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Theory Sex with escorts is better than love in a relationship

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The pleasure you get from relationships and love is inferior to that of sex with escorts. I'll never understand why people ACTUALLY feel bad about being a bachelor. It's like feeling bad that you work for Google instead of wageslaving as a janitor JFL. I think a lot of people never think critically about it. It's the conformity and conditioning that makes them think being in a relationship is the way they should be. Or they want it because they can't have it.

The problem with love is that it is exclusive. Yes sparkpill exists, attraction starts at first sight. But love is something that needs to develop. Think about who you care more about, someone you've been friends with for years who you spend a lot of time with, or a friend you just met. If a foid gives her "love" out to every guy she meets, it's not actually love, she's just a whore blindly following her passions. Most people in relationships never actually loved. Relationships have kind of evolved into just an excuse to have sex. Furthermore, most incels are incapable of love, since they don't have standards. If you don't have standards, you'd just give your love to any foid who shows interest in you, which makes you a cuck.

The reason why this is a problem is because repetition dulls the pleasure of things. If you spend a lot of time with a foid developing your relationship, yeah love will start to grow. But also it will be less pleasurable. The initial infatuation will fade away and you will start to see her as a person with flaws instead of your dream girl. You will get sick of doing the same thing every day and want something new. With a relationship, you supposedly lock down a foid for consistent, regular sex (ymmv with this :p), but for this reason, the sex will be shit too. This is EMPIRICALLY VERIFIED psychology, the Coolidge Effect. The more guys fuck one girl, the less pleasure they feel from her and the more aroused they get from other foids. Think about when you are gooning to porn mommies. When you goon too much to one foid, you get bored of her and switch to other ones.

Two of the advantages of escortceling is that you are free to do it with multiple foids, and you get to skip the bullshit and get right to the fun. This means that with escortceling, you get diversity to break up the repetition, and you don't have to do bullshit like jestermax the foid that would make you grow bored of her. They say escorts aren't real life, it's a fantasy. I say this only ENHANCES the experience, because real life is often disappointing. The human condition is miserable. It's more pleasurable to entertain my dream of a stacy than settle down with an average looking foid. I don't want the illusion shattered. I don't want to get to know her.

Now, I will address four arguments I anticipate seeing. One:
sex with love is better than being escortcel because it is more pleasurable
In making any kind of argument like this, you betray yourself by admitting that the worth of love is based on pleasure, thereby invalidating your own argument.

Two:
"b-but I escortcel and it's shit! I am entitled to a gf!"
You are doing it wrong then. Because having sex with a bunch of girls just once is itself repetition, which will make escortceling boring. This is what happened to the great lover Don Juan, who fucked a bunch of foids only once because he feared the dulling influences of repetition. But in doing so, he created a routine which turned being a chad into stale monotony. Thankfully, with escortceling, you have the freedom to do what you want. You can take a more measured approach that will allow you to fully enjoy the escorts while at the same time avoiding repitition.

Three:
you are just paying for what chad gets for free
Nothing is free. If the product is free, then you're the product. Everybody pays for sex. Just in different ways. I have heard people say that it is better to be chad and pay with your looks. But why would you care how the foid feels? By wanting her to like it, you are being a slave to foids desires. This is the foid worshipping instinct.

Four:
muh condom!
Just pay for bareback
 
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Bookmarked and will read later as a fellow escortcel :feelsokman:
 
This is explained by r/K selection theory.

r-selected men just desire to fuck fuck fuck fuck and have low desire for relationships.
K-selected men have a desire for comfort, connection, affection and other relationship goals in addition to sex.

K-selected men have the typical beta behavior, who thinks "pump and dump" is "ugly" and "wrong", and desires to "find love".
r-selected men have the typical chad behavior who thinks "relationships" is just "drama" and "waste of time" and desires to inseminate and flee.

Both exist in society (and even in this incel community), and both behaviors are "valid" (biologically healthy).

r-selected incels just crave the pussy and are often content with escorts, whores, and inseminating SEA sluts.
K-selected incels crave a supportive and affectionate relationship and can only be content with robot waifus -- if ever.
 
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betabuxxing < escortmaxxing < pump & dumping (chad only)
 
This is explained by r/K selection theory.

r-selected men just desire to fuck fuck fuck fuck and have low desire for relationships.
K-selected men have a desire for comfort, connection, affection and other relationship goals in addition to sex.

K-selected men have the typical beta behavior, who thinks "pump and dump" is "ugly" and "wrong", and desires to "find love".
r-selected men have the typical chad behavior who thinks "relationships" is just "drama" and "waste of time" and desires to inseminate and flee.

Both exist in society (and even in this incel community), and both behaviors are "valid" (biologically healthy).

r-selected incels just crave the pussy and are often content with escorts, whores, and inseminating SEA sluts.
K-selected incels crave a supportive and affectionate relationship and can only be content with robot waifus -- if ever.
"The theory was popular in the 1970s and 1980s, when it was used as a heuristic device, but lost importance in the early 1990s, when it was criticized by several empirical studies"
:feelswhat:
 
@turbosperg Not to mention this applies to species, if it is even valid at all. Ofc rabbits are gonna behave differently from wolves.
 
The nature of love is polygamous and not monogamous, monogamy only exists in adolescence.
To be happy in this aspect of life, the important thing is to have sex, it doesn't matter if you have sex with a girlfriend or a prostitute. For example, sexual coercion is applied in many animal species, including humans, males of many animal species rape females for the opportunity to reproduce, by doing this they satisfy their biological sexual needs and are rewarded with dopamine, not you need a fucking girlfriend. .
 
Foids are not capable of love anyway. If you are ever in a relationship and you think she loves you. No. she does not. She loves you as much as your potted plant does. They simpley don't have the ability to love. They don't have the higher brain function.
 
OP really retards-mogs the whole forum. He is so insecure about his fucking "escorts strategy" that he needs to make threads with the same content over and over again. He is like an Incel in denial from reddit posting on IT that looks dont matter over and over again.
 
this is a cope id rather just eat McNuggets and buy a realdoll
 
@turbosperg Not to mention this applies to species, if it is even valid at all. Ofc rabbits are gonna behave differently from wolves.
It also applies to individual variations within a species, the way I wrote.
 
I'm not rich and escorts are illegal :feelsrope:
 
(((empirical studies)))

dude, for real, r/K selection theory is fine. It is a very good theory. Any theory has disputes and disagreement, but it is overall very solid.

We can see r/K even here on this forum when some incels just want to pump'n'dump while others desire an intimate relationship. This is r/K literally in front of your eyes.
 
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Most people in relationships never actually loved.
Well yes, most men are not Chads.
The reason why this is a problem is because repetition dulls the pleasure of things. If you spend a lot of time with a foid developing your relationship, yeah love will start to grow. But also it will be less pleasurable. The initial infatuation will fade away and you will start to see her as a person with flaws instead of your dream girl. You will get sick of doing the same thing every day and want something new. With a relationship, you supposedly lock down a foid for consistent, regular sex (ymmv with this :p), but for this reason, the sex will be shit too. This is EMPIRICALLY VERIFIED psychology, the Coolidge Effect. The more guys fuck one girl, the less pleasure they feel from her and the more aroused they get from other foids. Think about when you are gooning to porn mommies. When you goon too much to one foid, you get bored of her and switch to other ones.
Escorts are expensive. I would rather be in the same relationship with a foid if I were a Chad, than to spend at least 400 euros nearly every day (our sex drives are high) to have sex with an escort.

jestermax the foid that would make you grow bored of her
Chads do it straight up. Jestermaxxing is for unnatractive men (sub8)

Nothing is free. If the product is free, then you're the product. Everybody pays for sex. Just in different ways. I have heard people say that it is better to be chad and pay with your looks. But why would you care how the foid feels? By wanting her to like it, you are being a slave to foids desires. This is the foid worshipping instinct.
You don't have to care how the foid feels if you're a Chad. All of this is a cope for sub8 men. I agree that it's best for sub8 men to not pursue relationships, because they'll either be perpetually rejected (sub5s), or get into a relationship with a low-tier Becky at best and get cheated on and maybe raise Chad's son (normie-tier men).
 
I'm not rich and escorts are illegal :feelsrope:
I'm in the self same spot. 20 years old with nothing but a dream. I'm in muttmeristan so it's illegal too. But this didn't stop me from shagging gigastacy in europe. In fact I plan on moving there. I just need to graduate and get a good job. Soon I will be able to have regular sex with gigastacy :feelsohh:

Losing my stacysexual virginity has actually had a really good effect on me. I have the motivation to succeed in college and in my career now, I want to get back in the gym and eat right, also I stopped watching porn. It's a light in the black for me
 
Escorting is fun as hell. I have fucked nearly 100 whores since 2017. Was on a spree before Covid, now it's been a long dry spell.

40% of the time I have great chemistry with the whore, and deep french kissing while anal fucking is the best thing ever.

Bothering with courting a women just to get rejected after 2 dates and a month of "getting to know each other" is just wasting time - especially when you know she will drop her panties within 1 hour of conversation with chad.
 
at least 400 euros
you are overpaying my guy. 150 euros was enough for an hour with gigastacy for me.
nearly every day
even normies and chads dont fuck that much. they have shit going on. also, it pays to pay the sandman well. if you have sex that much it will get repetitive and won't be as pleasurable. it's better to fuck once a week than once a day
 
Cope nigger with your big holed hookers :feelskek:
 
Damn, one of the biggest copers here
 
you are overpaying my guy. 150 euros was enough for an hour with gigastacy for me.
Still too much for every day, hell even every week
even normies and chads dont fuck that much. they have shit going on. also, it pays to pay the sandman well. if you have sex that much it will get repetitive and won't be as pleasurable. it's better to fuck once a week than once a day
Chads do have sex a lot. Normies don't, but Chads do.
Also, having a low sex drive is low-T trait. I don't have that. Can't be satisfied with once a week:feelsseriously:
 
Also, having a low sex drive is low-T trait. I don't have that. Can't be satisfied with once a week:feelsseriously:
cope. blindly following your passions is how you miss out on pleasure
 
Still too much for every day, hell even every week
11k a year is nothing. normies spend way more than that on their gfs and wives. who do you think pays for their beach vacations, starbucks, designer clothes, etc
 
11k a year is nothing. normies spend way more than that on their gfs and wives. who do you think pays for their beach vacations, starbucks, designer clothes, etc
11k a year is a lot for incels to make especially if im not NT. what kind of high paying job u think mentalcels are gonna get lol :fuk:
 
Without sex foids are worth nothing, so you're basically paying them to leave. And I know I'll never have "love" (made up concept) so I guess you're right
 
11k a year is a lot for incels to make especially if im not NT. what kind of high paying job u think mentalcels are gonna get lol :fuk:
i'm mentalcel and planning on getting 98k out of college. i have an internship lined up for next summer and they will probably hire me for 98k a year. after taxes i'll probably get to keep 60k. 10k will be for hookers, that leaves me 50k to live comfy. i don't really spend much otherwise :feelscomfy:
 
i'm mentalcel and planning on getting 98k out of college. i have an internship lined up for next summer and they will probably hire me for 98k a year. after taxes i'll probably get to keep 60k. 10k will be for hookers, that leaves me 50k to live comfy. i don't really spend much otherwise :feelscomfy:
:shock: grats bro what do you do
 
From personally seeing my family and friends' families and families in general, I can certainly say all men and women will cheat if they can (including my incel-looking father and grandfather who managed to wife-up used roasties), they all cheat on each other. Love doesn't exist, at best lust, and it lasts longer if it's Chad and just a little if it's a normie. Life is not a Disney movie, it's a Brazzers movie.
 
True, especially that as a non-chad you have a high chance of being cheated and will only have a "love relationship" if is betabuxx directly or indirectly
 
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cope. blindly following your passions is how you miss out on pleasure
You wouldn't say that if you were a Chad. Also, this was said by en escortmaxxer^^^
 
11k a year is nothing. normies spend way more than that on their gfs and wives. who do you think pays for their beach vacations, starbucks, designer clothes, etc
Average salary in my country is 11K.:dafuckfeels:
 
what you wrote is true, if whore is good looking and clean and does not carry STD
Finding whores who meet that criteria can be very expensive and hard in countries where it is illegal
In my place i can only access ethnic or low quality junkie whores.
Even when you have the money (500 euros/hour for 8+/10 whores), you need to have criminal connections in order to have access to premium whores.
I know the struggle bro. Whores in my country are shit. You have to go through verification to fuck them, they are expensive, and they are all ugly here. That’s why I want to move to europe. When I visited Germany I fucked gigastacy for 150 euros. Western Europe is full of cheap hot east euro whores that I want to fuck
 
[UWSL]Deep french kissing while anal fucking is the best thing ever.[/UWSL]
How do you do that? I just can't work out the positioning required to kiss someone while fucking their ass in my head.
 
neil-de-grasse-tyson-when-the-coping-is-too-strong.gif
 
The pleasure you get from relationships and love is inferior to that of sex with escorts. I'll never understand why people ACTUALLY feel bad about being a bachelor. It's like feeling bad that you work for Google instead of wageslaving as a janitor JFL. I think a lot of people never think critically about it. It's the conformity and conditioning that makes them think being in a relationship is the way they should be. Or they want it because they can't have it.

The problem with love is that it is exclusive. Yes sparkpill exists, attraction starts at first sight. But love is something that needs to develop. Think about who you care more about, someone you've been friends with for years who you spend a lot of time with, or a friend you just met. If a foid gives her "love" out to every guy she meets, it's not actually love, she's just a whore blindly following her passions. Most people in relationships never actually loved. Relationships have kind of evolved into just an excuse to have sex. Furthermore, most incels are incapable of love, since they don't have standards. If you don't have standards, you'd just give your love to any foid who shows interest in you, which makes you a cuck.

The reason why this is a problem is because repetition dulls the pleasure of things. If you spend a lot of time with a foid developing your relationship, yeah love will start to grow. But also it will be less pleasurable. The initial infatuation will fade away and you will start to see her as a person with flaws instead of your dream girl. You will get sick of doing the same thing every day and want something new. With a relationship, you supposedly lock down a foid for consistent, regular sex (ymmv with this :p), but for this reason, the sex will be shit too. This is EMPIRICALLY VERIFIED psychology, the Coolidge Effect. The more guys fuck one girl, the less pleasure they feel from her and the more aroused they get from other foids. Think about when you are gooning to porn mommies. When you goon too much to one foid, you get bored of her and switch to other ones.

Two of the advantages of escortceling is that you are free to do it with multiple foids, and you get to skip the bullshit and get right to the fun. This means that with escortceling, you get diversity to break up the repetition, and you don't have to do bullshit like jestermax the foid that would make you grow bored of her. They say escorts aren't real life, it's a fantasy. I say this only ENHANCES the experience, because real life is often disappointing. The human condition is miserable. It's more pleasurable to entertain my dream of a stacy than settle down with an average looking foid. I don't want the illusion shattered. I don't want to get to know her.

Now, I will address four arguments I anticipate seeing. One:

In making any kind of argument like this, you betray yourself by admitting that the worth of love is based on pleasure, thereby invalidating your own argument.

Two:

You are doing it wrong then. Because having sex with a bunch of girls just once is itself repetition, which will make escortceling boring. This is what happened to the great lover Don Juan, who fucked a bunch of foids only once because he feared the dulling influences of repetition. But in doing so, he created a routine which turned being a chad into stale monotony. Thankfully, with escortceling, you have the freedom to do what you want. You can take a more measured approach that will allow you to fully enjoy the escorts while at the same time avoiding repitition.

Three:

Nothing is free. If the product is free, then you're the product. Everybody pays for sex. Just in different ways. I have heard people say that it is better to be chad and pay with your looks. But why would you care how the foid feels? By wanting her to like it, you are being a slave to foids desires. This is the foid worshipping instinct.

Four:

Just pay for bareback
Giga based but from my experiences with escorts they don’t let you fuck bareback, only blowjobs :reeeeee:
 
i'm mentalcel and planning on getting 98k out of college. i have an internship lined up for next summer and they will probably hire me for 98k a year. after taxes i'll probably get to keep 60k. 10k will be for hookers, that leaves me 50k to live comfy. i don't really spend much otherwise :feelscomfy:
What job do you plan on doing?
 
OP really retards-mogs the whole forum. He is so insecure about his fucking "escorts strategy" that he needs to make threads with the same content over and over again. He is like an Incel in denial from reddit posting on IT that looks dont matter over and over again.
 
Cope. Never giving a whore money when I have onaholes and dakimakura. Especially not when I'm paying hundreds for something she gives to chad for free:panties:
 
you are the ones not having sex :feelsugh:
To me, jerking off is better than having sex with a prostitute (because you also pay money for that at the very least).
Having sex with a foid who neither wants you nor loves you for free is another thing though. Maybe it's better than masturbation. But it's usually rape, which I don't really like. Also you can blackmail a foid (well, most incels can't, actually due to different reasons).
 
you are the ones not having sex :feelsugh:
Nigga I’ve been fucking them since 2019, doesn’t change my view that it’s simp cope bullshit waste of money

Most of them if not all treat u like shit, if. U don’t give them atleast 100$

They treat u based on how much cash u shove in their vaginas

While chad getting love/intimacy/sex for free, stop being :bluepill: cuck
 

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