Shame is counter-intuitive

[Pikacel]

It prevents you from working on yourself because you’re ashamed of your incompetence and too high inhib to leave the house. Self isolation is part of this

Either you avoid shame/failure and make no gains (therefore maintaining shame and a failure) or endure shame/failure and potentially make gains.

Like fatso going outside for a run or a newbie trying to learn a new language and getting laughed at

Long term you give up on trying anything and become a massive loser. Like me

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

As long as you didn't lose your virginity you're already a winner. Consult these threads for "details" (not rly). Yes I've been drinking today.

I've never had sex, that's a win

All I do is win. Never had sex = winning bigly. Winner, winner, no sex and then dinner. ALL I DO IS WIN BECAUSE I'VE NEVER HAD SEX. Winner = me, cuz I don't have sex. WIN WIN WIN, NO SEX THEN WIN AGAIN! BIG WINNER, BIG WIN. WINNING CONSTANTLY, I CANNOT STOP THE VICTORIES!

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Enjoying my inceldom

Drinking some beers. The only things that can make me feel good are mindfulness and alcohol. Everyone who has sex is MISSING OUT on my quality of life. My HIGH quality of life. I am a WINNER!!!

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