RuudVanNistelrooy
i'm far from the star
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This level of delusion and entitlement is amazing. Imagine if roles were reversed, even the EU parliament would be involved.


















A few years ago, if a woman couldn’t find a boyfriend, people assumed her standards were too high.
Today, more and more women are asking a different question: What if our standards aren’t the problem? What if we’ve simply spent years becoming the whole package, only to discover that many men stopped at the gym?
Women are building careers, cultivating taste, developing emotional intelligence, reading, creating, healing, evolving, and learning how to be alone.
Meanwhile, many men still believe a decent body, a paycheck, and a bit of confidence should be enough to carry them through modern dating.
And maybe that’s why so many women are quietly opting out, not because they hate men, not because they’re impossible to please, but because being in a relationship no longer feels more appealing than the lives they’ve already built for themselves.
When @juliafox declared that “men should be more fuckable,” the internet treated it like a joke.
This essay argues she might have been onto something, not because women want perfection, but because attraction has evolved beyond muscles, money, and surface-level charm. Today, being desirable is about presence; it’s about curiosity, depth, and it’s about making someone’s world feel bigger after spending time with you.
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