bro listen op...
No hate.
Do what you want with your time and money.
But let me ask you a question and be honest...
What has seeing prostitutes given you back?
Are you somehow more productive?
Are you happier?
Less depressed?
Living life more fully somehow?
What?
More energy?
prostitute fall for clients but only if they are chad and tyrone. Not ugly dudes.
much more happier really, what I felt I was lacking, I gained a sense of wholeness, an acceptance as a human being as a man
do prostitutes fall for me? no, but they treat me good and sometimes with affection
there's a whole range between a girl full on falling in love with you and her being indifferent to you, there are many degrees of intimacy
the few first times I went to a prostitute I got met with small amounts of disgust, rejection, bitchiness, prostitutes doing their best to make you cum as fast as possible in the trashiest ways, or even flatout rejecting you,yeah I got treated like crap a few times, but I also had prostitutes that were simply nice to me
it felt nice to be simply treated nicely by women, there are women out there that DO believe in your worth as a man even if you dont look like chad, there were prostitutes that felt like big sisters to me, in the beginning the dynamics are different because as an incel you have no experience with women but you're dealing with your own huge insecurities, and I didnt have the big cash to go visit escorts that specialize in girlfriend experience,these escorts are the best for a first time for an incel, if anyone's thinking about doing this I recommend visiting an escort who does GFE and letting her know you're virgin and hear how she deals with that, you kinda have to vet escorts to make sure they will treat you with respect
some are indeed out to make money and get you off as fast as possible and shoo you away and just treat you like shit really, its something you learn to vet and deal with,i've had times where I walked in a place felt the vibe and how she was going to treat me and I noped the fuck out of there, im not gonna let a prostitute treat me like trash when I know there are some out there that will treat me with respect and dignity
so for a first time vet the prostitute, make sure she knows you're inexperienced so you can see how she reacts to that,and at least one hour with the ability to get off multiple times, this way you're sure she's willing to actually invest herself in you and not just try to wrap things up as quick as possible
this all sounds very hard, and it has been hard at times but its been really rewarding, the beginning days of seeing prostitutes were harder but there were always special moments, once I actually got comfortable seeing prostitutes the whole dynamics change
you're comfortable getting naked with a woman,touching her, you've done it a few times so its not that intimidating anymore, once I wasnt intimated by a prostitute anymore everything changes
there are moments with chemistry with a prostitute where you can tell she likes you, this doesnt happen all the time its just reality, some women you click with more then others, and its the same with prostitutes, some actually like you even if they're not falling in love instantly, being liked feels good, later on as I got more and confident visiting prostitute to point where at times im more or just as experienced as them in the whole interaction there have been prostitutes who i've felt were attracted to me, and that was new, its always evolving
see visiting prostitutes is not as cheap and pitiful and easy as you guys make it out to be, you're STILL presenting yourself to a woman and she has to accept you,, and becoming intimate with a stranger, there's no such thing as meaningless sex, it ALWAYS MEANS something, which for me prostitution is a god given GIFT! some amount money does it no justice to what I really receive and this is why I say women have authentic love for men, if they truly had disgust for sub8 men they wouldnt do it, because prostitutes give A LOT to their clients, the paper given is nothing really
prostitutes SAY NO, if she doesnt want to sleep with you she will reject you, but thats also what makes you KNOW when they DO SAY YES its NOT just about the money, and when their YES becomes more and more genuine and respectful you can feel yourself being more accepted
nowadays I can walk around being confident in myself even I PAID FOR MOST OF MY SEXUAL EXPERIENCES ,im not intimidated by ANY WOMAN, because I can tell you most women are a walk in the park next to actual prostitutes,prostitutes deal with all kinds of men day in day out, these are TOUGH people, which is again why I understand its not about entirely about the money, there is a humanitarian aspect to it, there's no way girls do this if there isn't a shred actual love for men of all kinds
prostitutes who knew of my insecurities but still treated me like a brother, some that treated me like I am an accomplished man, these experiences are so valuable and so human, its not just about the money guys, this is real, prostitutes that have given me a hug, or there was even one that kissed me fully and allowed me to make out with her,and her ill never forget
when do you have the occasion to spend half an hour or an hour with a foid one on one FULLY focused on YOU?
when?
these are the questions I asked myself when I weighed prostitution, you have to be able to put your ego aside, its so fucking worth it
I don't have to run after woman in bars, I dont have to impossibly look good on tinder, I go, I pay, and she gives me her attention and her pussy, you guys think I look down on that? Im ULTRA GRATEFULL really to these women, these people are our allies, and these women fucking saved me