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Serious Parents contribute in making their children become incels

Pitar62

Pitar62

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Literally the only advice your parents give you related to girls is: "Be nice to women, you have to respect them". That's the most cucked advice ever, and it was embedded in our tradition by women, so they can more easily cuck us and control the gene pool.

Why didn't my father tell me to start shaving my ugly moustache when I was 15? Why didn't he tell me to start working out because I was skinny as shit and looked malnourished? WHY DIDN'T HE TELL ME TO START MEWING?? All he told me was to "be nice to girls". I looked like shit, my hair was shit, my face was shit, but my parents never bothered about it. I wasn't aware of it because my parents didn't tell me. How can a child develop self-awareness if the people responsible for his growth won't help him?

In my entire childhood, I was told to keep studying, don't go outside, and just keep doing my homework, and even more after I did it. Listening to your parents is the most cucked thing you can do, and I deeply regret it. Instead of going outside with friends, I stood at home and studied. And also played video games 6 hours a day. That was it. Parents literally complain when you go outside as a kid. I just wish I said no to them and lived my childhood. Now I got into a good university, but depression took over. I have no friends and no girlfriend, this also means no will to keep studying. If they wanted me to have a good future, they should have ensured I had social skills.

If you're lurking on this forum and you're young, don't listen to your parents. Most only want you to get into a good university and have a good job so they can brag about it with relatives and friends. They don't care about you personally. They don't care how other people your age perceive you. As long as you are studying, you can be ugly and a virgin and they won't care. Learn how to say no to them, and do everything as a child.

It never even started for me. At least you can say you want to live your childhood AGAIN. I never lived it.
 
Yes, they contribute it by giving me shitty genes.
 
Daily reminder no.3 it's parents' fault.
 
Why didn't my father tell me to start shaving my ugly moustache when I was 15? Why didn't he tell me to start working out because I was skinny as shit and looked malnourished? WHY DIDN'T HE TELL ME TO START MEWING?? All he told me was to "be nice to girls". I looked like shit, my hair was shit, my face was shit, but my parents never bothered about it.
This. If you don't tell you're children to looksmax you're either ignorant or a shitty parent.
 
EXACTLY. I’ve made multiple threads about this shit. Encouraging your kids to be social and outgoing is 100x more beneficial than studymaxxing. All I did was study and game all day long, and all I have to show for it is a face covered in acne scars and a rotted brain. Chad fathers would NEVER let their sons live like that. Beta simp fathers create the biggest trucels in existence. Fuck shitty parents, fuck them to the 9th circle of hell and back.
 
Too many parents fail to instill a sense of self confidence in their child. The outcome is a shy and tentative child, more likely to be the target of bullying which will have a knock on effect for the rest of their life.
Education on good parenting should be mandatory.
 
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Too many parents fail to instill a sense of self confidence in their child. The outcome is a shy and tentative child, more likely to be the target of bullying which will have a knock on effect for the rest of their life.
Education on good parenting should be mandatory.
on point
This discussion is kinda avoided because most of .co likes to think its genetic determinism that fucked their life up, and not their shitty upbringing.It kinda "rattles some snakes" when its brought up.
 
on point
This discussion is kinda avoided because most of .co likes to think its genetic determinism that fucked their life up, and not their shitty upbringing.It kinda "rattles some snakes" when its brought up.
You're right man. People don't want to hear the truth.
 
Humanity is delusionmaxxed into oblivion and most people even if not incel, are just teracoping with life. This is also why parents project their shortcoming on their kids. If your dad always wanted to play football, but failed, he'll probably want you to do it (not always true, about sports though, comparing with your example). If your mom always wanted to play the piano but couldn't because she a foid with no willpower, she'll expect you to excel at playing it. It's all the same logic with coping subhumans who think their kids will somehow be gigachads outta nowhere. This is probably because as species we expect to view offspring as healthy with success potential (Chad) until it fails (dies?), we discover our kids are just as subhuman as we are.

On the other hand, telling the kids truth from the start, is either gonna make them rope or ldar which lead again to unsuccessful offspring, so parents don't want that. So bluepilling is their only hope. They just made euthanasia legal for minors in Belgium, I believe, and instantly had a 17 yo going for it. Some might even want at 10, or something.

I'm fine with parents coping, but I agree they should help their kids looksmax. Doesn't even involve much of a hassle. Some of the most important things are:
1. Ensuring normal pregnancy (no stress etc)
2. Making sure, everything is right with the newborn kid (tests, analysis n shit)
3. Taking care of all the details.
For example, since watch out if the child is mouth breathing. That is 99% right way to join this forum. So a based parent should care of this, show the kid to doctor, to orthodontist, anyone and get rid of this issue. Watch out for bite troubles etc, blood tests etc.
After comes things like teaching hygeine to a kid, helping to socialize, teaching the kid to be active, do sports instead of playing games and watching TV for example. It all comes at a certain price though, you can't be a fat alcoholic and demand a kid to do sports. You want him to run, you should be able to and show him. You want to do some amount of pullups? You gotta do more yourself. Also thing like, not letting the kid do something, which everyone do (excluding degenerate shit). If everyone going to the park, football pitch, rather than turning down the offer, let the kid go and have fun or atleast just feel involvement with others. Who knows that maybe the child's one and only chance to socialize and be in company, which is very important imo.

Also if a kid desires something, for example everybody in his class buying this new ps12, you can't just say, no shit, i can't afford that. Shit like that ruins kids. You should come up with some solution. Make it a goal - reach X progress with sport - get ps12. Or a viable alternative which is more useful - İ can rather buy you a computer (is useful for education?) You can play games there's but you should also watch some educational videos, learn doing stuff in scratch, getting ready, or just dive into learning different skills, which might be useful.
İt's also important not to let them get affected by propaganda, especially modern shits.
Shit, i can talk for hours about parenting, too bad, i won't even have kids
 
genetics is everything nothing else matters
 
EXACTLY. I’ve made multiple threads about this shit. Encouraging your kids to be social and outgoing is 100x more beneficial than studymaxxing. All I did was study and game all day long, and all I have to show for it is a face covered in acne scars and a rotted brain. Chad fathers would NEVER let their sons live like that. Beta simp fathers create the biggest trucels in existence. Fuck shitty parents, fuck them to the 9th circle of hell and back.
This. I know no one at 28 outside of work and discord. I rot on the days when no work. No parties, no meetups for me, no gatherings
 
Literally the only advice your parents give you related to girls is: "Be nice to women, you have to respect them". That's the most cucked advice ever, and it was embedded in our tradition by women, so they can more easily cuck us and control the gene pool.

Why didn't my father tell me to start shaving my ugly moustache when I was 15? Why didn't he tell me to start working out because I was skinny as shit and looked malnourished? WHY DIDN'T HE TELL ME TO START MEWING?? All he told me was to "be nice to girls". I looked like shit, my hair was shit, my face was shit, but my parents never bothered about it. I wasn't aware of it because my parents didn't tell me. How can a child develop self-awareness if the people responsible for his growth won't help him?

In my entire childhood, I was told to keep studying, don't go outside, and just keep doing my homework, and even more after I did it. Listening to your parents is the most cucked thing you can do, and I deeply regret it. Instead of going outside with friends, I stood at home and studied. And also played video games 6 hours a day. That was it. Parents literally complain when you go outside as a kid. I just wish I said no to them and lived my childhood. Now I got into a good university, but depression took over. I have no friends and no girlfriend, this also means no will to keep studying. If they wanted me to have a good future, they should have ensured I had social skills.

If you're lurking on this forum and you're young, don't listen to your parents. Most only want you to get into a good university and have a good job so they can brag about it with relatives and friends. They don't care about you personally. They don't care how other people your age perceive you. As long as you are studying, you can be ugly and a virgin and they won't care. Learn how to say no to them, and do everything as a child.

It never even started for me. At least you can say you want to live your childhood AGAIN. I never lived it.

I've talked about this before too:

The average parent is absolutely worthless when it comes to raising their children to thrive (not just survive) in this world
 
Humanity is delusionmaxxed into oblivion and most people even if not incel, are just teracoping with life. This is also why parents project their shortcoming on their kids. If your dad always wanted to play football, but failed, he'll probably want you to do it (not always true, about sports though, comparing with your example). If your mom always wanted to play the piano but couldn't because she a foid with no willpower, she'll expect you to excel at playing it. It's all the same logic with coping subhumans who think their kids will somehow be gigachads outta nowhere. This is probably because as species we expect to view offspring as healthy with success potential (Chad) until it fails (dies?), we discover our kids are just as subhuman as we are.

On the other hand, telling the kids truth from the start, is either gonna make them rope or ldar which lead again to unsuccessful offspring, so parents don't want that. So bluepilling is their only hope. They just made euthanasia legal for minors in Belgium, I believe, and instantly had a 17 yo going for it. Some might even want at 10, or something.

I'm fine with parents coping, but I agree they should help their kids looksmax. Doesn't even involve much of a hassle. Some of the most important things are:
1. Ensuring normal pregnancy (no stress etc)
2. Making sure, everything is right with the newborn kid (tests, analysis n shit)
3. Taking care of all the details.
For example, since watch out if the child is mouth breathing. That is 99% right way to join this forum. So a based parent should care of this, show the kid to doctor, to orthodontist, anyone and get rid of this issue. Watch out for bite troubles etc, blood tests etc.
After comes things like teaching hygeine to a kid, helping to socialize, teaching the kid to be active, do sports instead of playing games and watching TV for example. It all comes at a certain price though, you can't be a fat alcoholic and demand a kid to do sports. You want him to run, you should be able to and show him. You want to do some amount of pullups? You gotta do more yourself. Also thing like, not letting the kid do something, which everyone do (excluding degenerate shit). If everyone going to the park, football pitch, rather than turning down the offer, let the kid go and have fun or atleast just feel involvement with others. Who knows that maybe the child's one and only chance to socialize and be in company, which is very important imo.

Also if a kid desires something, for example everybody in his class buying this new ps12, you can't just say, no shit, i can't afford that. Shit like that ruins kids. You should come up with some solution. Make it a goal - reach X progress with sport - get ps12. Or a viable alternative which is more useful - İ can rather buy you a computer (is useful for education?) You can play games there's but you should also watch some educational videos, learn doing stuff in scratch, getting ready, or just dive into learning different skills, which might be useful.
İt's also important not to let them get affected by propaganda, especially modern shits.
Shit, i can talk for hours about parenting, too bad, i won't even have kids
DhMeAzK
 
Most Millenial and gen Z incels have boomer parents dont they? people should not be allowed kids past 45, the kid should be taken at the hospital after birth if one of the parents is over 45 tbh
 
they didn't have the skills.
 

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