Serious One Of The Truest Quotes I've Ever Read (It's Why I Want A Reclusive Life & Why I Know I'm Not "Relationship Material" So "Ascension" Is Pointless)

[BlkPillPres]

"Being alone for a while is dangerous. It’s addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore.”

I've spent too many years of my life:
Having fun by myself
Consuming entertainment by myself
Eating by myself
Sleeping by myself
Relaxing by myself
Being motivated by my own personal interests and goals
Etc, etc, etc

What I find kinda funny are all the incels who seem to think that at the drop of a pin, when (IF) they finally get a girlfriend, they are all of a sudden going to be great at reading her cues, keeping her satisfied emotionally, keeping the "emotional roller coaster" game going so that she doesn't get "bored" with the relationship, doing everything that you were once doing alone as a group, etc.

It's not going to work like that. You've spent years becoming accustomed to doing everything by yourself, you can't just flip a switch and now be "good at relationships".

It's going to be an uphill battle for you, and she will be able to tell.

This is very much related to a thread I made before:

What "Its Over" & "It Never Began" Means To Me (Why "Ascension" Is Impossible For Black Pillers)

I've often considered converting to Islam, but if I'm being honest, I'd only convert for the perks of living in a society where women can't just go about whoring around, but my experiences and those that I have seen and read about online have left a bitter taste in my mouth that cannot be...

incels.is

Even as a child I kept to myself because everything was so simple, straightforward and peaceful (conflict free), when you keep to yourself. The moment something involves other people in a social setting it becomes some kind of competition, it's no longer just about enjoying the thing that you're doing. Add women to the equation and that just amplifies it even more for men.

I have gotten too comfortable with the quietness and peace of being a recluse, to the point that I know that I would have to force myself to be in a relationship. I don't want to have to think about compliments, or what gift to buy my GF, or how to make her "feel special", or worry about what to wear that "looks good", or anything like that.

It feels so good to just throw something on and go out and just eat something. Add other people to the equation and now you can't just wear something you like that you don't really pay attention too anyways. Now it's a competition. Now each guy is comparing outfits, whose wearing brand name, whose matching, who doesn't have "swag", etc, and once again add women to the equation and that amplifies everything.


I've learned how to socialize for the sake of my financial pursuits. I've gotten myself promotions, I've negotiated raises, etc. I know how to work my way up the corporate ladder and "fit in". But I really don't want to, it's all so "forced", it's all so annoying.

View: https://youtu.be/ZOfql4OWTng?t=1


Being alone is just so convenient, it's just so peaceful, I don't think I can really paint the picture to people who aren't true introverts.

The truth is, the term "introvert" has been co-opted by normies who want to be "quirky" and they aren't really introverted at all. But that's a topic for another day.

This pursuit of a peaceful reclusive life is the core reason I wealthmaxx, because in order for me to create that reality for myself and make it something that I can do indefinitely, I need to be rich.


My perfect day would be me waking up early in the morning (preferably while living in a SEA country) and going for a quick jog (or maybe I have a treadmill in my house, that would be great). I eat a nice simple breakfast, some pancakes (syrup of course) and eggs (don't really need the bacon). I watch a movie or a show (a few episodes). I do some work on whatever passive income streams are paying the bills.

Around afternoon time I go out for a walk on the nearby beach drinking something I like (probably orange juice), or maybe it's a jog or a bike ride, just taking in the sights, not a care in the world.

Then later around the evening time I visit the local brothel or call up a regular escort to a hotel room (we'll never meet at my place) and enjoy myself thoroughly. Then I head back home to shower, after drying and changing I check to see if there's some extra work to be done and when I done with that I finish the evening off with some entertainment and a nice meal (probably something local, maybe I'll order).

Maybe on some days I'll stay up late and game, IDK, haven't played any video games in years, stopped enjoying it. Maybe if my life became that dream I'd start enjoying them again.


I really can't relate to the average incel who seems obsessed with relationships, companionship, "life goal chasing", "female validation", etc. All I want is peaceful quiet effortless life where I can do the things I enjoy, without interruption, without conflict, without having to deal with the annoyances that most people bring to your life.

From my perspective it just seems like you guys are chasing after problems, chasing after conflict, chasing after stress, and worry, and endless competition, etc. It just doesn't end.

If you think when you get a GF or a Wife that you've "finished the game", you are a naive fool. Now you have to spend the rest of your life competing for her affections and trying to keep the endless list of male suitors that she has at work, on social media, etc, from convincing her to cheat on you and/or leave you.

The thing about these "social games" is that they never end, they only stop when it's you alone in a room by yourself.


I think too many of you are obsessed with "living up to a standard" rather than simply living and enjoying your life. So you remain mentally stuck in a box, where life is literally just about reaching "milestones" and how you are perceived by other people.

Life is just so peaceful in those quiet moments alone, I want to stretch that quiet moment out into the length of my entire life.

 

[LesscoBlob]

Incels should be allowed to complain about losing the genetic lottery. It all ultimately boils down to genetics. It doesn't matter what you think of women. You (Incels in general) would probably love women had you been born a Chad.
Obviously wealthmaxxing is the only legitimate way an incel can get a good life, but even for that, the environment that you were raised in plays a colossal role.

 

[ResidentHell]

No shit.

It really depends on how you emotionally respond to social isolation. I think there are some people who just have to be social to remain emotionally stable; their lifeline is literally having a social life. During the 2020 - 2021 lockdown period, there were multiple news reports about young people who committed suicide because they were unable to tolerate social isolation, which they were forced into due to lockdown restrictions.

Some people just aren't cut out to survive outside of a social circle. Without a social life, they would fall to profound misery and attempt suicide. Last time I had a social life was around 4 or 5 years ago. But as I compare the experience I had from socializing with people and my experience in social isolation, I would say that my mind was more at peace when I was alone than when I had company of other people. Basically I enjoyed loneliness more than I enjoyed socializing and having company of people

 

[WysteriaMurderer]

Basically I enjoyed loneliness more than I enjoyed socializing and having company of people

I fucking hate talking to people and "socializing" in a company of bluepilled retards. If I had unlimited money I would've never talk to people and just rot in my room surfing web

 

[BlkPillPres]

I fucking hate talking to people and "socializing" in a company of bluepilled retards. If I had unlimited money I would've never talk to people and just rot in my room surfing web

What a waste of money lol.

 

[WysteriaMurderer]

What a waste of money lol.

Depends on person

 

[_Lonely_]

I read your previous post that you linked and it's a brutal Blackpill.

I used to look at Foids and think they're so cute wow! And I'd get excited in a childlike way.

Now whenever I see a foid I just think "oh she has big boobs which are evolutionary attractive"

Nothing excited me anymore

Brutal

 

[WysteriaMurderer]

travelling and enjoying different kinds of foods sounds like more fun to me.

Im non NT and conservative. I hate everything that normiefags like(traveling, tasting new food, new things)

 

[WysteriaMurderer]

browsing the internet gets boring tho. what the hell do u on the web that keeps u occupied and not bored

Never gets boring to me. Sometimes I'm just really tired from sitting on a chair all day and I go to sleep

 

[Mecoja]

Thought og hawing a wife and bunch of obligations, family whos survival depends on you, freaks me out honestly. Not to mention having to deal with normies more than you should. One slip and shes gone.

My perfect life would be living in some cold and isolated place, hooked up to bunch of solar panels, with enough canned food for 50 years. I would go to town few times a year to buy some fresh groceries and tech.

 

[ezio6]

Tldr; ascension is the giga copest of them all because your whole life,especially in your biggest teen brain development age, you incells have integrated the negative-ugly-thorn effect-incel-bullied feedback loop.

 

[Deadgeneration]

yup this is very relatable. the older u get as a single man the less mentally and emotionally prepared u will be to cohabitate with another person long-term. even if i were to ascend the stress of having to LARP as a socially competent partner capable of caring for the hypothetical girl's needs would be maddening.

Same, so tiring to larp when socialmaxxing

 

[BlkPillPres]

Depends on person

No it's literally a waste, you aren't doing anything with the money. If someone willingly chose to walk into a prison and asked the guards to lock them in, that wouldn't make it any less a waste of time just because they chose to throw years of their life away for some crazy random reason.

If you are legitimately a millionaire and all you do is spend all of your life in a room. You are literally wasting time and money. You have a set amount of decades of life and then one day you will die.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Never gets boring to me. Sometimes I'm just really tired from sitting on a chair all day and I go to sleep

Are you fucking 50 years old or something?

You have to have some kind of condition or something, this doesn't sound normal, it sounds like you're dying of some kind of terminal illness.

Vitamin D deficieny ironically causes a lot of tiredness, maybe you should go outside a bit on a sunny day.

 

[BlkPillPres]

My perfect life would be living in some cold and isolated place, hooked up to bunch of solar panels, with enough canned food for 50 years. I would go to town few times a year to buy some fresh groceries and tech.

I don't know why so many of you guys are so masochistic . It's like you guys want to be in the brokest conditions possible as if to "punish yourself".

@WysteriaMurderer wants to:

rot in my room

And you want to be in the cold eating canned food .

There's no way you convince me that this isn't some kind of psychological thing, and you guys aren't trying to "punish yourself".

It's like you're trying to deprive yourself of enjoyment .

 

[Mecoja]

I don't know why so many of you guys are so masochistic . It's like you guys want to be in the brokest conditions possible as if to "punish yourself".

@WysteriaMurderer wants to:


And you want to be in the cold eating canned food .

There's no way you convince me that this isn't some kind of psychological thing, and you guys aren't trying to "punish yourself".

It's like you're trying to deprive yourself of enjoyment .

Its not, i enjoy cold climate and wast horizont of nothingness, and knowing there are no humans near puts my mind at ease.

Fresh meat can stay in the freezer for a year and taste stays the same. Technically can stay upto 10 years but in my experience best not to. Pasta, canned tomato, snacks, peanuts, etc have a shelf life well over a year. I really like canned meals, beans taste much better than a fresh one.

I would still live very nice and comfy.

 

[WysteriaMurderer]

No it's literally a waste, you aren't doing anything with the money. If someone willingly chose to walk into a prison and asked the guards to lock them in, that wouldn't make it any less a waste of time just because they chose to throw years of their life away for some crazy random reason.

If you are legitimately a millionaire and all you do is spend all of your life in a room. You are literally wasting time and money. You have a set amount of decades of life and then one day you will die.

No, the fact is everything is waste of time. It's up to the person what he finds "valuable" or what way he decides to waste it.

Are you fucking 50 years old or something?

You have to have some kind of condition or something, this doesn't sound normal, it sounds like you're dying of some kind of terminal illness.

Vitamin D deficieny ironically causes a lot of tiredness, maybe you should go outside a bit on a sunny day.

No, I don't have any condition. I just fucking despise outer world and people in it. Legit if it wasn't for computers I would've roped in minecraft.

It's like you're trying to deprive yourself of enjoyment .

I enjoy surfing web, playing video games and coding. What I'm trying to deprive myself from?

 

[BlkPillPres]

I would still live very nice and comfy.

There are some prisons in the world with better living conditions than you described

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

you should make a thread on how to wealthmaxx

 

[BlkPillPres]

No, the fact is everything is waste of time. It's up to the person what he finds "valuable" or what way he decides to waste it.

No, that's not how it works.

By your logic:
"Nothing is cucked, it's up to the person"
"Nothing is blue pilled, it's up to the person"
"Nothing is stupid, it's up to the person"

It doesn't work like that, something can objectively be a waste of time.

What's the point of holding yourself to a standard on anything then, if something as fundamental to existence as time and how we use it, is now "completely subjective" and everyone gets to decide what is valuable regardless of whether or not it benefits them objectively in any way?

If a guy wants to spend all day randomly making 1000 paper origamis and then burning all of them.............. that's a great usage of time by your logic because "he decided" it was .

What does "blue pill" even mean to you at that point, because why not argue that nothing is blue pilled and everyone can decided for themselves what is blue pilled?

I enjoy surfing web, playing video games and coding.

Who doesn't enjoy those things? (minus the coding), but there's obviously more to do right?

What I'm trying to deprive myself from?

Here's an obvious one, sex.

Oh and every single thing you said here:

I hate everything that normiefags like traveling, tasting new food, new things

Have you ever tasted a Dairy Queen blizzard?

If you have, imagine how stupid it would sound to you if someone says that they literally go out of their way to not taste new foods or try new things because they "hate everything that normiefags like". Imagine if that person never tasted a Dairy Queen blizzard and they refused to try it because they "hate everything that normiefags like".

It really just sounds like you are refusing to do certain things because you think of these acts as "bad" because "normies do it". But you are just depriving yourself of enjoyment in life.

This is the definition of "cutting off your nose to spite your face".

 

[BlkPillPres]

you should make a thread on how to wealthmaxx

1. I'm not at a point in my life in which I'm qualified.

2. It would be kinda vague and pointless, unless I tell people what field to specifically wealthmaxx in, and that's dangerous because I'd be creating competition for myself lol.

3. If I ever make that thread, it will be my last thread on this forum before I leave for good.

 

[InefficientMarkets]

2. It would be kinda vague and pointless, unless I tell people what field to specifically wealthmaxx in, and that's dangerous because I'd be creating competition for myself lol.

Indeed.

If someone ever finds an "easy way" to make money, they won't ever talk about it publicly.
Whoever gives you a "get rich" video/thread for free, is probably making money off of it on your back.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Indeed.

If someone ever finds an "easy way" to make money, they won't ever talk about it publicly.
Whoever gives you a "get rich" video/thread for free, is probably making money off of it on your back.

I would tell people what field I'm possibly making money in, and where to start, but would I give them all of the specifics?

No.

Not unless I was well out of that field and making money elsewhere, and I trusted that person.

 

[I.N.C.E.L.S. Boss]

3. If I ever make that thread, it will be my last thread on this forum before I leave for good.

the last thread of a dying man

I made a thread long ago on whether folks would prefer to know the truth or wipe their brain and return to the .
The danger about the is that it detroys the male drive, the number of incels who stay motivated after swallowing it is but a few.

A man without a drive to accomplish something is a dead man.
The is very hard on the mind, I've been in this community from its infancy (2015 /r9k/) and sometimes I do wish I could wipe my brain.

 

[Chubacabracel]

"Being alone for a while is dangerous. It’s addicting. Once you see how peaceful it is, you don’t want to deal with people anymore.”

I've spent too many years of my life:
Having fun by myself
Consuming entertainment by myself
Eating by myself
Sleeping by myself
Relaxing by myself
Being motivated by my own personal interests and goals
Etc, etc, etc

What I find kinda funny are all the incels who seem to think that at the drop of a pin, when (IF) they finally get a girlfriend, they are all of a sudden going to be great at reading her cues, keeping her satisfied emotionally, keeping the "emotional roller coaster" game going so that she doesn't get "bored" with the relationship, doing everything that you were once doing alone as a group, etc.

It's not going to work like that. You've spent years becoming accustomed to doing everything by yourself, you can't just flip a switch and now be "good at relationships".

It's going to be an uphill battle for you, and she will be able to tell.

This is very much related to a thread I made before:

What "Its Over" & "It Never Began" Means To Me (Why "Ascension" Is Impossible For Black Pillers)

I've often considered converting to Islam, but if I'm being honest, I'd only convert for the perks of living in a society where women can't just go about whoring around, but my experiences and those that I have seen and read about online have left a bitter taste in my mouth that cannot be...

incels.is

Even as a child I kept to myself because everything was so simple, straightforward and peaceful (conflict free), when you keep to yourself. The moment something involves other people in a social setting it becomes some kind of competition, it's no longer just about enjoying the thing that you're doing. Add women to the equation and that just amplifies it even more for men.

I have gotten too comfortable with the quietness and peace of being a recluse, to the point that I know that I would have to force myself to be in a relationship. I don't want to have to think about compliments, or what gift to buy my GF, or how to make her "feel special", or worry about what to wear that "looks good", or anything like that.

It feels so good to just throw something on and go out and just eat something. Add other people to the equation and now you can't just wear something you like that you don't really pay attention too anyways. Now it's a competition. Now each guy is comparing outfits, whose wearing brand name, whose matching, who doesn't have "swag", etc, and once again add women to the equation and that amplifies everything.


I've learned how to socialize for the sake of my financial pursuits. I've gotten myself promotions, I've negotiated raises, etc. I know how to work my way up the corporate ladder and "fit in". But I really don't want to, it's all so "forced", it's all so annoying.

View: https://youtu.be/ZOfql4OWTng?t=1


Being alone is just so convenient, it's just so peaceful, I don't think I can really paint the picture to people who aren't true introverts.

The truth is, the term "introvert" has been co-opted by normies who want to be "quirky" and they aren't really introverted at all. But that's a topic for another day.

This pursuit of a peaceful reclusive life is the core reason I wealthmaxx, because in order for me to create that reality for myself and make it something that I can do indefinitely, I need to be rich.


My perfect day would be me waking up early in the morning (preferably while living in a SEA country) and going for a quick jog (or maybe I have a treadmill in my house, that would be great). I eat a nice simple breakfast, some pancakes (syrup of course) and eggs (don't really need the bacon). I watch a movie or a show (a few episodes). I do some work on whatever passive income streams are paying the bills.

Around afternoon time I go out for a walk on the nearby beach drinking something I like (probably orange juice), or maybe it's a jog or a bike ride, just taking in the sights, not a care in the world.

Then later around the evening time I visit the local brothel or call up a regular escort to a hotel room (we'll never meet at my place) and enjoy myself thoroughly. Then I head back home to shower, after drying and changing I check to see if there's some extra work to be done and when I done with that I finish the evening off with some entertainment and a nice meal (probably something local, maybe I'll order).

Maybe on some days I'll stay up late and game, IDK, haven't played any video games in years, stopped enjoying it. Maybe if my life became that dream I'd start enjoying them again.


I really can't relate to the average incel who seems obsessed with relationships, companionship, "life goal chasing", "female validation", etc. All I want is peaceful quiet effortless life where I can do the things I enjoy, without interruption, without conflict, without having to deal with the annoyances that most people bring to your life.

From my perspective it just seems like you guys are chasing after problems, chasing after conflict, chasing after stress, and worry, and endless competition, etc. It just doesn't end.

If you think when you get a GF or a Wife that you've "finished the game", you are a naive fool. Now you have to spend the rest of your life competing for her affections and trying to keep the endless list of male suitors that she has at work, on social media, etc, from convincing her to cheat on you and/or leave you.

The thing about these "social games" is that they never end, they only stop when it's you alone in a room by yourself.


I think too many of you are obsessed with "living up to a standard" rather than simply living and enjoying your life. So you remain mentally stuck in a box, where life is literally just about reaching "milestones" and how you are perceived by other people.

Life is just so peaceful in those quiet moments alone, I want to stretch that quiet moment out into the length of my entire life.

another high iq post

instead of chasing after women and trying to be a court jester to keep them, something you know if you are blackpilled

just focus on what u enjoy doing in life and ignore the negatives or what u can’t reach. keep everything simple and controllable. make getting the bag easy and passive and just sort of do whatever u like

for a man thats the ideal life

 

[BlkPillPres]

the last thread of a dying man

I made a thread long ago on whether folks would prefer to know the truth or wipe their brain and return to the .
The danger about the is that it detroys the male drive, the number of incels who stay motivated after swallowing it is but a few.

A man without a drive to accomplish something is a dead man.
The is very hard on the mind, I've been in this community from its infancy (2015 /r9k/) and sometimes I do wish I could wipe my brain.

The privilege of a "safety net" destroys the male drive.

Every man who decides to do nothing after being black pilled is a man that can AFFORD to do nothing.

I simply do not see myself as a man who has that luxury, maybe if I did I would do nothing too lol.

The funny thing is a lot of these guys have this mindset because of their parents, but they forget that all our parents are going to die at some point, and a lot of our parents don't have an inheritance for us and they never got life insurance.

There's going to be a lot of homeless NEET LDAR retards in the coming decades .

 

[WysteriaMurderer]

No, that's not how it works.

By your logic:
"Nothing is cucked, it's up to the person"
"Nothing is blue pilled, it's up to the person"
"Nothing is stupid, it's up to the person"

It doesn't work like that, something can objectively be a waste of time.

Everything is waste of time. What is not waste of time and what it is you decide for yourself. Your analogies don't disprove anything I said. It's like you bring me shit and say: "Look it's shit", but it doesn't have anything to do with a subject, you just threw a bunch of random statements

What's the point of holding yourself to a standard on anything then, if something as fundamental to existence as time and how we use it, is now "completely subjective" and everyone gets to decide what is valuable regardless of whether or not it benefits them objectively in any way?

Only objective benefits for a human is food. Anything else is subjective yes
You don't need new food or something exotic, you can just eat common food. Going to restaraunt tasting new food isn't objective benefit, the process of eating food is objective benefit, but eating it for the sake of new taste is subjective benefit. Money holds it value in modern society, but in wild habitat it doesn't hold any value - example of subjective value. How holding standards disproves my point about subjective value? You can hold standards of muslim/christian society or whatever else, it's still subjective.

Who doesn't enjoy those things? (minus the coding), but there's obviously more to do right?

Then why the fuck you are talking about depriving of something. If I don't do something, it doesn't mean I deprive myself from it, it means I don't enjoy it

Here's an obvious one, sex.

I'm not depriving myself from sex, foids are. Depriving would be if I didn't jerk off, because obviously I want to make foids pregnant.

Have you ever tasted a Dairy Queen blizzard?

What the fuck are you talking about, legit I will skip that part because there is nothing to say.

It really just sounds like you are refusing to do certain things because you think of these acts as "bad" because "normies do it".

I don't hate it because of normies you dumbfuck. You are making shit up, when I didn't say anything out of it. I hate normie activities because I find them simply uninteresting.
"Man, look eat this pile of shit, it's really good!"
"Nah, bro, I don't think I would enjoy eating that"
"Nyoooooooooo, how can you say that if you didn't even taste IT!!1111!!!!! YOU ARE DEPRIVING YOURSELF FROM ENJOYMENT OF LIFE"

 

[BlkPillPres]

I'm not depriving myself from sex, foids are.

JFL no, it doesn't work like that. You can't spend your entire life sexless and then say women deprived you of sex. There's always an alternative route, and your refusal to pursue it means you deprived yourself.

Any man who hasn't had sex by the age of 50 deprived himself of sex, in his 20's he had the excuse of women rejecting him, in his 30's he had the excuse of not having the resources required to pursue alternative options, by 40+ I'd say he's ran out of excuses.

At that point it's a personal choice to do nothing.

What the fuck are you talking about, legit I will skip that part because there is nothing to say.

It's a straight forward question, have you ever eaten a Dairy Queen blizzard?

I don't hate it because of normies you dumbfuck. You are making shit up, when I didn't say anything out of it. I hate normie activities because I find them simply uninteresting.

How the hell is traveling to new places "uninteresting", but sitting down all day in a chair isn't?

YOU LITERALLY SAID YOU DON'T LIKE DOING "NEW THINGS"?

I hate everything that normiefags like(traveling, tasting new food, new things)

By definition you don't like interesting things you retard, there's nothing interesting about doing the same thing over and over everyday, that's the exact opposite of interesting lol.

I'll end it here.

 

[Indari]

Life is trash

 

[WysteriaMurderer]

JFL no, it doesn't work like that. You can't spend your entire life sexless and then say women deprived you of sex. There's always an alternative route, and your refusal to pursue it means you deprived yourself.

Any man who hasn't had sex by the age of 50 deprived himself of sex, in his 20's he had the excuse of women rejecting him, in his 30's he had the excuse of not having the resources required to pursue alternative options, by 40+ I'd say he's ran out of excuses.

You are a fucking retard. You can say anything is excuse and a personal choice, because theoretically you can rape foids to have sex with them.

It's a straight forward question, have you ever eaten a Dairy Queen blizzard?

No, I'm not american.

How the hell is traveling to new places "uninteresting", but sitting down all day in a chair isn't?

Easy. Travelling is tedious activity that you need to know alot about and I'm simply not interested in it to try it out for some mythical sense of enjoyment from it. I can tell you from one look what I will like and what I won't.

YOU LITERALLY SAID YOU DON'T LIKE DOING "NEW THINGS"?

Obviously I exaggerated. Depends on what is that new thing. I enjoy learning "new things" about programming or a field of activities that I'm interested in. However, most of what normies find enjoyable I despise.

By definition you don't like interesting things you retard

What definition you retard. If you like eating shit that doesn't mean everyone would like it.
New =/= interesting

 

[Indari]

Life is trash

Can hardly even argue this post, because most normie relationships seem to be full of that shit you mentioned. Arguably I would want to go for an actual good relationship as the highest ideal, but more and more that seems to be like a homeless person asking for a yacht. You really think you'd be satisfied just coping alone without the oxytocin of a loving partner? Non-existence is looking more and more enticing.

 

[eatdinner]

I relate to this heavily. Sometimes my mother and little brother go on vacation, leaving me alone in the house for a few days. These times are some of my most focused. I'm literally able to hear my thoughts like they're another person saying them. The lack of stimulation/distraction sharpens my mind I become more productive.

Sometimes I do feel lonely and wish I had some friends to talk to but then I remember what having friends was like for me. I think a lot of us on this forum have an idealized view of things like relationships, and friendships. Most modern relationships aren't worth much unfortunately.

I appreciate @BlkPillPres time and effort that go into these posts. I agree with him on most things, but a 60year old @BlkPillPres is not going to be satisfied with escorts. You're telling me you're never going to want kids?

 

[BlkPillPres]

You really think you'd be satisfied just coping alone without the oxytocin of a loving partner?

I think you guys place too much value on things that even normies throw away when they have it.

If all this "loving partner" stuff was valid infidelity wouldn't be as common as it is today.

Notice that after no fault divorce got put into law, divorce rates went up and the stats are now that 70% of all divorces are initiated by women, and if you narrow it down to college educated women it goes up to 90% of divorces being initiated by women.

Around 50+% of marriages end in divorce and the chances of divorce happening go up by 33% if a woman begins to out earn her "loving partner" .

Stop romanticizing animals being animals. You're only just lying to yourself and creating this unreachable "relationship goal" that doesn't exist.

Humans aren't as great as you think them to be. You aren't as great of a person as you believe yourself to be. After 10 years of fucking the same woman you "love", you'll be tempted to fuck other women, that's reality. If you think you won't get bored of fucking the same woman, day after day for the rest of your life, then you aren't being honest with yourself.

I know that I'll always want sexual variety, that's another reason why I don't see a point in getting into a long term relationship.

 

[Don Vito]

Well thats not my case. So many years in inceldom made me fantasize having sex with a foid in order to sleep. But I wouldnt see myself sharing a night with a foid. Also is annoying having to interact with people. Specially when they mog you. So I partially feel what you feel.

 

[BlkPillPres]

but a 60year old @BlkPillPres is not going to be satisfied with escorts.

Speak for yourself.

You're telling me you're never going to want kids?

What's the value of kids and how would it benefit me?

I don't like people, I don't like socializing, I like having free time to myself and a quiet area to think.

I don't want any responsibilities, obligations or dependencies.

I'm not obsessed with "leaving a legacy" like a lot of you guys are. Which I think is cope anyways and shows that you guys don't understand what a "legacy" actually is (Isaac Newton and Nikola Tesla never had any children and their legacy dwarfs that of 99% of men that reproduced).

Your children aren't your legacy. Legacy is the reputation and status that you pass down to your children through your name. Your legacy is what your children inherit from you.

Average people who will amount to nothing have co-opted the term "legacy" and relegated it to being "I orgasmed and someone got pregnant", because it allows them to feel special for accomplishing nothing, and doing what rats in the sewers do. We wouldn't say that the rats have a great legacy now would we? (and they have many more offspring than we do).

 

[Indari]

I think you guys place too much value on things that even normies that have it throw away.

If all this "loving partner" stuff was valid infidelity wouldn't be as common as it is today.

Notice that after no fault divorce got put into law, divorce rates went up and the stats are now that 70% of all divorces are initiated by women, and if you narrow it down to college educated women it goes up to 90% of divorces being initiated by women.

Around 50+% of marriages end in divorce and the chances of divorce happening go up by 33% if a woman begins to out earn her "loving partner" .

Stop romanticizing animals being animals. You're only just lying to yourself and creating this unreachable "relationship goal" that doesn't exist.

Humans aren't as great as you think them to be. You aren't as great of a person as you believe yourself to be. After 10 years of fucking the same woman you "love", you'll be tempted to fuck other women, that's reality. If you think you won't get bored of fucking the same woman, day after day for the rest of your life, then you aren't being honest with yourself.

I know that I'll always want sexual variety, that's another reason why I don't see a point in getting into a long term relationship.

I am smarter than most normies though and wouldn't get into an relationship that shows obvious signs of being weak.

 

[BlkPillPres]

I am smarter than most normies though and wouldn't get into an relationship that shows obvious signs of being weak.

Many men who can read social cues and understand women better than you have said the same shit, and they got bent over in court and divorce raped.

Intelligence matters, but experience is an even more important factor, and you have no relationship experience.

The right woman will have you wrapped around her finger, and she'll have you thinking that you are the one "running game" too lol.

 

[DryDick]

Keep Coping

 

[BlkPillPres]

Keep Coping

Of all the usernames you could come up with, you went with dry dick? lol.

 

[Indari]

Many men who can read social cues and understand women better than you

relationship experience.

The right woman will have you wrapped around her finger,

All memes. Reading social cues and understanding behavior isn't that complicated. Normies just allow themselves to be treated like shit by women for sex.

 

[Indari]

Of all the usernames you could come up with, you went with dry dick? lol.

it's concise

 

[BlkPillPres]

All memes. Reading social cues and understanding behavior isn't that complicated. Normies just allow themselves to be treated like shit by women for sex.

Source: "trust me bro"

 

[Indari]

Source: "trust me bro"

opinion based on observation, yes

 

[eatdinner]

Speak for yourself.


What's the value of kids and how would it benefit me?

I don't like people, I don't like socializing, I like having free time to myself and a quiet area to think.

I don't want any responsibilities, obligations or dependencies.

I'm not obsessed with "leaving a legacy" like a lot of you guys are. Which I think is cope anyways and shows that you guys don't understand what a "legacy" actually is (Isaac Newton and Nikola Tesla never had any children and their legacy dwarfs that of 99% of men that reproduced).

Your children aren't your legacy. Legacy is the reputation and status that you pass down to your children through your name. Your legacy is what your children inherit from you.

Average people who will amount to nothing have co-opted the term "legacy" and relegated it to being "I orgasmed and someone got pregnant", because it allows them to feel special for accomplishing nothing, and doing what rats in the sewers do. We wouldn't say that the rats have a great legacy now would we? (and they have many more offspring than we do).

Maybe it's just me. I don't care for legacy no one will be remembered 100 years from now. The point of having kids for me is like the final act. I could be rich, successful but I wouldn't feel completed on my deathbed without raising at least 1 child.

Kids are also a great investment.

 

[BlkPillPres]

opinion based on observation, yes

You might understand the science behinds planes, know exactly how planes fly, and even how one would theoretically pilot a plane (as in you know the layout of the pilot set and what to pull - push - etc. With all that it is still hubris to think that you can fly a plan with no experience of doing any flight simulations or partnered flights with a pilot who has experience.

You might as well say you've watched enough MMA fights, so if you train yourself to be in the peak condition of a fighter, you'll be able to fight in the ring. You wouldn't be taking into account the mental pressure or anything like that.

It doesn't work like that.

Heck, it's like saying "I've observed enough porn, I can definitely have sex" .

No you can't, you don't really understand what something entails and all the nuances involved, until you have to do it yourself.

 

[BlkPillPres]

I wouldn't feel completed on my deathbed without raising at least 1 child.

Here's the thing though. Should you really be having a child "just because you want to" rather than "I can actually raise this child properly, give them a good life with amazing opportunities, and give them a lot of great memories".

Can you actually raise a child to have a good life in this modern era, a child with your genetics especially?

Are you just banking on having a daughter so that you don't have to worry about the black pill?

I don't see any positives in me having a child, I just don't want the hassle. I think of hearing a baby crying in the middle of the night, and I see myself being one of those dads who goes out to get the milk and never comes back (trust me that's better than the alternative of permanently making the baby stop crying ).

Kids are also a great investment.

In what way?

Having someone you can guilt trip into taking care of you in your old age? (that seems like the usual reason I hear people throw out).

Sorry, I'll pass on that. That just sounds really selfish. That person didn't ask to exist, and you are essentially creating them with the intent of them being a slave lol.

BTW the average child costs around 230,000 to raise to adulthood. Another reason for me to pass. I think I'll keep my quarter of a million. That might ironically cover the costs for me living in one of those high end "old people homes" till my death.

 

[YBP Yxngcel]

I understand. But some people simply ain't built like you. So a lack of socialization in their life for a prolonged period of time can cause some harm to their well-being. Some people brains are simply wired different.

I can relate to what your saying. Social experiences weren't always the best for me and so I choose stay alone. Dealing with normgroids is an annoyance since it's always a dick contest with them. But some peoples brains are simply wired to crave socialization.

Not everyone in the world is going to be like you where they could simply care less about social connections.

I would personally love to befriend people who are likeminded and relatable, who are not to clingy, like family without the blood. Authentic people and Interesting people.

But it's very hard to run into those types of people. And you have to deal with the basic cookie cutter normie or stay lonely. I choose to stay lonely in that regard.

Anyways. Basically not every one is built like you and can't give up on social connections so easily. Even if they somehow killed their ego. A small part of them would still want a connection with somebody. Not necessarily with womem only. But just another human.

 

[BlkPillPres]

I understand. But some people simply ain't built like you. So a lack of socialization in their life for a prolonged period of time can cause some harm to their well-being. Some people brains are simply wired different.

I can relate to what your saying. Social experiences weren't always the best for me and so I choose stay alone. Dealing with normgroids is an annoyance since it's always a dick contest with them. But some peoples brains are simply wired to crave socialization.

Not everyone in the world is going to be like you where they could simply care less about social connections.

I would personally love to befriend people who are likeminded and relatable, who are not to clingy, like family without the blood. Authentic people and Interesting people.

But it's very hard to run into those types of people. And you have to deal with the basic cookie cutter normie or stay lonely. I choose to stay lonely in that regard.

Anyways. Basically not every one is built like you and can't give up on social connections so easily. Even if they somehow killed their ego. A small part of them would still want a connection with somebody. Not necessarily with womem only. But just another human.

I honestly think it's a "learning curve" thing, and because they don't have to "do without" they get to keep telling themselves they couldn't "live without".

But if they didn't have a choice, they'd probably get over it in a year or so and adapt to that life, especially if all their basic needs were being met.

 

[eatdinner]

Here's the thing though. Should you really be having a child "just because you want to" rather than "I can actually raise this child properly, give them a good life with amazing opportunities, and give them a lot of great memories".

Can you actually raise a child to have a good life in this modern era, a child with your genetics especially?

Are you just banking on having a daughter so that you don't have to worry about the black pill?

I don't see any positives in me having a child, I just don't want the hassle. I think of hearing a baby crying in the middle of the night, and I see myself being one of those dads who goes out to get the milk and never comes back (trust me that's better than the alternative of permanently making the baby stop crying ).


In what way?

Having someone you can guilt trip into taking care of you in your old age? (that seems like the usual reason I hear people throw out).

Sorry, I'll pass on that. That just sounds really selfish. That person didn't ask to exist, and you are essentially creating them with the intent of them being a slave lol.

BTW the average child costs around 230,000 to raise to adulthood. Another reason for me to pass. I think I'll keep my quarter of a million. That might ironically cover the costs for me living in one of those high end "old people homes" till my death.

Well I would hope by the time I'm ready to have kids I would be financially stable. That would come first.

Kids are a great investment because they have limitless potential. Just think if our parents were blackpilled, who knows what kind of measures could've been taking to prevent certain outcomes.

Yeah having kids is a "selfish" thing in a way but I believe life is a gift regardless. I mean how can I turn that down literally creating a human, of course implying that I'm potent.

 

[BarrelStuffer]

Again, every relationship I’ve seen, none of them are as you described. My friend told me recently he literally just sits in his moms basement with his gf after work and goes on vacations every now and then. And no he doesn’t pay for everything, she has a job too.