While I consider myself to be fully blackpilled, I do accept that there is some validity to the idea of self improvement. I'm not talking about the ways of "Self-improving" that IncelQueers may suggest (ex: improve personality, become less misogynist, etc.). I'm also not talking about red-pill/MGTOW "improving" such as game and khanfidince. I'm referring to actual physical improvement, such as lowering body fat, NoFap, getting surgeries, etc. It's no secret that having low bodyfat is very attractive on men (basically a requirement these days due to female hypergamy), and having facial surgery can fix unaesthetic problems. The validity of NoFap is debatable, but I am morally opposed to masturbations and I consider quitting internet porn a valuable life improvement and internet porn is designed to keep white men from reproducing, so I support quitting.
I have struggled with my weight my entire life. I was extremely overweight/obese until I was 17, and have hovered between minor/moderate overweight and healthy for the past 5 or 6 years. I've never been "skinny" though. I've come very close, and I'm even somewhat close now. But the thing is, it takes such an incredulous effort just to keep close to skinny (and maintain it). Have you ever wondered why Chad stays so thin? Because he has a constant support system of women who validate him just by simply existing. Chad has the motivation and discipline to go to the gym 6 days/week and keep his caloric intake under wraps because he's got fresh pussy to keep his dopamine spiked. Me? Well, women laugh in my direction and I rot lonely at night in my own bed. How am I supposed to feel motivated when rage, fury, irritation, and humiliation overtake my thoughts constantly? Chad doesn't have to worry about this... he can't feel depressed when he's got a young woman sleeping next to him.
I recently tried to start another NoFap streak. I put on my boots and dirty jeans and went over to the shithole of the internet, reddit.com, to check out the NoFap forum. I look and see people there failing EVEN WITH proper support systems. You see men there with wives, girlfriends, FWB (whores), etc. who can't quit. Think about that real quickly. They have FREE access to pussy, yet they still can't quit. How can anyone expect an incel, or say someone like me who has went more than 23 years without ever having a girlfriend or access to free, genuine pussy, to quit? Normalfags who attempt NoFap can get a sensation way stronger than jacking off for so little effort and they can't quit. As a side note: I suppose this is indicative of the power of (((internet porn))), but that's another topic for another day and for another thread.
One point that does not apply to me but does apply to alot of incels is money problems and self-improvement through surgery. Most of our faces are fucked up and need help from a surgeon to fix us. Many incels, due to being ugly and low-value, have poor career prospects and have a very small source of income, if any at all. Plastic surgery isn't free, and Uncle Sam and the rest of the (((world governments))) haven't accepted the importance of beauty of quality of life. How can an incel who at best works a Home Depot 30 hours/week afford plastic surgery to fix his subhuman nose, his recessed chin, or his rounded jaw? Point is, HE CAN'T. Money doesn't grow on trees.
The point I'm trying to make is that incels like you and I have no support systems to assist with improvement. This follows the adage of "the rich get richer and the poor get poorer". If a guy with a good looking face wants to gymcel to become a mega-chad, he has the emotional support systems to help him. If he wants to quit internet porn, he has access to fresh pussy that can easily be a healthier replacement. If he's fat, he can replace food with sex and validation. Since he's good looking, he got the job over a more technically qualified incel, and can afford to further ascend if he has one or two minor facial flaws.
I want to ascend. I assume most of you do to. The problem is, most of us have no support systems at all to help with the little bit of self improvement that you can do. If anyone knows anything about how to help, feel free to share.
I have struggled with my weight my entire life. I was extremely overweight/obese until I was 17, and have hovered between minor/moderate overweight and healthy for the past 5 or 6 years. I've never been "skinny" though. I've come very close, and I'm even somewhat close now. But the thing is, it takes such an incredulous effort just to keep close to skinny (and maintain it). Have you ever wondered why Chad stays so thin? Because he has a constant support system of women who validate him just by simply existing. Chad has the motivation and discipline to go to the gym 6 days/week and keep his caloric intake under wraps because he's got fresh pussy to keep his dopamine spiked. Me? Well, women laugh in my direction and I rot lonely at night in my own bed. How am I supposed to feel motivated when rage, fury, irritation, and humiliation overtake my thoughts constantly? Chad doesn't have to worry about this... he can't feel depressed when he's got a young woman sleeping next to him.
I recently tried to start another NoFap streak. I put on my boots and dirty jeans and went over to the shithole of the internet, reddit.com, to check out the NoFap forum. I look and see people there failing EVEN WITH proper support systems. You see men there with wives, girlfriends, FWB (whores), etc. who can't quit. Think about that real quickly. They have FREE access to pussy, yet they still can't quit. How can anyone expect an incel, or say someone like me who has went more than 23 years without ever having a girlfriend or access to free, genuine pussy, to quit? Normalfags who attempt NoFap can get a sensation way stronger than jacking off for so little effort and they can't quit. As a side note: I suppose this is indicative of the power of (((internet porn))), but that's another topic for another day and for another thread.
One point that does not apply to me but does apply to alot of incels is money problems and self-improvement through surgery. Most of our faces are fucked up and need help from a surgeon to fix us. Many incels, due to being ugly and low-value, have poor career prospects and have a very small source of income, if any at all. Plastic surgery isn't free, and Uncle Sam and the rest of the (((world governments))) haven't accepted the importance of beauty of quality of life. How can an incel who at best works a Home Depot 30 hours/week afford plastic surgery to fix his subhuman nose, his recessed chin, or his rounded jaw? Point is, HE CAN'T. Money doesn't grow on trees.
The point I'm trying to make is that incels like you and I have no support systems to assist with improvement. This follows the adage of "the rich get richer and the poor get poorer". If a guy with a good looking face wants to gymcel to become a mega-chad, he has the emotional support systems to help him. If he wants to quit internet porn, he has access to fresh pussy that can easily be a healthier replacement. If he's fat, he can replace food with sex and validation. Since he's good looking, he got the job over a more technically qualified incel, and can afford to further ascend if he has one or two minor facial flaws.
I want to ascend. I assume most of you do to. The problem is, most of us have no support systems at all to help with the little bit of self improvement that you can do. If anyone knows anything about how to help, feel free to share.
