No idea whether that can be considered an incel trait or how to start this thread properly, so I'll just start yapping:
Do your parents also have your life planned for you? Or at the very least one of them?
I'm currently destroying his plans, but my father originally wanted me to live with him and my mother until I'm married, he wanted me to save up money so we could buy a car "together" (meaning that it would be "everyone's" car and the availability for me would be dependent on him and how important he thinks his appointments are), and he wanted me to buy an apartment that would actually be mine after paying for it monthly (like rent it until you paid it off).
Education wise, I'm glad I let my parents decide what I should do. While I did not really care that much about what I had learned in school (network engineering), the school I graduated from is a pretty good one. I now have pretty good opportunities jobwise and, while the pay isn't going to get me a Bugatti anytime soon, it is almost €500 above minimum wage.
But education aside, the things he had planned for me would most likely ruin me. Here is what would happen if I submitted to his plan like a good little boy
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I'll be viewing an apartment very soon. Layout-wise it looks very good, public-transit is close-by, the rent isn't that high, it's neither at the very top nor at the very bottom of the apartment-complex, meaning that heating shouldn't be a problem and so shouldn't privacy...
But yeah, is that an incel trait? Do you have a similar story to share?
Do your parents also have your life planned for you? Or at the very least one of them?
I'm currently destroying his plans, but my father originally wanted me to live with him and my mother until I'm married, he wanted me to save up money so we could buy a car "together" (meaning that it would be "everyone's" car and the availability for me would be dependent on him and how important he thinks his appointments are), and he wanted me to buy an apartment that would actually be mine after paying for it monthly (like rent it until you paid it off).
Education wise, I'm glad I let my parents decide what I should do. While I did not really care that much about what I had learned in school (network engineering), the school I graduated from is a pretty good one. I now have pretty good opportunities jobwise and, while the pay isn't going to get me a Bugatti anytime soon, it is almost €500 above minimum wage.
But education aside, the things he had planned for me would most likely ruin me. Here is what would happen if I submitted to his plan like a good little boy
:- If I lived with my parents until I was married, I would be living with them until I was dead. Women's standards nowadays are fucked, water wet, so not having your own place to stay will actively contribute to me never finding a wife. Not only that, but having no responsibilities, no discipline, as they are the ones managing their household (like making food, washing the clothes, cleaning everything, etc.), will not only lead to me not learning the bare minimum skills to keep myself alive but will also result in me never finding the discipline needed to lose weight (I'm a fatcel if you don't know already), lowering my chances of ever getting a wife even further.
- This one is pretty self-explanatory. I don't want to go to work for them, I want to go to work for myself. I want to drive my car whenever I feel like it, not whenever my father doesn't. Imagine going to work knowing that a big chunk of your savings will go towards something that you don't fully own. Fucking selfish cunt. Not only is that selfish, though, it also would lead to my output at work decreasing. Who wouldn't be demotivated to go to work if you knew someone else has plans to spend your money?
- I don't want to live in an apartment forever. I want to live somewhere outside the city, in a nice house with a garden. Ideally with a wife (which will probably be necessary as the prices are high like the NASA).
I'll be viewing an apartment very soon. Layout-wise it looks very good, public-transit is close-by, the rent isn't that high, it's neither at the very top nor at the very bottom of the apartment-complex, meaning that heating shouldn't be a problem and so shouldn't privacy...
But yeah, is that an incel trait? Do you have a similar story to share?
