Blackpill Inceldom and Chronic Loneliness Destroys your Health and Life

[Deleted member 5861]

Many people dismiss inceldom as a petty first world problem that is nothing compared to "real" problems. They say "you aren't entitled to sex" just because many incels constantly complain about their loneliness and virginity. Those same people usually would not tell a homeless person "you are not entitled to a home" because that it is unnecessary and very insensitivity. While it may not be wrong, that doesn't change the fact that it is a health hazard and plummets your life quality, just like inceldom.

Sex, Lindau adds, “Is not like icing on the cake – most people wouldn’t willingly give it up.” Sex arguably makes life better, more enjoyable and healthier for lots of familiar reasons.1

Abstinence, however, can become unhealthy – psychologically – when you want to have sex but aren’t. “People will say, ‘I want to but I’m shy,’ or ‘I don’t know how to approach people.’ That’s really hard for people and can make them feel awful about themselves.”

And the anxiety of unfulfilled desire, coupled with the pressure to have sex – whether it’s societal or self-inflicted – can become a vicious cycle, Herbenick adds. Those types of behavioral trends can start early. Studies looking at when people began having sex found that those who started late – mid-20s to early 30s – were more likely to suffer from anxiety that may prevent them from having sex. “If you’re so anxious you can’t try online dating,” it is not abstinence that will pose a health issue, but the anxiety or depression it causes.

“If a person strongly desires but is unable to because they are unwell physically, or can’t find a partner, that is distressing,” Lindau says.1

This is the case for INVOLUNTARY celibates. People who are voluntarily celibate, such as monks, live life perfectly fine without sex. That is because they don't want sex. Think of consensual sex and rape, sex is enjoyable, unless it is forced and involuntary, then it is absolutely traumatizing. Telling a rape victim that they should be okay with it because people enjoy voluntary sex is very insensitive. But telling incels to be okay with their involuntary celibacy is very common and socially acceptable. Inconsistent logic by detractors of incels.

Loneliness and social isolation are harmful to our health: research shows that lacking social connections is as damaging to our health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day (Holt-Lunstad, 2015). Social networks and friendships not only have an impact on reducing the risk of mortality or developing certain diseases, but they also help individuals to recover when they do fall ill (Marmot, 2010).2

Lots of people would agree that a sexual relationship is one of the best social connections you could possibly have. Besides that point, a true incel strongly lacks any kind of social connection.

Loneliness and physical health

• Loneliness increases the likelihood of mortality by 26% (Holt-Lunstad, 2015)
• The effect of loneliness and isolation on mortality is comparable to the impact of well-known risk factors such as obesity, and has a similar influence as cigarette smoking (Holt-Lunstad, 2010)
• Loneliness is associated with an increased risk of developing coronary heart disease and stroke (Valtorta et al, 2016)
• Loneliness increases the risk of high blood pressure (Hawkley et al, 2010)
• Lonely individuals are also at higher risk of the onset of disability (Lund et al, 2010)

Loneliness and mental health

• Loneliness puts individuals at greater risk of cognitive decline (James et al, 2011)
• One study concludes lonely people have a 64% increased chance of developing clinical dementia (Holwerda et al, 2012)
• Lonely individuals are more prone to depression (Cacioppo et al, 2006) (Green et al, 1992)
• Loneliness and low social interaction are predictive of suicide in older age (O’Connell et al, 2004)2

Loneliness is comparable/more deadly than obesity, and there are bureaucratic/industries based exclusively on loneliness

Isolation was associated with a 43% higher risk of first-time heart attack and a 39% higher risk of first-time stroke. Loneliness, meanwhile, was associated with a 49% higher risk of first-time heart attack and a 36% higher risk of first-time stroke.3

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The pain of social rejection is very real and serious, as quoted by Psychology Today.

Rejection by others psychologically wounds us more deeply than almost anything else, and research by neuroscientists reveals that ostracism can lead to feeling actual physical pain.4

Chronic loneliness is something else entirely. It is one of the surest markers in existence for maladjustment.

In children, it leads to all kinds of problems. Failure to be socially connected to peers is the real reason behind most school dropouts. It sets in motion a course on which children spin their way to outcast status and develop delinquency and other forms of antisocial behavior.

In adults, loneliness is a major precipitant of depression and alcoholism.5

• Living alone increases the risk of suicide for young and old alike.
• Lonely individuals report higher levels of perceived stress even when exposed to the same stressors as non-lonely people, and even when they are relaxing.
• The social interaction lonely people do have are not as positive as those of other people, hence the relationships they have do not buffer them from stress as relationships normally do.
• Loneliness destroys the quality and efficiency of sleep, so that it is less restorative, both physically and psychologically. They wake up more at night and spend less time in bed actually sleeping than do the nonlonely.5

Lonely people deal with all this pain and misery but often try to conceal it out of fears of even more rejection.

“There’s a notion that lonely people are doing something wrong,” says author Emily White, who chronicled her own experience in Lonely: Learning to Live with Solitude. “Lack of social skills…lack of intelligence…less athletic. Notions we don’t bring to other similar psychological conditions like depression.”6

Loneliness is often equated with being a loser, “with holding up a big L over your head,” says Cacioppo. People tend to deny or conceal their loneliness, in which case it’s likely to get worse.6

Conclusion: Chronic loneliness, often felt by those with involuntary celibacy, causes massive amounts of stress, anxiety, and depression to its victims. Leading to a vicious cycle that makes a person's life progressively worse and worse. It causes many people to drop out of school, become alcoholics, do delinquent behavior, and in many cases, ultimately leads to suicide. It is a major problem if many people are killing themselves over it, this is common sense.

Sources: 1)https://health.usnews.com/health-news/health-wellness/articles/2014/07/07/is-abstinence-unhealthy
2)https://www.campaigntoendloneliness.org/threat-to-health/
3)http://time.com/5212558/loneliness-social-isolation-heart-health/
4)https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/out-the-ooze/201611/the-perils-social-isolation
5)https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200307/the-dangers-loneliness
6)https://www.everydayhealth.com/news/loneliness-can-really-hurt-you/

 

[Evildoer]

High IQ post.

 

[Robtical]

High IQ post.

 

[Deleted member 677]

 

[Singularity314]

Well done, there is so much information concerning the link between physical health being effected by your mental well-being.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

IT won't want to read this.

High IQ post.

 

[WarriorSkull]

nominating for blackpill archives

 

[Modus Coperandi]

High IQ post.

We should spam this at every inceltears post. Those cucks are human trash.

Many people dismiss inceldom as a petty first world problem that is nothing compared to "real" problems. They say "you aren't entitled to sex" just because many incels constantly complain about their loneliness and virginity. Those same people usually would not tell a homeless person "you are not entitled to a home"

well said. people who bully incels have blood on their hands.

 

[idkwattodowithlife]

legit.

theres also some studies showcasing that inceldom (aka loneliness) shortens your life span... its ridiculous.


this thread should have 30+ posts, but instead we have threads about "muh subhuman jawline" having 30+ responses.

 

[platypus]

legit.

theres also some studies showcasing that inceldom (aka loneliness) shortens your life span... its ridiculous.


this thread should have 30+ posts, but instead we threads about "muh subhuman jawline" having 30+ responses.

Good point.

I made this post along the same lines and it got zero replies: https://incels.is/threads/a-brief-synopsis-of-the-blackpill-for-the-new-guys.52318/

 

[Robtical]

The cucked government would rather fund public schools than escorts for incels. I never heard of anyone dying early or going ER for not getting a public school education.

 

[idkwattodowithlife]

Good point.

I made this post along the same lines and it got zero replies: https://incels.is/threads/a-brief-synopsis-of-the-blackpill-for-the-new-guys.52318/

ill respond to it, your thread deserves a bump.

it happened to me a lot. you make black pill threads and then other threads takes over it.

 

[LebaneseCel]

High IQ post.

Low IQ reply.

 

[Ritalincel]

Normcunts want nothing more than for incels to suffer.

Low IQ reply.

cope

 

[Getlooksordie]

"then why don´t those guys just pick up a girl at a bar or do online dating?" Teeeheee

 

[TheRealChincel]

"then why don´t those guys just pick up a girl at a bar or do online dating?" Teeeheee

 

[CaptainCuck]

We should spam this at every inceltears post. Those cucks are human trash.

well said. people who bully incels have blood on their hands.

Cucks and white knights are the absolute worst of humankind.

Their thirst for pussy is such that they are willing to destroy other isolated men with cowardly methods like online bullying, doxxing and the like to appease their femoid gods.

 

[platypus]

Cucks and white knights are the absolute worst of humankind.

Their thirst for pussy is such that they are willing to destroy other isolated men with cowardly methods like online bullying, doxxing and the like to appease their femoid gods.

Reminds me of how the Jews destroyed themselves when the Roman's were beseiging Jerusalem for the first time.

At a conservative estimate, the garrison of Jerusalem therefore amounted to over 20,000 well-armed troops, who still possessed the artillery they had captured from the Romans. Unfortunately, they were divided into two mutually hostile factions. This lack of unity was made even more serious by an obsession with exterminating the remaining members of the ruling class who had not become Zealots.

Simon bar Giora occupied the Upper City and the Great Wall, as far as the Kedron, along with a large part of the Old Wall, where it curved around east from Siloam and went downward to the palace of King Monabazus (of Adiabene). He also occupied the fountain together with a good deal of the Lower City, extending right up to the palace of Queen Helena, Monabazus’s mother. John of Gischala held the Temple and much of the surrounding neighborhood, with Ophel and the Kedron Valley. The two leaders had already wrecked the area in between, demolishing houses to get a clearer field of fire at each other. At this stage, apart from the brief moment of reality when they made their first sortie, they never stopped fighting, despite the Romans being just outside the walls.

“They did more harm to each other than anything the Romans did so that nothing worse could happen to the city,” comments Josephus in The Jewish War. “No horrors more dreadful can possibly be imagined.”2 As Josephus puts it, their ceaseless, fratricidal combat undermined the defense, until the Romans finally put an end to the feuding—“even harder than destroying the walls.”

 

[CaptainCuck]

Reminds me of how the Jews destroyed themselves when the Roman's were beseiging Jerusalem for the first time.

At a conservative estimate, the garrison of Jerusalem therefore amounted to over 20,000 well-armed troops, who still possessed the artillery they had captured from the Romans. Unfortunately, they were divided into two mutually hostile factions. This lack of unity was made even more serious by an obsession with exterminating the remaining members of the ruling class who had not become Zealots.

Simon bar Giora occupied the Upper City and the Great Wall, as far as the Kedron, along with a large part of the Old Wall, where it curved around east from Siloam and went downward to the palace of King Monabazus (of Adiabene). He also occupied the fountain together with a good deal of the Lower City, extending right up to the palace of Queen Helena, Monabazus’s mother. John of Gischala held the Temple and much of the surrounding neighborhood, with Ophel and the Kedron Valley. The two leaders had already wrecked the area in between, demolishing houses to get a clearer field of fire at each other. At this stage, apart from the brief moment of reality when they made their first sortie, they never stopped fighting, despite the Romans being just outside the walls.

“They did more harm to each other than anything the Romans did so that nothing worse could happen to the city,” comments Josephus in The Jewish War. “No horrors more dreadful can possibly be imagined.”2 As Josephus puts it, their ceaseless, fratricidal combat undermined the defense, until the Romans finally put an end to the feuding—“even harder than destroying the walls.”

I can imagine the Jews being the white knights taking each other out to get scraps of sex from the women, while the Romans are the Chads who walk in and scoop it up with ease amidst their infighting.

Goodbye civilization.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

They just want us to stfu and be a good cog in the machine

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Exactly.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

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[Lancelot]

Cucks and white knights are the absolute worst of humankind.

Their thirst for pussy is such that they are willing to destroy other isolated men with cowardly methods like online bullying, doxxing and the like to appease their femoid gods.

Interested in this - and from anyone else - online bullying? what does this involve for those who have experienced it?

 

[grayjedi90]

Many people dismiss inceldom as a petty first world problem that is nothing compared to "real" problems. They say "you aren't entitled to sex" just because many incels constantly complain about their loneliness and virginity. Those same people usually would not tell a homeless person "you are not entitled to a home" because that it is unnecessary and very insensitivity. While it may not be wrong, that doesn't change the fact that it is a health hazard and plummets your life quality, just like inceldom.



This is the case for INVOLUNTARY celibates. People who are voluntarily celibate, such as monks, live life perfectly fine without sex. That is because they don't want sex. Think of consensual sex and rape, sex is enjoyable, unless it is forced and involuntary, then it is absolutely traumatizing. Telling a rape victim that they should be okay with it because people enjoy voluntary sex is very insensitive. But telling incels to be okay with their involuntary celibacy is very common and socially acceptable. Inconsistent logic by detractors of incels.


Lots of people would agree that a sexual relationship is one of the best social connections you could possibly have. Besides that point, a true incel strongly lacks any kind of social connection.


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Loneliness is comparable/more deadly than obesity, and there are bureaucratic/industries based exclusively on loneliness

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The pain of social rejection is very real and serious, as quoted by Psychology Today.






Lonely people deal with all this pain and misery but often try to conceal it out of fears of even more rejection.



Conclusion: Chronic loneliness, often felt by those with involuntary celibacy, causes massive amounts of stress, anxiety, and depression to its victims. Leading to a vicious cycle that makes a person's life progressively worse and worse. It causes many people to drop out of school, become alcoholics, do delinquent behavior, and in many cases, ultimately leads to suicide. It is a major problem if many people are killing themselves over it, this is common sense.

Sources: 1)https://health.usnews.com/health-news/health-wellness/articles/2014/07/07/is-abstinence-unhealthy
2)https://www.campaigntoendloneliness.org/threat-to-health/
3)http://time.com/5212558/loneliness-social-isolation-heart-health/
4)https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/out-the-ooze/201611/the-perils-social-isolation
5)https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200307/the-dangers-loneliness
6)https://www.everydayhealth.com/news/loneliness-can-really-hurt-you/

Tell me something new

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Interested in this - and from anyone else - online bullying? what does this involve for those who have experienced it?

Doxxed then having an angry mob go to your home and kill you. Or something like that but less severe.

 

[Dungcel]

Sex is a basic bodily functions, human's are made to have it, as is every other being on Earth, how the fuck do normies think it can't affect your health?

 

[Hellothere]

Yeah, yeah, this sounds like me sadly.

 

[DyingInside]

Sex is a basic bodily functions, human's are made to have it, as is every other being on Earth, how the fuck do normies think it can't affect your health?

Most are too low iq to understand

 

[TheCrusader0201]

High IQ post.