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Serious Oldcels, will it ever get better?

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Question to all the oldcels. Will it ever get better?

I somewhat already accepted that no matter what I won't ever ascend. A year ago I was still coping hard, hoping, gymcelling, putting my stocks in JBW but yeah time has passed and I'm getting closer and closer to finally giving up.

Rage has passed and now theres just this weird feeling of uneasiness, like something is just plain wrong, gears don't match.

Part of me can't fully give up and I think thats the part that brings me pain, and blocks me from moving on.

So, the question for oldcels, will it get better with time? Will I accept and move om to become fully whitepilled or will it get worse/stay the same?

I've seen plenty of posts that claim inceldom really hit them at 30 but, I don't know, I was hoping I would move on by then.

In other words, will it be like it is now (miserable and somewhat unreal/wrong) or will I move on with time and only dwell on iceldom from time to time?

Sorry for rambling I'm looking for some hope/cope to latch onto.
 
31 here and no, it doesnt get better, it gets worse. You are right that it hits harder. When youre in your 20s, you can use many excuses to make your lack of success with women, make sense, but as you get older, those stop working. Getting a wife/gf and starting a family, all of a sudden, become hot topics and people see you differently. You also have to cope with the fact that you did absolutely nothing in your 20s, mine was a complete waste.

The agepill is brutal. Each year that goes by, is another year where you realize you are doing nothing with life.
 
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No, life only gets worse as you get older. My health problems get worse as I age

Only good thing is I've become numb to it all. Not just inceldom, but everything in life
 
Fuck. I was really hoping for some good news. Nothing, really?

What about sex drive, it gets lower as you age.
But yeah, when I think about it it sounds like life is just incomplete. Like some sort of foundation is missing

Is trying to reduce future pain the only thing I can do? Like make sure I dont have any debt and stuff like this?
 
It's already better and easier in your youth and prime. Let's say 18 - 28 then if you haven't got anywhere after that then it only gets worse for the majority.
 
Where I live most people my age neither have spouses nor children. So me living incel/TFL doesn't really make me stand out
 
No, life only gets worse as you get older. My health problems get worse as I age
I always used to tell myself "at least I have my health". Now I dont even got that anymore.
 
Im 37 and it doesn't. You still want the same things. You can accept the fact it will never happen, but you will still long for it. Like the brocels above said, in 30s you longer no have excuses for failing and not having a family. So you stick out as a weird freak. And you become slower and bones/back start to ache.
 
31 here and no, it doesnt get better, it gets worse. You are right that it hits harder. When youre in your 20s, you can use many excuses to make your lack of success with women, make sense, but as you get older, those stop working. Getting a wife/gf and starting a family, all of a sudden, become hot topics and people see you differently. You also have to cope with the fact that you did absolutely nothing in your 20s, mine was a complete waste.

The agepill is brutal. Each year that goes by, is another year where you realize you are doing nothing with life.
Same age ngl, i just wish for the end. Make it over :feelsrope:
 
A few old man health problems :

>losing teeth
>pissing more
>fungal toe nails
 
Question to all the oldcels. Will it ever get better?

I somewhat already accepted that no matter what I won't ever ascend. A year ago I was still coping hard, hoping, gymcelling, putting my stocks in JBW but yeah time has passed and I'm getting closer and closer to finally giving up.

Rage has passed and now theres just this weird feeling of uneasiness, like something is just plain wrong, gears don't match.

Part of me can't fully give up and I think thats the part that brings me pain, and blocks me from moving on.

So, the question for oldcels, will it get better with time? Will I accept and move om to become fully whitepilled or will it get worse/stay the same?

I've seen plenty of posts that claim inceldom really hit them at 30 but, I don't know, I was hoping I would move on by then.

In other words, will it be like it is now (miserable and somewhat unreal/wrong) or will I move on with time and only dwell on iceldom from time to time?

Sorry for rambling I'm looking for some hope/cope to latch onto.
The problem with this question is that the oldcels for whom things DID get better are most likely not active on the forum anymore and busy with their hobbies/copes. So the answer we'll see here will be mostly no.
 

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