Don't project your mindset and emotional thinking onto me. You are desperate to have a "family" and people who "care for you" so you will rationalize crazy out of this world scenarios like your children supporting you fucking whores, you legit sound like a troll and to pretend otherwise just makes you look more like a troll (unless you are saying you're just that fucking stupid to believe this sounds reasonable, who the fuck would want to put their children in an awkward situation like that?).
I don't even care about making it to "old age", none of that shit matters to me. A lot of the things that guys like you care about don't matter to men like me.
Were not even on the same wavelength.
Your suggestions are you trying to merge your values onto mind and saying - "here, this is a good compromise". What you fail to understand is that we don't even remotely have the same values, there is no compromise to be had.
All you've admitted is that you are a piece of shit parent, you probably shouldn't have any children at all. I'd never let my children take care of me in old age, I'd tell them to leave me be and to go out and enjoy their youth and live life. You'd ironically make a worse parent than I would, you think of children as an investment plan to use.
Young people should be out living life, not caring for old people who realistically would already be dead without modern medicine.
This, he wants to have "normie things" so badly, and he projects that onto me in order to try and "merge" our world views, but they are diametrically opposed.