Porn

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

I've been coping a lot with porn lately. Since I'm still KV at age 25 y/o, and we all know being incel drains your whole energy in a special way, I cba to quit it. Just like I cba to hit the gym. It's not rewarding. Quitting porn would change nothing for me, but maybe I'll try to get rid of it, Idk yet.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Brutal. I prefer not to watch it because it makes me feel distressed.

 

[endoftheskies]

I've been coping a lot with porn lately. Since I'm still KV at age 25 y/o, and we all know being incel drains your whole energy in a special way, I cba to quit it. Just like I cba to hit the gym. It's not rewarding. Quitting porn would change nothing for me, but maybe I'll try to get rid of it, Idk yet.

I don't watch porn.

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

Brutal. I prefer not to watch it because it makes me feel distressed.

Makes sense. I wish I could monkmax again, just like I did for my itis. I quit porn and masturbation entirely for about five months for her and locked in on self-improvement, only to find out that she was going to get married a month later

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

I don't watch porn.

Mogs me

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

only to find out that she was going to get married a month later

Damn

 

[endoftheskies]

Mogs me

Porn is an animalistic desire. It is an medium designed as an attack on your biology. The only reason why you are addicted to it is because you have nothing else to do. Porn has no substance, and thus it preys on your vulnerablity.

Rat Park - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

Damn

That was in early 2024, so almost two years. I haven't been in love ever since and I won't feel the type of love ever again. Young love. It’s absolutely, irreversibly over. I'm past the age of young love and will forever be miserable

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

Porn is an animalistic desire. It is an medium designed as an attack on your biology. The only reason why you are addicted to it is because you have nothing else to do. Porn has no substance, and thus it preys on your vulnerablity.

Rat Park - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Thanks. Will read the wikipedia article. Any opinion on the "The Easy Peasy Method"?
https://easypeasymethod.org/

 

[endoftheskies]

Thanks. Will read the wikipedia article. Any opinion on the "The Easy Peasy Method"?
https://easypeasymethod.org/

Never heard of it.

 

[Ambatukam Alone]

https://incels.is/threads/never-goon-accountability-thread.781797/

1. Stop edging/gooning for extended durations.
2. Remove all porn.
3. Remove masturbation.

Depending on your goals, you can stop after either one of these, I guess. Spending hours gooning is hard to defend in any way as a desirable action. Removing porn altogether may be incredibly easy if one still jacks off without porn. Step 3 I doubt I'll ever complete.

Like with gaming, in my experience the greatest loss isn't necessarily the "time and energy" or getting anhedonia; but the missed motivation/info-gathering/"I want to do something I'm bored"/etc that will come when not occupied with those highly stimulating activities.

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

https://incels.is/threads/never-goon-accountability-thread.781797/

1. Stop edging/gooning for extended durations.
2. Remove all porn.
3. Remove masturbation.

Depending on your goals, you can stop after either one of these, I guess. Spending hours gooning is hard to defend in any way as a desirable action. Removing porn altogether may be incredibly easy if one still jacks off without porn. Step 3 I doubt I'll ever complete.

Like with gaming, in my experience the greatest loss isn't necessarily the "time and energy" or getting anhedonia; but the missed motivation/info-gathering/"I want to do something I'm bored"/etc that will come when not occupied with those highly stimulating activities.

Thanks. Yeah, I'll work towards step 1 and 2. I'll prob not stop masturbating for now. I once did NoPMO for 5 months straight without relapsing. Good experience.

The last part is very true and sad