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Skin Hunger : Prolonged touch deprivation ;
I keep seeing these articles (some by foids) talking about skin hunger during the epidemic and it's honestly driving me nuts, for the first time normies, chads and stacies are getting a taste of the incel lifestyle, they went 3 months without touch and they're going berserk yet I went 8 years without it (I bet that's nothing compared to some of the people on here). it's fkn sickening, I fucking hate being a KHHV
 
I havent had a hug in years
 
They live in a vastly different reality. Thing is, I'm sure that there are some things which everyone would admit they find bad, that is if they were forced to endure them. However for the most part, people measure how good or bad their current state of being is by contrast. A woman who has never gone without companionship and sex when she wanted it, well she would have a vastly different understanding of what constitutes a lack of physical contact, or rather how great of an absence of it is required to cause her suffering.

Tbh I don't even notice 3 months go by anymore. But it's weird thinking about skin hunger specifically, as even though I've really never had any physical contact which wasn't from my parents, or something akin to a handskake, I have no preferential state to contrast my lack of experience upon. Does that mean that it isn't bad for me? No, but I have no way to determine the extent of the damage, and it seems obvious that I'm so used to this deprivation, that it can't affect me as much as someone who hasn't lived a similar life, at least not anymore.
 
They live in a vastly different reality. Thing is, I'm sure that there are some things which everyone would admit they find bad, that is if they were forced to endure them. However for the most part, people measure how good or bad their current state of being is by contrast. A woman who has never gone without companionship and sex when she wanted it, well she would have a vastly different understanding of what constitutes a lack of physical contact, or rather how great of an absence of it is required to cause her suffering.

Tbh I don't even notice 3 months go by anymore. But it's weird thinking about skin hunger specifically, as even though I've really never had any physical contact which wasn't from my parents, or something akin to a handskake, I have no preferential state to contrast my lack of experience upon. Does that mean that it isn't bad for me? No, but I have no way to determine the extent of the damage, and it seems obvious that I'm so used to this deprivation, that it can't affect me as much as someone who hasn't lived a similar life, at least not anymore.
True, it's unjust to compare suffering like that yet it still bothers me because I still long for physical contact, I literally cuddle a pillow when going to sleep .
 
TBH it doesn't hurt now but it will catch up to me
 
True, it's unjust to compare suffering like that yet it still bothers me because I still long for physical contact
It's just that normies/women use the exact same logic against us, but what they fail to realize is that they do this because they lack the capacity to truly empathize or even relate to us. Telling a person that they're miscalculating their situation by using the experiences of other people as evidence, well it kinda misses the point. It's based upon incorrect assumptions about how humans process negative emotions, suffering, and how they measure the quality of their own lives. The fact that we suffer because of a lifetime of loneliness, and that other people suffer due to three months without meaningful physical contact, well they're both equally true because they're realities which solely exist within the heads of individual people.

This is why it's better to not even think about it, to do everything in your power to avoid comparing your life to the lives of others, and to avoid thinking about how much happier you'd be if you only had (x). The problem is that if you actually had these things which you envision, your brain would just create new reasons for you to be discontent, and instead of remaining satisfied you'll probably just want more of whatever it is that you've gained. Evolution is a fucking bitch.
I literally cuddle a pillow when going to sleep .
So do I, it helps a lot tbh.
 

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