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Your genetics influence your instincts too

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Bad genetics are more than just looks related, they also influence your instincts.

I've noticed many people here enjoy NEETing and LDARing. Myself, I have always been physically lazy. I've forced myself to be active over the past few years although my tryhard phase is over.

I'm convinced Chads are simply built different in more ways than just looks. A chad wakes up every day and doesn't introspect much. He doesn't feel any sense of shame or laziness. He just gets up and immediately starts doing something. I wake up depressed every day and getting up feels like torture. My energy levels usually don't improve much until the sun goes down. In contrast, Chad cannot wait to go to the gym or play some goyball with the mates.

My dad isn't a chad but he dedicates his whole life outside of work to goyball. He could tell you what player was traded to what team 10 years ago. When he's not watching goyball he's doing some type of hands on pointless task that doesn't need to be done like some kind of a meth head. I've worked on cars and don't really get any sort of accomplishment from it. At the end of an oil change your hands smell like shit even after you wash them 5 times over and you barely saved any money at all. Some other jobs can be total pains in the ass.

My instincts tell me to be sedentary and prioritize comfort over unnecessary risk and work. These are in direct contrast to a Chad's instincts which are more about pointless competition for the sake of it. Think of all the morons who break their TVs when their goyball team loses or the idiots who do wheelies on motorcycles down the road. These are behaviors that make the femoids swoon because women date what they hate. Sounds like redpill cope except that a real blackpill is that you don't have these instincts in the first place due to your genes.

A chad will sit down and play the guitar for 4 hours a day just because he wants to be better than the next guy even though he's just playing the same notes as everyone else except faster. He will bully anyone who doesn't know as much about goyball as him. "Oh you didn't know Dick Cummers got traded to the Cumskins back in 1995? Fucking pussy amateur br0."

I never had this sense of pointless competition because my genes were telling me it was over from day 1. Nothing truly interests me. I am not interesting or full of energy. Chads radiate energy good or bad.

BUT I'm also not a soy phaggot nice guy who is a woman's best friend and is willing to be cucked. This puts me in precarious situation because it's all my genes allow for (and not even that I suppose). My instincts are to be more like that but I have to suppress them
 
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It's brutal. I tried to get in shape for a year and it was such a pain. I knew a Chad who did sports and ran for the sake of it. How the fuck could one enjoy running? He liked the grind for the sake of it, he went to work not because he needed money but because he liked it, he never developed any addiction, he didn't use his phone or played videogames because he found it boring.

His motto, when I asked him for advice, was always "you should do what you feel like doing". Doing what I felt like doing was exactly the reason I had dug myself in such a hole. There I was, trying for years to drop my internet and porn addictions, reading self-help books like David Goggins and Atomic Habits that Chad never needed, and failing.

Most of it is genetic, but some of it comes from your experience too. That Chad was like this because he lived a fulfilling life full of love and happyness. I was depressed and alone, so it was more difficult to find motivation to do anything, and I became lethargic.
 
I've never had that drive either.
I think its a mix of nature and nurture, I'm pretty similar to my dad personality wise, antisocial + unmotivated, but I think having no restrictions to my computer and the internet since I was a child just exacerbated all the bad aspects of my nature.
 
It's brutal. I tried to get in shape for a year and it was such a pain. I knew a Chad who did sports and ran for the sake of it. How the fuck could one enjoy running? He liked the grind for the sake of it, he went to work not because he needed money but because he liked it, he never developed any addiction, he didn't use his phone or played videogames because he found it boring.

His motto, when I asked him for advice, was always "you should do what you feel like doing". Doing what I felt like doing was exactly the reason I had dug myself in such a hole. There I was, trying for years to drop my internet and porn addictions, reading self-help books like David Goggins and Atomic Habits that Chad never needed, and failing.

Most of it is genetic, but some of it comes from your experience too. That Chad was like this because he lived a fulfilling life full of love and happyness. I was depressed and alone, so it was more difficult to find motivation to do anything, and I became lethargic.
To be fair, jogging does give you a runners high which I have experienced. I've never felt that with weightlifting though. It just makes me even more lethargic.

I've known HTNs or Chads who play video games but they usually take it overly seriously like how people take goyball seriously when it's a pointless bullshit activity
 

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