Serious One Of The Truest Quotes I've Ever Read (It's Why I Want A Reclusive Life & Why I Know I'm Not "Relationship Material" So "Ascension" Is Pointless)

[BlkPillPres]

Kids are a great investment because they have limitless potential.

Let's not exaggerate lol. Limitless potential if you have a child with genetics like Dolph Lundgren so that they can grow up to be a handsome 6'2" Giga Chad with a 160 IQ. But if you are just having a regular child, NO.

Just think if our parents were blackpilled, who knows what kind of measures could've been taking to prevent certain outcomes.

Are you even going to still be black pilled by the time you have a child?

Will your wife even allow it?

I don't think modern men today realize how little control they have over their households.

Unless you plan on moving to some traditional 3rd world country to get a wife and have children there, it's pretty much going to be "what your wife says goes". You'd have to teach your son the black pill in secret and let him know not to talk to his mom about it, and you better hope he's not a momma's boy because he'll end up telling her anyways, and then it's off to divorce land lol.

I mean how can I turn that down literally creating a human

Reason #2 I see most people saying they want to have children: EGO.

It's a chance to "be like a God" and "create life".

 

[nice_try]

I would tell people what field I'm possibly making money in, and where to start, but would I give them all of the specifics?

No.

Not unless I was well out of that field and making money elsewhere, and I trusted that person.

Advice on how to make money is very hard to give, maybe even impossible.

Different people become rich in different fields.
It always depends on the person, on your talents, on your network and very often there's a good amount of luck involved.
There isn't that one path to get rich everybody can follow and make millions. It doesn't exist.

I think the best advice to get rich or even just make a little bit extra would be:
a) Observe your surroundings. Where is money made and HOW?
b) Identify the areas where money is made in which you could get a foot in, maybe because you have fitting contacts, talents or a matching skillset.
c) Try different things. Nobody who got rich did it with his first business model. They all failed and tried something else until something worked.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Again, every relationship I’ve seen, none of them are as you described. My friend told me recently he literally just sits in his moms basement with his gf after work and goes on vacations every now and then. And no he doesn’t pay for everything, she has a job too.

Do you really think your normie friends are going to tell you about the inner workings of their relationships, all the negatives, etc.

People try to paint a picture, the put up smiling photos on instagram and other social media, it's all about appearances these days.

When (if) your friend breaks up with his GF he'll we singing a different tune. It's when people break up that all of a sudden they become this bad person, and that's because it's not "all of a sudden".

Some people just tolerate unfavorable circumstances because they "want to be in a relationship".

You see the relationship itself is the goal, not the "happiness" derived from it. Most people are pairing up because it's what's expected of them and they have a "reputation" to live up to. They don't want to be "seen as lonely".

You also said all this as if you know 100% without a doubt whether he's cheating or she is cheating. You don't know. You only know what he's told you.

 

[YBP Yxngcel]

I honestly think it's a "learning curve" thing, and because they don't have to "do without" they get to keep telling themselves they couldn't "live without".

But if they didn't have a choice, they'd probably get over it in a year or so and adapt to that life, especially if all their basic needs were being met.

Yes. I think it's more of a "You'll never get it, so change your standards and adapt" so basically kill your dreams of having meaningful connections with other people or whatever you want to pursue because you will never get it and learn to adapt to that reality. So form such a mindset. I believe thats the 'learning curve'. Don't you agree? Oh you're never gonna get a submissive traditional wife? Oh your never gonna find actually good friends? Get over it and adapt and form a mindset that helps you since you don't even have the choice anymore.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Don't you agree?

Yeah. But what I meant was more like the thought of an extreme hypothetical. Like they were kidnapped and locked into a building where they got all the food they wanted of any kind of food, all the drinks they wanted, all the entertainment they wanted, all the porn they wanted, etc. But they just couldn't escape that room and nobody was ever around to talk to.

Have you ever heard of the game danganronpa? (google it).

It's similar to that. Imagine a situation like that except it's just you in the building and nobody else.

I believe that most people who say they can't live without "human connection" would adapt to that place within a year or so and they wouldn't care anymore. Once the panic went away and they accepted that they would never get out, they'd just accept it and start enjoying what they have.

Because out of everything that you could be denied in life, "human companionship" is actually pretty low on the list in comparison to food, water, shelter, etc.

 

[SocialzERo]

Can relate, I sometimes strongly desire companionship but when I finally have someone that I can talk to I get bored. I love loneliness - I enjoy it cause I actually enjoy talking to myself.

 

[I want to believe]

Hypothetically, she could be like me. I want to have a gf who's very similar to me in terms of personality, interests and outlook on life. And yes, I realize it's impossible. They're all social whores one way or another, for example.

 

[Made in Heaven]

yup this is very relatable. the older u get as a single man the less mentally and emotionally prepared u will be to cohabitate with another person long-term. even if i were to ascend the stress of having to LARP as a socially competent partner capable of caring for the hypothetical girl's needs would be maddening.

fuck i know what you mean. I love my mom to death, she's my #1 favorite person in the world, but I hate showing my emotions and she always has to beg me to spend time with my family. I'm certain if I had a wife or kids, it would be the same, if not worse. At least with my bros, I can play vidya with them or talk politics, wtf am I gonna do with a wife besides fuck her?

 

[Mulattocel]

I’ve started to take great comfort not socializing with others. A small example, I love amusement parks I’m an adrenaline junkie and love the feeling of intense roller coasters. Every time I wanted to go I’d have to wait around for someone else to find time to go with me and when we did go I was greatly annoyed at the slower pace I had to go at and ride the rides that they wanted to that I had no interest in. So i finally said fuck it I’ll go by myself and had a better time than any time I went with anyone else.

It was kind of a eureka moment where I realized I like doing things alone more and the only reason I attempted to socialize was to try and be normal but now I don’t give a fuck about appearing normal and do all the things I enjoy alone and I’ve never been happier tbh

 

[YBP Yxngcel]

Yeah. But what I meant was more like the thought of an extreme hypothetical. Like they were kidnapped and locked into a building where they got all the food they wanted of any kind of food, all the drinks they wanted, all the entertainment they wanted, all the porn they wanted, etc. But they just couldn't escape that room and nobody was ever around to talk to.

Have you ever heard of the game danganronpa? (google it).

It's similar to that. Imagine a situation like that except it's just you in the building and nobody else.

I believe that most people who say they can't live without "human connection" would adapt to that place within a year or so and they wouldn't care anymore. Once the panic went away and they accepted that they would never get out, they'd just accept it and start enjoying what they have.

Because out of everything that you could be denied in life, "human companionship" is actually pretty low on the list in comparison to food, water, shelter, etc.

Fair enough. Very nihilistic atheist-like type of thinking. Only living for the body. Like you've given up on everything else. All that matters is food, sexual satisfaction and entertainment. Very cold way of thinking.
When you've given up on everything including your ego. All you could care for is stimulating yourself and living in peace. Lol, (make sure you stay healthy. It's really hard to not be lazy with such a lifestyle. Seen many celebrities become fatties)

But it's understandable. I personally am agnostic but I want to find if they is a deeper metaphysical purpose to existing than just the material. It's like a gut feeling inside of me. Also I want to create things. Expressing yourself through art, making video games etc Your right, the simple things like food, shelter and what not are important.
But Iife just seems really mundane with stuff like that only. Look at the Abraham Maslow hierarchy of needs, imagine you only got to experience the first row.

Hope you don't mind me asking but, did you ever have any ambitions as a teenager. For any sort of careers?

 

[oldcel75]

Good post. I'm doing your dream now, visiting a different city per week (except I'm working remote), tasting local vip escorts and it's good, really good. I wish I had the money in my twenties.

 

[mgtow]

A good thread. First post as well as the follow ups.

Thank you.

 

[BlkPillPres]

But it's understandable. I personally am agnostic but I want to find if they is a deeper metaphysical purpose to existing than just the material.

To me, even if there is "more" to the world, like something mystical. If I can't use it to improve my physical existence, I wouldn't really give a fuck about it lol.

If magic is real and I find a way to do it, the first thing I'm going to do is find some way to use it to make a lot of money really fast.

When I can have all of my needs met, and I have a lot of free time, THEN I'll focus on whatever other "deeper" shit there is.

Hope you don't mind me asking but, did you ever have any ambitions as a teenager. For any sort of careers?

Nope, all I wanted was to make a lot of money lol. I didn't care what I do, and to be honest, I'd prefer if I didn't have to do anything.

My running joke response to "what do you want to be when you grow up" was "Land Lord".

Why wouldn't anyone want to do literally nothing but "own" something and make money off of it.

 

[HedonisticRecluse]

A good thread. First post as well as the follow ups.

Thank you.

 

[Ghost]

"Being alone for a while is dangerous. It’s addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore.”

I've spent too many years of my life:
Having fun by myself
Consuming entertainment by myself
Eating by myself
Sleeping by myself
Relaxing by myself
Being motivated by my own personal interests and goals
Etc, etc, etc

What I find kinda funny are all the incels who seem to think that at the drop of a pin, when (IF) they finally get a girlfriend, they are all of a sudden going to be great at reading her cues, keeping her satisfied emotionally, keeping the "emotional roller coaster" game going so that she doesn't get "bored" with the relationship, doing everything that you were once doing alone as a group, etc.

It's not going to work like that. You've spent years becoming accustomed to doing everything by yourself, you can't just flip a switch and now be "good at relationships".

It's going to be an uphill battle for you, and she will be able to tell.

This is very much related to a thread I made before:

What "Its Over" & "It Never Began" Means To Me (Why "Ascension" Is Impossible For Black Pillers)

I've often considered converting to Islam, but if I'm being honest, I'd only convert for the perks of living in a society where women can't just go about whoring around, but my experiences and those that I have seen and read about online have left a bitter taste in my mouth that cannot be...

incels.is

Even as a child I kept to myself because everything was so simple, straightforward and peaceful (conflict free), when you keep to yourself. The moment something involves other people in a social setting it becomes some kind of competition, it's no longer just about enjoying the thing that you're doing. Add women to the equation and that just amplifies it even more for men.

I have gotten too comfortable with the quietness and peace of being a recluse, to the point that I know that I would have to force myself to be in a relationship. I don't want to have to think about compliments, or what gift to buy my GF, or how to make her "feel special", or worry about what to wear that "looks good", or anything like that.

It feels so good to just throw something on and go out and just eat something. Add other people to the equation and now you can't just wear something you like that you don't really pay attention too anyways. Now it's a competition. Now each guy is comparing outfits, whose wearing brand name, whose matching, who doesn't have "swag", etc, and once again add women to the equation and that amplifies everything.


I've learned how to socialize for the sake of my financial pursuits. I've gotten myself promotions, I've negotiated raises, etc. I know how to work my way up the corporate ladder and "fit in". But I really don't want to, it's all so "forced", it's all so annoying.

View: https://youtu.be/ZOfql4OWTng?t=1


Being alone is just so convenient, it's just so peaceful, I don't think I can really paint the picture to people who aren't true introverts.

The truth is, the term "introvert" has been co-opted by normies who want to be "quirky" and they aren't really introverted at all. But that's a topic for another day.

This pursuit of a peaceful reclusive life is the core reason I wealthmaxx, because in order for me to create that reality for myself and make it something that I can do indefinitely, I need to be rich.


My perfect day would be me waking up early in the morning (preferably while living in a SEA country) and going for a quick jog (or maybe I have a treadmill in my house, that would be great). I eat a nice simple breakfast, some pancakes (syrup of course) and eggs (don't really need the bacon). I watch a movie or a show (a few episodes). I do some work on whatever passive income streams are paying the bills.

Around afternoon time I go out for a walk on the nearby beach drinking something I like (probably orange juice), or maybe it's a jog or a bike ride, just taking in the sights, not a care in the world.

Then later around the evening time I visit the local brothel or call up a regular escort to a hotel room (we'll never meet at my place) and enjoy myself thoroughly. Then I head back home to shower, after drying and changing I check to see if there's some extra work to be done and when I done with that I finish the evening off with some entertainment and a nice meal (probably something local, maybe I'll order).

Maybe on some days I'll stay up late and game, IDK, haven't played any video games in years, stopped enjoying it. Maybe if my life became that dream I'd start enjoying them again.


I really can't relate to the average incel who seems obsessed with relationships, companionship, "life goal chasing", "female validation", etc. All I want is peaceful quiet effortless life where I can do the things I enjoy, without interruption, without conflict, without having to deal with the annoyances that most people bring to your life.

From my perspective it just seems like you guys are chasing after problems, chasing after conflict, chasing after stress, and worry, and endless competition, etc. It just doesn't end.

If you think when you get a GF or a Wife that you've "finished the game", you are a naive fool. Now you have to spend the rest of your life competing for her affections and trying to keep the endless list of male suitors that she has at work, on social media, etc, from convincing her to cheat on you and/or leave you.

The thing about these "social games" is that they never end, they only stop when it's you alone in a room by yourself.


I think too many of you are obsessed with "living up to a standard" rather than simply living and enjoying your life. So you remain mentally stuck in a box, where life is literally just about reaching "milestones" and how you are perceived by other people.

Life is just so peaceful in those quiet moments alone, I want to stretch that quiet moment out into the length of my entire life.

Incel goes mgtow lifestyle lol

 

[Deleted member 42691]

It's not going to work like that. You've spent years becoming accustomed to doing everything by yourself, you can't just flip a switch and now be "good at relationships".

I knew about that instinctively, I don’t know if I have some form autism.

But being alone for decades , definitely made me develop some autistic trait.

The truth is, the term "introvert" has been co-opted by normies who want to be "quirky" and they aren't really introverted at all. But that's a topic for another day.

It make me laugh , when I see normie talking about introvert

Like I ‘am the silent one in my group of friend or some bullshit

You know how you can recognize a true introvert, : he can stay one month(or even more ) in a room , his mental state his fine.

During the lockdown, I realized I’am truly different from normies , I was amazed that 2 small month inside was enough to torture them , some literally became crazy and got their social life destroyed, I was like wtf it’s just 2 month?

 

[Deleted member 42691]

Add other people to the equation and now you can't just wear something you like that you don't really pay attention too anyways. Now it's a competition. Now each guy is comparing outfits, whose wearing brand name, whose matching, who doesn't have "swag", etc, and once again add women to the equation and that amplifies everything

It’s crazy when you think about it.

When I’am socializing, (for work) it literally feel like I’am getting a work out.

Like if you could represent a mana bar over my head , every time I socialize you could see the mana drop down fast

 

[Deleted member 42691]

(except I'm working remote)

That right here is not our dream , except if it is your own business .
Remote work is the best ( I’am doing it) but you still working for someone and have responsibilities to give deliverables

Passive money is the dream

 

[BlkPillPres]

Good post. I'm doing your dream now, visiting a different city per week (except I'm working remote), tasting local vip escorts and it's good, really good. I wish I had the money in my twenties.

I'd say it's close to the dream but it isn't in it's final stage. You should try to take some free time to create some passive income streams for yourself.

To me the most valuable resource of having money isn't the money itself, it's actually the free time that the money affords you.

You can't really "make your own hours" if you work for someone else. I wanna be able to just randomly take a break from work for an entire week because "I feel like it".

I think I might be close to creating such an online business, but I'm still fleshing things out, and building the skillset I'd need to even start. a lot of this is going to be months of planning and work, maybe even a year +. But once the money starts coming in I'm set.

 

[BlkPillPres]

It’s crazy when you think about it.

When I’am socializing, (for work) it literally feel like I’am getting a work out.

Like if you could represent a mana bar over my head , every time I socialize you could see the mana drop down fast

It is really mentally draining. The funniest part is when you just have to force a smile and go along with it. It's weird how good you get at giving a convincing smile when you have to fake it for so many years lol.

I knew about that instinctively, I don’t know if I have some form autism.

But being alone for decades , definitely made me develop some autistic trait.

It make me laugh , when I see normie talking about introvert

Like I ‘am the silent one in my group of friend or some bullshit

You know how you can recognize a true introvert, : he can stay one month(or even more ) in a room , his mental state his fine.

During the lockdown, I realized I’am truly different from normies , I was amazed that 2 small month inside was enough to torture them , some literally became crazy and got their social life destroyed, I was like wtf it’s just 2 month?

A lot of these people ironically think they are "strong people" or in dire situations they would "survive", but they are all the cliche background characters that die off during a zombie apocalypse in any movie or tv show.

 

[ChrolloLucilfer04]

Incels should be allowed to complain about losing the genetic lottery. It all ultimately boils down to genetics. It doesn't matter what you think of women. You (Incels in general) would probably love women had you been born a Chad.
Obviously wealthmaxxing is the only legitimate way an incel can get a good life, but even for that, the environment that you were raised in plays a colossal role.

That’s why it’s hard for millennialcels and youngcels even worse

Social circle dating meant even incels got gf eventually

Not anymore

 

[LesscoBlob]

That’s why it’s hard for millennialcels and youngcels even worse

Social circle dating meant even incels got gf eventually

Not anymore

Online Dating sealed the deal in my opinion. It basically created sex tourism inside one's own country.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Online Dating sealed the deal in my opinion. It basically created sex tourism inside one's own country.

That's a great way to put it.

 

[oldcel75]

I'd say it's close to the dream but it isn't in it's final stage. You should try to take some free time to create some passive income streams for yourself.

To me the most valuable resource of having money isn't the money itself, it's actually the free time that the money affords you.

You can't really "make your own hours" if you work for someone else. I wanna be able to just randomly take a break from work for an entire week because "I feel like it".

I think I might be close to creating such an online business, but I'm still fleshing things out, and building the skillset I'd need to even start. a lot of this is going to be months of planning and work, maybe even a year +. But once the money starts coming in I'm set.

I agree. But the income and the power over people is nice. Not sure if I can get same passive income as my salary.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Not sure if I can get same passive income as my salary.

Passive income always has a greater potential than your salary, especially over time.

Take real estate for example. You might start off with one property that makes you like $2000 a month, but over time you'll buy more properties, and then the value on those properties will go up, and then you can charge more for rent, etc, etc. After a decade you'll probably be making next to what you are making now if not more.

Only around 15% of the ENTIRE US population makes around 100K per year (around 8300 per month). I'm assuming you make around that. You can do that with 5 to 6 properties easy. That's just real estate, if you have an online business you'll be making way more.

 

[oldcel75]

Passive income always has a greater potential than your salary, especially over time.

Take real estate for example. You might start off with one property that makes you like $2000 a month, but over time you'll buy more properties, and then the value on those properties will go up, and then you can charge more for rent, etc, etc. After a decade you'll probably be making next to what you are making now if not more.

Only around 15% of the ENTIRE US population makes around 100K per year (around 8300 per month). I'm assuming you make around that. You can do that with 5 to 6 properties easy. That's just real estate, if you have an online business you'll be making way more.

Everything has its own risks. A friend had rentals and the eviction ban in the US just killed him. People stopped paying rent just because they can.
What I have in mind is buying something nice in SEA or SEE for about 100k, and living a simple life for 2000 a month that will come from rentals and maybe the stock exchange. Will see. Currently my work is not too much hard, and I can work remote.

 

[BlkPillPres]

What I have in mind is buying something nice in SEA or SEE for about 100k, and living a simple life for 2000 a month that will come from rentals and maybe the stock exchange. Will see. Currently my work is not too much hard, and I can work remote.

TBH that's kinda what I want too, but I want an online business. Our plans are really similar.

But I don't want to reach the age of 40 and I still have to "work", at that point in my life I want to make money just for breathing oxygen lol. I want to start making "semi-passive" income through an online business I have to manage, then I want to get to a point in which I'm just making money doing nothing lol. I just have to check my assets every now and then, talk to my accountant, manage properties, etc. But no actually "workload".

I'm already tired of "deadlines" and I'm still in my 20's lol.

I know SEA is South Easy Asia, but what is SEE?

 

[HateCurry]

I do feel the same way. Contrasting view not necessarily a contrasting view. I've always been with my brother all the time and want privacy like a madman, I do blame myself at times for lack of social skills, being "stuck up" is real and more so when people force you to be that way. My teachers hate me for wanting to be alone, they look at me as if something's wrong with me for wanting to be alone, he's dominant and evasive anyway, turned on me few days ago... I'm jealous of you man, so jealous.

 

[ChrolloLucilfer04]

Online Dating sealed the deal in my opinion. It basically created sex tourism inside one's own country.

if you think about it, it really is prostitution
difference being the whores pick the clients

 

[LesscoBlob]

if you think about it, it really is prostitution
difference being the whores pick the clients

This. And there's not a money exchange (unless we're taling about normies)

 

[ChrolloLucilfer04]

This. And there's not a money exchange (unless we're taling about normies)

chadpreet lite friend of mine says he just gets them coffee after he's done jfl

 

[LesscoBlob]

chadpreet lite friend of mine says he just gets them coffee after he's done jfl

 

[failedbbcnormie]

I know SEA is South Easy Asia, but what is SEE?

Southeast Europe I'm guessing. I feel you on being tired of deadlines, honestly I'm more tired of micromanaging of any form. I'm trying to reach the age of 30 and not have to work hard. I'll still find things on the side, but screw 40 hour wageslaving.

 

[oldcel75]

TBH that's kinda what I want too, but I want an online business. Our plans are really similar.

But I don't want to reach the age of 40 and I still have to "work", at that point in my life I want to make money just for breathing oxygen lol. I want to start making "semi-passive" income through an online business I have to manage, then I want to get to a point in which I'm just making money doing nothing lol. I just have to check my assets every now and then, talk to my accountant, manage properties, etc. But no actually "workload".

I'm already tired of "deadlines" and I'm still in my 20's lol.

I know SEA is South Easy Asia, but what is SEE?

South Ease Europe. Try Bulgaria and Romania. Cheap RE, low COL, a lot of stacies to buy. Nice sea. If you have European citizenship, you are set for immigration paperwork. For me the culture of this place is closer than SEA. Also, I like classical music and they have tons of it in Europe.

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

I didn't read, but All we want deep down is a servant and and sex slave foid. Every man wants that and vice versa.

 

[Pikacel]

Isn’t it good to be half absent in a relationship though? I’ve heard of many stories where dudes put in too much effort to please their woman and get divorced because of it

 

[Pikacel]

I didn't read, but All we want deep down is a servant and and sex slave foid. Every man wants that and vice versa.

 

[Izayacel]

Thought og hawing a wife and bunch of obligations, family whos survival depends on you, freaks me out honestly. Not to mention having to deal with normies more than you should. One slip and shes gone.

My perfect life would be living in some cold and isolated place, hooked up to bunch of solar panels, with enough canned food for 50 years. I would go to town few times a year to buy some fresh groceries and tech.

Having enough supply to Not Need to interact withe the Outside world " and living in complete hedonism and Peace would Be fun.

 

[Mecoja]

Having enough supply to Not Need to interact withe the Outside world " and living in complete hedonism and Peace would Be fun.

If you turn off TV and internet you wouldn't even know that people exist. Its would be nice to take few years off.

 

[Izayacel]

If you turn off TV and internet you wouldn't even know that people exist. Its would be nice to take few years off.

Yea , there are rich people that have living Containers " quasi a moveable Home . Fucking Clown world, where the Elite enjoys everything and the Rest has average Garbage "

 

[basementLDARcel]

In a way it's both a blessing and a curse, we have learned to be alone by ourselves and enjoy it, yet we can't deal with other people for too long.

 

[Fat Link]

Incels should be allowed to complain about losing the genetic lottery. It all ultimately boils down to genetics. It doesn't matter what you think of women. You (Incels in general) would probably love women had you been born a Chad.
Obviously wealthmaxxing is the only legitimate way an incel can get a good life, but even for that, the environment that you were raised in plays a colossal role.

Doubt it.

As it pertains to being Chad and “loving” women I mean.

I mean think about it.

Are Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt and Henry Cavill ie the top tier giga Chads of our society just “loving” women today?

And homosexuality rumours aside how about ol Tom Cruise?

As despite being the top of the pile where Chads are concerned we all know about the nightmare Johnny’s been through and despite Brad Pitt’s legendary good looks he hasn’t been able to hold even a single relationship of his together for very long before it ultimately crashes and burns and I think I heard something about evil femcunts trying to cancel Henry over something petty and stupid ie the typical SJW business as usual basically where they artificially elevate a non issue into a major world ending type of event…

So yeah I think I either heard something like that or a girlfriend of his cucking him recently or both but I could be wrong and as for Tom Cruise?

See what I said about Brad Pitt.

The bottom line is Clown World women are not deserving of one’s love and or trust.

Now if on the other hand you meant “loving” them as a mere fuck toy you the Chad in question would do your level best to keep at arm’s length before quickly moving onto the next one for a few more minutes of pump n’ dump skeet skeet action then sure I guess.

Though other than “loving” that it comes to you for free instead of via the all too often outrageous prostitution prices well then I’d say that’s about all there is to love other than the ever continuing fleeting ego boost as you get used to your new life and the magic and the sparkle of it all eventually fades away into every other mundane activity humans perform to try and get through the day.

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

Relatable.

Dangerously close to volcel, but relatable.

I've always imagined that if you met "the right person" then just being yourself around them would be straightforward, and it would be *enough*. Dreams are free I guess?

 

[AsiaCel]

I have the same mindset. Live and let live

 

[Freder]

Being alone is just so convenient, it's just so peaceful, I don't think I can really paint the picture to people who aren't true introverts.

Life is just so peaceful in those quiet moments alone, I want to stretch that quiet moment out into the length of my entire life.

Like 2 months ago I stopped meeting with my only friend.
I feel like burden was taken from my shoulders.
I don't need to interrupt what I'm doing because he want to meet, I don't need wake up day after with remorse that I could read or learn something instead drinking beer.
When there's nice movie in TV I can watch it and then do what I planned because noone will steal my late evening with nonsense.
Feels quiet and calm.

 

[Kafka2020]

I agree, I much rather be alone and dealing with other people drains me like a battery after a certain amount of time.

I have reached that point where my income is purely now dependant on time, where I can't advance because the only barrier left is "experience", obviously I still study on weekly basis on many areas that I have interest in but there is a diminishing return when being a polymath doesn't mean fuck all to HR McFaggot.

I don't think it makes much sense to base your life on external factors, do what you want how you want and just live with the benefits and consequences of your actions, you can't really do anything else.

I think even in the scenario if I was in relationship, dealing with a retarded foid who has all these opinions on things they don't understand would just be a massive waste of time. We all know love is imaginary and so in the end, your just a utility to be used and disposed of.

No bitch has any right to do that to me, I don't what is between her legs.

I'm good being alone, even better being the heel, makes my life simple.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Dangerously close to volcel, but relatable.

No, I've already "done my time".

I've did my years of approaching, my years of self improvement, I became a completely different person than I was before that point and I still got rejected every time.

I've already paid my dues.

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results.

At some point each incel has to know what their lane is in life and adapt to suit. I don't think being a "legit incel" means approaching till you are 95 years old and trying to get the nurse at your death bed to give you a pity hand job.

A lot of guys on this forum are pretty childish (stupid too), and plan on keeping themselves virgins till the day they die, because they refuse to pay for sex. I on the other hand set a specific age in my mind in which I would lose my virginity if I couldn't get laid through dating (that age has already passed).

I don't waste time chasing dreams, I'm pragmatic.


If we were talking about some 15 year old retard who honestly shouldn't even be on this forum yet I'd agree that it's volcel (most of these guys have never approached). But for those of us who have really been putting yourselves out there and changing our personalities to increase our chances, at some point we get to opt out of the game and leave it all behind.

Do I regret the time spent making those improvements. No, because they were useful to me period, especially when it came to employment. But I'm not going to waste anymore time chasing after something that I clearly can't get without some extreme luck or niche scenario.

 

[InMemoriam]

I've started to believe that you have a schizoid personality disorder just like me and @Schizoidcel all the symptoms checks out in this thread!

 

[BlkPillPres]

I've started to believe that you have a schizoid personality disorder just like me and @Schizoidcel all the symptoms checks out in this thread!

Read up on it, a lot of this psychology stuff I think is garbage. Humans just don't like people that think outside of the boxed as the unknown always invokes fear in people, so they come up with all of these rationalizations as to what's wrong with X persons brain because of the way they think.

 

[CleverJester]

What's the value of kids and how would it benefit me?

Overall your kids will take care of you when you are old. For example if you have Alzheimer your trustworthy children will make sure that you fuck your weekly whore which allows you to live the quiet life you desire so much for an extra decade.

In many countries you get neetbux simply for raising kids and your children provide you emotional support which lessen your anxiety, that's healthy. The key is not to stress about your wife, find a way.
Finally you will regret not having kids sooner if you change your mind later (most likely because of me and what I'm about to say). Men's sperm does age and it's called DNA fragmentation. It Increases by two-folds every 15 years. Freeze your sperm, find a way.

The mistake most people like you commit regarding the topic "to raise a family" is that they believe it's a task that is meant to be done far after your prime, it's just a chore so that you may not die alone (eg: 30yo eggless single mothers) but I believe that when done properly it is a solid investment and an achievement because.. reasons.