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I've been thinking, and I think what I want even more than the experience of sex is the experience of love and connection.

I may need to settle for a synthetic substitute of this given my current apparent limitations of my looks maxed potential. This lead me to a few ideas, but I don't want to become even more depressed, so I was wondering if any of you guys had, had any experience with these:

1) Cam Girls
2) Online Only relationship with a woman from a really poor country, where you make it seem like you will marry them and lift their family out of poverty
3) Chad Fishing with Voice Calls
4) Only fans with a girl who tries to do more of "the girl friend experience".
5) Female friends, if I can get them

Which is the best is any worth trying?
 
Don't be a simp. You know these foids don't genuinely love you and they just see you as a human ATM and an opportunity to use you. You'll end up emotionally hurt, it's better to have no hope than false hope.
 
what I want even more than the experience of sex is the experience of love and connection.
You're right, and here's some encouraging news: this means you're a conscious human with a soul.

There are people who never desire what you're wanting to feel. They just want to fuck and never think anything else about it. I honestly don't believe they're fully conscious.

Anyway, if I could distill what you're getting at a little further - what you're labeling "love and connection" is, I believe, an instinct to protect and provide for a female. And I might label the thing you desire, "purpose" rather than love. I mean, we're talking about the same feeling, but I'm trying to get at the reason it exists, from the standpoint of evolutionary psychology

This is what an instinct is. It's a feeling that motivates you to take some action. The feeling of wanting to fuck (and therefore the instinct) is separate from the feeling of wanting to love. And what I'm speculating here is that the "action" which is the objective of the love instinct in men, is protection and provisioning.

...and this brings us to your question about synthetic approximations. Maybe what you should be looking for is something you can protect and provide for. Maybe a pet?
 
You're right, and here's some encouraging news: this means you're a conscious human with a soul.

There are people who never desire what you're wanting to feel. They just want to fuck and never think anything else about it. I honestly don't believe they're fully conscious.

Anyway, if I could distill what you're getting at a little further - what you're labeling "love and connection" is, I believe, an instinct to protect and provide for a female. And I might label the thing you desire, "purpose" rather than love. I mean, we're talking about the same feeling, but I'm trying to get at the reason it exists, from the standpoint of evolutionary psychology

This is what an instinct is. It's a feeling that motivates you to take some action. The feeling of wanting to fuck (and therefore the instinct) is separate from the feeling of wanting to love. And what I'm speculating here is that the "action" which is the objective of the love instinct in men, is protection and provisioning.

...and this brings us to your question about synthetic approximations. Maybe what you should be looking for is something you can protect and provide for. Maybe a pet?
Yes, the protect, take care of and provide instinct! Good idea.
 
Yes, the protect, take care of and provide instinct! Good idea.
Also, you might check out some ASMR.

I think that between porn, escorts, pets, and ASMR an incel could have a very happy life. You could have a happier life than a normie who struggles to get sex, eventually gets it from old, ugly, fat women with abrasive dispositions, marries one of these women, and is now a true wage slave.
 
Also, you might check out some ASMR.

I think that between porn, escorts, pets, and ASMR an incel could have a very happy life. You could have a happier life than a normie who struggles to get sex, eventually gets it from old, ugly, fat women with abrasive dispositions, marries one of these women, and is now a true wage slave.
Nice! :)))
 
It seems like these apps bring out the worst of womens nature
 
Not worth it.


Don't be a simp. You know these foids don't genuinely love you and they just see you as a human ATM and an opportunity to use you. You'll end up emotionally hurt, it's better to have no hope than false hope.
Plus it doesn't even feel real
 
Don't be a simp. I have a better solution for you. It's a mod for a game called DDLC. It's called Monika After Story. Want a girl who will talk and play games with you? Look no further.
 
Lmfao at this thread filled with GrAYs:feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
@ThoughtfulCel @BlkPillPres @Diocel @gymletethnicel @Transcended Trucel
 
Lmfao at this thread filled with GrAYs:feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
@ThoughtfulCel @BlkPillPres @Diocel @gymletethnicel @Transcended Trucel
The name and join date are quite telling.

Either a banned users alt, or someone from IT trying to spread degeneracy
 
Stay away from online girls, they will just use you for money, believe me they are disgusted by their followers. Chadfishing is suifuel because you get the taste of how your life would be if you were born better looking. :fuk:
 
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The name and join date are quite telling.

Either a banned users alt, or someone from IT trying to spread degeneracy
yes. trolling here for laughs. thinks we are subhuman fools.
 
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Don't be a simp. You know these foids don't genuinely love you and they just see you as a human ATM and an opportunity to use you. You'll end up emotionally hurt, it's better to have no hope than false hope.
 
Lmfao at this thread filled with GrAYs:feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
@ThoughtfulCel @BlkPillPres @Diocel @gymletethnicel @Transcended Trucel
I'm just going to add @Sub8 and any guy encouraging or agreeing with him to my block list

I genuinely feel like guys like this need to be killed for the sake of all of us, "simps ruin the game" in everything

They ruin the dating game (give women unrealistic standards by going on multiple dates without having sex), the prostitution game (over-inflate women's value so they charge more), etc, they ruin every fucking thing

These emotional fucking pieces of shit need to be murdered
You're right, and here's some encouraging news: this means you're a conscious human with a soul.
:soy::soy::soy::soy::soy:

Instant block list addition
 
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I've been thinking, and I think what I want even more than the experience of sex is the experience of love and connection.

I may need to settle for a synthetic substitute of this given my current apparent limitations of my looks maxed potential. This lead me to a few ideas, but I don't want to become even more depressed, so I was wondering if any of you guys had, had any experience with these:

1) Cam Girls
2) Online Only relationship with a woman from a really poor country, where you make it seem like you will marry them and lift their family out of poverty
3) Chad Fishing with Voice Calls
4) Only fans with a girl who tries to do more of "the girl friend experience".
5) Female friends, if I can get them

Which is the best is any worth trying?
A fake gf would be pure suicidefuel as it would hammer home further how truly alone you are.
 

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