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Serious Saw a therapist for the first time.

MaxZM98

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So today i went to see a therapist to speak about my issues (having no friends, everyone hating me, feeling i will die alone). I told him about some blackpilled facts i have learnt like how I will never get laid because women are hypergamous and judge me because I am ugly. He asked me some questions about my life like where i went to school, family etc.

This experience just reaffirmed my belief that society didn't give a shit about incels. Even therapists. As he sat in his seat listening to me, I could tell he was looking down on me and thought i was being petty while he has people in much worse situations than me see him. He didn't help me at all. Barely gave me any advice, and the advice he gave was like 'if you hate yourself how can you expect anyone to love you?' which is typical bluepilled bullshit I have heard many times, and isnt true because The reason I hate myself is because other people make me see how pathetic I am.

he also said something like "instead of feeling sorry for yourself you should do something proactive about it". I told him I have been going to the gym like 9 hours a week for over 6 months and have been using 3 creams for my face. He just told me to use a pill to get rid of acne (which has side effects).

Everyone wants betamales to just kill themselves. we are pathetic losers in society. The lowest of the low. he told me to come back in 2 weeks because i clearly feel sad, but i highly doubt i will. He just said that because he needs to make money.
 
DON'T GO TO Therapy especially if you pay for it.
 
Tbh my therapist is a woman and she even agrees on some blackpill things I say. Although I have never came out as incel or gone super blackpilled.

She seems to understand women dont want a 5'6 manlet with lots of mental problems and sub 5 face and just everything.

Still tries to give bluepilled advice. Just need the right therapist man.
 
So today i went to see a therapist to speak about my issues (having no friends, everyone hating me, feeling i will die alone). I told him about some blackpilled facts i have learnt like how I will never get laid because women are hypergamous and judge me because I am ugly. He asked me some questions about my life like where i went to school, family etc.

This experience just reaffirmed my belief that society didn't give a shit about incels. Even therapists. As he sat in his seat listening to me, I could tell he was looking down on me and thought i was being petty while he has people in much worse situations than me see him. He didn't help me at all. Barely gave me any advice, and the advice he gave was like 'if you hate yourself how can you expect anyone to love you?' which is typical bluepilled bullshit I have heard many times, and isnt true because The reason I hate myself is because other people make me see how pathetic I am.

he also said something like "instead of feeling sorry for yourself you should do something proactive about it". I told him I have been going to the gym like 9 hours a week for over 6 months and have been using 3 creams for my face. He just told me to use a pill to get rid of acne (which has side effects).

Everyone wants betamales to just kill themselves. we are pathetic losers in society. The lowest of the low. he told me to come back in 2 weeks because i clearly feel sad, but i highly doubt i will. He just said that because he needs to make money.
9 hours a week for 6 months? I dare say that isn't pathetic. As someone who finally managed to go a full month without skipping on exercising 6 days a week, It made me feel fucking great.
You need to separate the reasons that make you feel pathetic into things that you can do something about, and things you can't.
 
Therapists are scammers and can only "help" people with meme issues
 
The reason he seemed dismissive is because he knows he can't do shit for you, not because your problems are insignificant. Most therapist's patients are female, remember.
 
A therapist is a joke career.
 
JFL (((therapists))) get paid to sit in a chair and spit bluepills all day
 
ask him why he became a therapist. like, if its because he really wanted to or because he saw rape in the title and thought it would be a cool way to become a gaslighting asshole.
 
get out while you can. Therapy is torture
 
I did the therapy thing and it was a complete waste of time. I went to three of them and all of them sounded almost exactly alike. It was as if they all were reading from the same supermarket self-help book, much they way you described it. They kept saying things like, "You have to be more open with people," or other such bullshit platitudes that mean nothing. They offered no real understanding or helpful advice, just judgemental bullshit that was of no use.
 
therapists are hacks and wastes of money
money that can be used for actual cope
 
They just want your money and waste your time with common sense advice until the timer runs out. You have to climb out of your own mental quagmires yourself because nobody will truly understand you except you.
 

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