"Nine years ago, I found out that my first partner, with whom I was for almost two years, had been cheating on me almost from the beginning of the relationship.
I found out because I asked for her phone for something random, and messages with the other guy popped up.
The problem is that this girl didn't cheat on me because I "let her down" or anything like that, but specifically because of the size of my penis (she mentioned it to the other guy; it wasn't something she said after being caught).
This event caused me such insecurity that I ended up going to several urologists to see if my situation was really that bad, and it turned out that yes: I don't have a micropenis, but I’m definitely below average."
And here it is. There is not way to gaslight about this. The female cheated on him because his penis is too small. She did not cheat because of his looks or height, no. She cheated on him solely because he has a small penis.
He is also not "insecure" about it but rather starts to realise that he is small and that is the only reason the female cheated on him. He has become more self-aware.
"This leaves me pretty sad because, while I know not all women are going to cheat on me for this, it's highly likely that this girl wouldn't prefer my size. I know some care less about it and that it can be "compensated" with other things. But it's the idea of knowing they would be settling that doesn’t allow me to give dating another chance. It makes me feel like my desire is illegitimate, and clearly, they were more excited about their exes who had a bigger size."
Here we go again with the typical "not all women are like that". I think he writes this because he is afraid of some sort of backlash. I always notice it, that whenever a man is talking about females, they start to be very careful in their writings. They become overly respectful but yet again, they will still receive backlash from it. So, regardless of how careful and how respectful they write their text, people still going to lash out on them.
Also he is right, that females are excited about their ex-boyfriends big penis. As a matter of fact, they lust over it and they talk about it to other female friends.
"And yes, I know there's oral, toys, lesbians, and all that blah blah... What annoys me is that they usually tell people like me something like "you better be perfect in everything else to make up for your shitty genes.""
Tools are the ultimate proof that you are not big enough. It is a tool to emasculate men.
He also goes on and says:
"I’ll tell you being larger isn’t always better, there’s positions that one is not able to pull off because there’s things like a cervix that can be hit and that hurts, or anal will be out of the question. Don’t look at the just the negatives."
No. Bigger is always better. Why is it so hard to understand? Why are people still gaslighting about it when this issue is solely based on penis size and nothing else? It cannot be anything else but penis size.
I am also able to show, that bigger is always better with a simple question. You only have to go around and ask. What penis size do you rather want 5 inches or 8 inches? Every man will say 8 inches.
It is like saying being handsome is not always better. Being taller is not always better. No, it is better. Same goes for penis size.