Blackpill People hate when a reputation reducing truth becomes public MORE than when they discover it themselves.

[Pinpoint]

I mean both suck. But people seem to get struck with a heart attack when their reputation is ruined.
I think it's human nature to know that harsh truths are unavoidable. But the reputation/ how you are perceived is crucial.
We literally get heartbroken when our reputation (artificial/ constructed representation of ourselves) comes down. Which essentially means most people are spiritually wired to be manipulative sociopathic narcissists to some degree. I think we care about function over truth/ or enjoying our life experience based only around ourselves rather than how we affect others... because social navigation/ social manipulation is human nature.
Anyone who says that you're not supposed to orient your value around others is cope.
We do that all the time. It's human nature. We're more narcissistic creatures more specifically than just social creatures.

 

[Giegue]

Interesting fact.
We care more about our own wellbeing and our place in the hierarchy than we would for the people around us, to extremes.
We were hardwired this way, we put ourselves as first priority, as its our live.
If someone elses reputation gets crushed we would care much less for it than we would for our own, Unless the other persons reputation indirectly affects ours aswell... Maybe.

 

[Pinpoint]

Interesting fact.
We care more about our own wellbeing and our place in the hierarchy than we would for the people around us, to extremes.
We were hardwired this way, we put ourselves as first priority, as its our live.
If someone elses reputation gets crushed we would care much less for it than we would for our own, Unless the other persons reputation indirectly affects ours aswell... Maybe.

yes definitely.
we care more about how we are functioning than who we really are.
It sucks if you wanna insecurely looksmax over something sure. but we don't care so long as no one can perceive it.same with our background in life.

 

[Braincel14w]

Good observation. I'm trying to BE more true after I realised that half the stuff I say to people is false because I'm ashamed of my life.
Trying to remove all the things that I'm ashamed of so that I don't have to lie.

 

[Pinpoint]

Good observation. I'm trying to BE more true after I realised that half the stuff I say to people is false because I'm ashamed of my life.
Trying to remove all the things that I'm ashamed of so that I don't have to lie.

Most people don't feel shame in lying. Normies have underlyingly nihilistic views of life and will do anything to have power or reputation. They just socket it in the subconscious.

 

[Braincel14w]

Most people don't feel shame in lying. Normies have underlyingly nihilistic views of life and will do anything to have power or reputation. They just socket it in the subconscious.

People aren't dumb though you can only lie so much for so long until people just know your a lier and don't believe anything you say. I lied about not being virgin for years to me former friends but they all knew JFL

 

[Pinpoint]

People aren't dumb though you can only lie so much for so long until people just know your a lier and don't believe anything you say. I lied about not being virgin for years to me former friends but they all knew JFL

It depends on how well you can hide everything. If you are an incel with everything being malleable such as teeth, glasses, etc. then it can be done. you need to provide real substance in the end.
I'd say the true measure of an incel is how much you are fucked in nonmalleable areas such as height (usually), eye color, skull shape, chest shape, flesh shape, etc.

And your halo will be taken from that.
Some people have the self conscientious insight and mental command to make everything malleable set, and then you have to make it come off natural. It's a tricky process. But if you are mogged in a place that's unchangeable such as autism or your face is melted or you have a shroom nose, shitty voice (and you're poor) it's all over.

It's all primal hierarchy, and no one giving a fuck about who you really are, but how you are in relation to it.
Plus if you have legit value then no one will give a fuck if you're lying.
Chad can be cheeky teehee about how he grew up in a well off neighborhood white haven if he was just from some poor farm village in south carolina, but is 6'4 with good genetics and no one will give a shit.

Context/ story are nothing compared to the major essentiality.
When you have a great car that looks great who cares where it came from.
Women love the immorality of someone fake if they have the stride of a dominarch.
Incel lying about his background is tryhard and creepy.
Chad lying about it (chad is distinguished by perceived high nonmalleable-area-value (shit you can't change)) then the foid loves his machiavellian mentality and sees him as a worthy prospect for her own narcissistic games.

You just have to feel like that distinguished class of male where you are chad (dominarchally desirable) or incel/ beta (dominarchally challenged) for a woman to dig you as a liar.

 

[Michael15651]

We care more about our own wellbeing and our place in the hierarchy than we would for the people around us, to extremes.