less painful and more satisfying. Even if it's cursed by inceldom. We're not going to find love, so the least we can do to make our lives less miserable is to try and make the other areas in our life more tolerable.


And by the way, I believe i require change in my life too. I'm not trying to be preachy or demanding or anything. I know how difficult it is to change. I struggle with it too. Every day.
 
So obviously, gym for incels is cope, foids do not care about this. Now that we have cleared up the thought of a foid liking us through self improvement. Should I just become fat? Just eat non stop as food is pleasurable and never exercise as it’s not enjoyable? I will never receive sex or love from a foid as I am short and not a chad, so if everything I do goes to vain anyway why would becoming obese not be the method? Would rotting all day, eating food, and watching anime not be pleasurable? I genuinely see no reason to not become just fat and eat all day, no woman will ever love me
The gym is the worst thing a incel can do you will see jacked Chad's and wonder why it wasn't you js ldar and eat junk food
 
if you’re fat and unfit, ur mental health tend to get worse. sure, u die sooner but more miserably, so rather be healthy and ropemax when the time comes.

i don’t say you’re supposed to gymmax or count ur calories like a fag, just don’t overdo it and maybe do a few thousand steps per day in the sun to easily reach a threshold where u don’t feel horrible in ur body by default.
 
You do not stay fit the foids, You stay fit so when the time comes you are prepared and don't become stacy an chad's slaves !! Nobody is saying become a bodybuilder but it shouldn't take more than 3 gym sessions a week to keep in combat shape, Lean an Strong, Train for Endurance.

Take TRT or Steroids if you have to, When a combination of proper warrior lifestyle, steroids and the logistics are available and sustainable, the results will be unmatched. Steroids are really effective; they're just not always effectively employed and do have longterm costs and downsides.
 
Well it's up to you, it sounds to me you're describing an eating disorder with the binging, though i'm not a doctor, But I understand why you would do it.

I also sometimes binge in drugs when i'm bored/depressed about my state. It's hard to cope as an incel.

I suppose you would die sooner by eating yourself to death, but it's not a pleasant way to go, and still a slow death too. It might only shave like a decade or two of off your natural lifespan.

The only reason i'm advising you to try to change is for your own sake, to make the life you live a little less painful and more satisfying. Even if it's cursed by inceldom. We're not going to find love, so the least we can do to make our lives less miserable is to try and make the other areas in our life more tolerable.


And by the way, I believe i require change in my life too. I'm not trying to be preachy or demanding or anything. I know how difficult it is to change. I struggle with it too. Every day.
I do have an eating disorder, this is something I do on purpose. And yea I get what you’re saying, despite being an incel you can have friends and additionally being fat is torture not even considering looks. I probably will not ever have healthy eating habits so I’m just wondering if I should do the more comfortable one JFL
 
So obviously, gym for incels is cope, foids do not care about this. Now that we have cleared up the thought of a foid liking us through self improvement. Should I just become fat? Just eat non stop as food is pleasurable and never exercise as it’s not enjoyable? I will never receive sex or love from a foid as I am short and not a chad, so if everything I do goes to vain anyway why would becoming obese not be the method? Would rotting all day, eating food, and watching anime not be pleasurable? I genuinely see no reason to not become just fat and eat all day, no woman will ever love me
For all I know you're masking a feeder fetish being fat looks and sounds miserable ergo it follows it'd feel miserable
 
For all I know you're masking a feeder fetish being fat looks and sounds miserable ergo it follows it'd feel miserable
why should I care about my appearance anymore? I don’t want to be attractive to men, I want women to find me attractive in order to to be in a relationship. Everything about my life is miserable, I’m a 22 year old high school drop out due to depression with an eating disorder who’s ugly and short and has been bullied by chads and foids for his entire life, what about this is not miserable already? Why can’t I cope in the most easy way possible
 
I was at 44 bmi (140 kg for 178 cm) and I lost into 30, still no foids are present

Btw being fat is very inconvenient
 
I do have an eating disorder, this is something I do on purpose. And yea I get what you’re saying, despite being an incel you can have friends and additionally being fat is torture not even considering looks. I probably will not ever have healthy eating habits so I’m just wondering if I should do the more comfortable one JFL
Yep, well either way. You're the one that knows best what's the most comfortable way of living for yourself so I hope you make the right choice whatever that may be
 
So obviously, gym for incels is cope, foids do not care about this. Now that we have cleared up the thought of a foid liking us through self improvement. Should I just become fat? Just eat non stop as food is pleasurable and never exercise as it’s not enjoyable? I will never receive sex or love from a foid as I am short and not a chad, so if everything I do goes to vain anyway why would becoming obese not be the method? Would rotting all day, eating food, and watching anime not be pleasurable? I genuinely see no reason to not become just fat and eat all day, no woman will ever love me
i cant even get fat,genetics doesnt allow me,im 185-187cm in height but that doesnt save me,im built like an alien so its over,cant get past 62kg never in my life
 
You'd be surprised how good a long jog makes you feel
 
So obviously, gym for incels is cope, foids do not care about this. Now that we have cleared up the thought of a foid liking us through self improvement. Should I just become fat? Just eat non stop as food is pleasurable and never exercise as it’s not enjoyable? I will never receive sex or love from a foid as I am short and not a chad, so if everything I do goes to vain anyway why would becoming obese not be the method? Would rotting all day, eating food, and watching anime not be pleasurable? I genuinely see no reason to not become just fat and eat all day, no woman will ever love me
Don’t do it. I had the very same thought, but as I got fatter, I realized I hated myself even more, leading me into an eating disorder and health issues. You think you’re able to not care about it, but trust me, once you look at your mantits in the mirror, you’d want to kill yourself right on the spot. Stay in shape and cope, brocel.
 
I can't do this because I live in the UK and the vile UK government torments anyone who does this in the UK.
 
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Consoom as much food and drink
 
Gymcelling is cope but don't get fat
 
It won't matter if its over anyway
 
thats literally what im like right now but thinking of gymcelling because atleast i wouldnt be extra insecure in the summer
 

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