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It's Over One of the most brutal feelings is when you get along with someone, but they dont care about you

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Can anyone relate ? It happened to me way too often that i would get along with someone, but they barely wanna spend time wih me or care about me. I would every now and then find someone at school or other environments i have things in common with or we just naturally get along well with each other. And like the abuse dog i am, i thought i would have found a new friend but since im a low status, Aspie manlet, they wont give the me the time of their day and rather spend their time with someone else. It has been like that my whole life.
 
I never get to the point to hang out with someone, but at school whenever I tried talking to people in my class during breaks they would immidetly get annoyed and disperse soon after.
 
I don't interact with people
 
Every time. I didnt have any true friemd
 
Sorry mang, it's brutal he seemed similar but doesn't want to be friends.
 
I've had this happen to me a couple of times before.

I'm far too dejected to make any attempts at making real life friends by now.
 
Can anyone relate ? It happened to me way too often that i would get along with someone, but they barely wanna spend time wih me or care about me. I would every now and then find someone at school or other environments i have things in common with or we just naturally get along well with each other. And like the abuse dog i am, i thought i would have found a new friend but since im a low status, Aspie manlet, they wont give the me the time of their day and rather spend their time with someone else. It has been like that my whole life.
yup ik how you feel. even online most ppl ghost me, and irl jfl i never stood a chance, was always thrown out i couldnt even make it into the door unless i jestermaxxed or tried to play someone i truly wasnt. at this point ive accepted ill prob alwys remain this way, it is jus who i am if someone wants to accept me thats on them i wont force shit i dont want to be anything other than how i am innately. sometimes i feel normies are all jus wearing huge masks that when they get home and lay their head on the bed realize its all a joke. but it is hard to live in this society without wearing one, i jus npcmaxx whenever i have to interact w anyone irl im legit so monotone and robotic even i find myself fucking comical becuz ill have to voices playing in my head one is analyzing the interaction from a distant view having its monologue and then theres me talking in real time like a robot
 
yup ik how you feel. even online most ppl ghost me, and irl jfl i never stood a chance, was always thrown out i couldnt even make it into the door unless i jestermaxxed or tried to play someone i truly wasnt. at this point ive accepted ill prob alwys remain this way, it is jus who i am if someone wants to accept me thats on them i wont force shit i dont want to be anything other than how i am innately. sometimes i feel normies are all jus wearing huge masks that when they get home and lay their head on the bed realize its all a joke. but it is hard to live in this society without wearing one, i jus npcmaxx whenever i have to interact w anyone irl im legit so monotone and robotic even i find myself fucking comical becuz ill have to voices playing in my head one is analyzing the interaction from a distant view having its monologue and then theres me talking in real time like a robot
same. I dont actively try to talk to people or make new friendshipd anymore, if it happens it happens. But now im done with school and my apprenticeship and ill probably never have the chance again to meet new people anyways
 
same. I dont actively try to talk to people or make new friendshipd anymore, if it happens it happens. But now im done with school and my apprenticeship and ill probably never have the chance again to meet new people anyways
wdym never have the chance again?
 
Im done with school and everything, i work now and im mostly surrounded by Millenials and Boomers
i c, but cant u make connections with them?
 
This is what I call the acquaintance zone, You're not even good enough for the friend zone.
 
yeah, i kinda stopped talking to people since i realised that they don’t want to associate with me due to me being low status. If people think you will bring their status/ hierarchy down then they won’t want to associate with you in the slightest.
 
mogs me for having relations.
 
then u gotta stop caring in response. ppl damage u bcause they think ur worthless. normies have some 6th sense where they instantly know if ur an incel or not and then they stop caring. so its useless to convince a normie to think about you otherwise
 
All my friends were like this, they never contacted me or invited to anything, always I asked them to do something together.
 
I never care about anyone and they don't care about me. It's all looks so whatever
 
That's why I ultimately grew up to be content with myself. I really hate saying that or anything else similar to it, because it sounds like something you'd unironically hear from a Redditfag, but I mean it moreso in the manner of, 'everyone hates me so I hate them.' I don't want to connect with people. I don't want to interact with people. By all means, I am not a human being—I am a completely separate species that can never get along with anyone on an endemic level.

That's how I like viewing it, anyway~.
 
Cuz ur annoying son
 
Can anyone relate ? It happened to me way too often that i would get along with someone, but they barely wanna spend time wih me or care about me. I would every now and then find someone at school or other environments i have things in common with or we just naturally get along well with each other. And like the abuse dog i am, i thought i would have found a new friend but since im a low status, Aspie manlet, they wont give the me the time of their day and rather spend their time with someone else. It has been like that my whole life.
They don't like you and obviously don't consider you their friend if they don't want to hang out with you, they just act "nice to you" because they want to appear be polite and feel better with themselves.
 
Yes, even when we ended up in a room alone, they would rather chat with their friends on the phone than talk to me. But this was in high school and university, I don't let others humiliate me like that anymore. If they don't care about me, I don't care about them.
 
Can anyone relate ? It happened to me way too often that i would get along with someone, but they barely wanna spend time wih me or care about me. I would every now and then find someone at school or other environments i have things in common with or we just naturally get along well with each other. And like the abuse dog i am, i thought i would have found a new friend but since im a low status, Aspie manlet, they wont give the me the time of their day and rather spend their time with someone else. It has been like that my whole life.
I relate a lot with what you are describing, sometimes some normies treated me with some human decency and I just thought they wanted to be my friends so I asked them if they wanted to hang out (and all the time they ignored me or made excuses)
 

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