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Greycel
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i have been thinking over this for quite some time. You remember going to school, seeing people socialising?
And i mean not talking with one-two of your close friends (also men, most likely, i mean the people who just talk, drink, party and don't give a shit.
Why are they successful in life? What lead to them being so social?
I believe this has nothing to do with genetics or personal confidence. If your parents fuck up while bringing you up or they are just moronic retards (in rare cases like mine) who decide to have a child while poor and not able to afford one, it generally leads to people like us or a genetic defect.
Parets who provide for their kid (middle - upper-middle class) AND who DON'T TRY AND CONTROL EVERY SINGLE ASPECT OF THEIR LIVES (helicopters) have the social children? Also the same peope who allow for their kids to have sex at a young age,drink, sleep around, etc.
So is it "us" who are the problem, or our parents for somehow mesing up in our upbringing? what could be done to fix this?
state-mandated parenting guides? mass propaganda? i don't think therapy can fix anyone after the age of 16
And i mean not talking with one-two of your close friends (also men, most likely, i mean the people who just talk, drink, party and don't give a shit.
Why are they successful in life? What lead to them being so social?
I believe this has nothing to do with genetics or personal confidence. If your parents fuck up while bringing you up or they are just moronic retards (in rare cases like mine) who decide to have a child while poor and not able to afford one, it generally leads to people like us or a genetic defect.
Parets who provide for their kid (middle - upper-middle class) AND who DON'T TRY AND CONTROL EVERY SINGLE ASPECT OF THEIR LIVES (helicopters) have the social children? Also the same peope who allow for their kids to have sex at a young age,drink, sleep around, etc.
So is it "us" who are the problem, or our parents for somehow mesing up in our upbringing? what could be done to fix this?
state-mandated parenting guides? mass propaganda? i don't think therapy can fix anyone after the age of 16