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Oldcels, how is your life different in your late 20s or 30s vs your late teens/early 20s?

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Biggest difference for me is I had hope and a more active social life. I went out to clubs.

Even though I got no results from PUA or doing shit, I had a mission and I was pretty sure I had a good chance of succeeding at it.

In my late 20s, reality set in and I accepted that looks are all that matter. Women have smart phones and access to all the hot guys in the area.

You can't beat that.
I came to accept that you have to be mentally retarded to think you could defeat smart phones and all the chads in the area.
 
Better because I'm more aware of the realities and I'm focusing entirely on myself and my plans.
 
I accepted the black pill and the fact that nobody is attracted to me. This acceptance allowed me to continue with my life and pursue other interests.
 
I came to accept that you have to be mentally retarded to think you could defeat smart phones and all the chads in the area.
Even if you found an untainted girl, her being with you is out of sheer ignorance.
Women acting like they do right now is their natural behavior.
 
I turned 30 last month. The big things are that my sense of self has set like a jelly and I realise that the world is much smaller and pettier than I thought it was. My personal circumstances haven't changed that much since I finished university. I tried and failed to find a job, my social life, which was never great, fell away completely at 24/25 when my friends entered LTRs. I gymcelled for a few years until depression hit me like a truck and I lost all my gains. Even at visible six-pack levels of body fat, I'm still below average in the face. Other than that I coped with MMOs, reading and a few other things.

Being unable to find a relationship has never bothered me that much. I tried really hard to date at university and after facing a wall of rejection, I found it hard to care. The difference at 30 is that while I'm still trying to improve my lot in life, I am at peace with the idea that it may never happen for me.
 
Much better. I was hopeful in my teens, raging in my early 20s and despairing through late 20s.
I guess the human brain can get used to anything, even being a complete failure.
 
I have to go to work out of necessity.

In the old days I would think about suicide and feel bad, now when I think about it I feel relief.
 
I had more hope when I was in my late teens & early 20's. I've completely digested the black pill now.
 
Since when is lee 20's old?
I have more hope now, at 56, since the women my age become more desperate.
The women will come crawling back when they get older. I've seen it with my own eyes.
Sure, they would want a Lief Garret, but they ain't gonna get it.
When was the last time you saw a 60+ year old woman with a younger, good looking (or ugly) guy?
A 60+ woman would be LUCKY if she can get one of us.
 
Nothing changed. I could lifemaxx tomorrow, I know I would be still fucked.
I never deluded myself.
 
to be frank, i don't think i've gotten pilled or accepted anything, i have dark shit running through my head to the point of constantly waking up with racing thoughts, but i still haven't accepted my fate.
if anything i'm more weird, angry, desperate and obsessive over 19 year old women than i've ever been.
compared to this my 20s were like some kind of buddhist monk's meditation, just totally blissfully unaware that it doesn't actually get better if you just work on yourself.
 
I mostly don't care anymore about foids. I know that they are all sluts for Chad and will never understand things like honor or love. They pretend to be better, but deep down they know they completely useless and won't survive a week without blue pilled cucks treating them like kweens.

Once you go black(pill), you neve come back.
 
I mostly don't care anymore about foids. I know that they are all sluts for Chad and will never understand things like honor or love. They pretend to be better, but deep down they know they completely useless and won't survive a week without blue pilled cucks treating them like kweens.

Once you go black(pill), you neve come back.
 
In my late 20s, reality set in and I accepted that looks are all that matter. Women have smart phones and access to all the hot guys in the area.

You can't beat that.
I came to accept that you have to be mentally retarded to think you could defeat smart phones and all the chads in the area.
 
Biggest difference for me is I had hope and a more active social life. I went out to clubs.

Even though I got no results from PUA or doing shit, I had a mission and I was pretty sure I had a good chance of succeeding at it.

In my late 20s, reality set in and I accepted that looks are all that matter. Women have smart phones and access to all the hot guys in the area.

You can't beat that.
I came to accept that you have to be mentally retarded to think you could defeat smart phones and all the chads in the area.


+ i gymcelling , now i LDAR NEET
 
I never had a social life but there was a faint hope of rising above whereas now it’s just occupying time.
 
I have more experience and care less about lots of things, but I look uglier and my dreams of ascending, especially with my type of girl, are pretty much dead.
 
Since when is lee 20's old?
I have more hope now, at 56, since the women my age become more desperate.
The women will come crawling back when they get older. I've seen it with my own eyes.
Sure, they would want a Lief Garret, but they ain't gonna get it.
When was the last time you saw a 60+ year old woman with a younger, good looking (or ugly) guy?
A 60+ woman would be LUCKY if she can get one of us.

Lief! Tigerbeat! Lol! I remember that!
I've seen some ugly dudes with fresh ugly women lately and the thing they all have in common is land and resources. So basically they're simping. Even so, I'm jealous of them.

I wish I knew the blackpill as a kid so I could have positioned myself to betabuxx better in later life.

As it was, I was just clueless. Playing catch-up is almost impossible.

Plan ahead boyos!
 
Just as shiitty, even moreso actually. Once you're in your mid 20s you're basically an old piece of trash to most people. I get lots of stares probably because I'm an ogre
 
People not helping me to search for cute adorable lolis. Earlies some of them helped
 
Everywhere. Just give me contactc of suspected good lolis (absolute majority of them shit, but mission is to find special one). That saves me from necessity to look at ugly uncultured non-loli femoids
 
Just as shiitty, even moreso actually. Once you're in your mid 20s you're basically an old piece of trash to most people. I get lots of stares probably because I'm an ogre
Stops saying mid 20's is old. I am 56. I am older than your parents.
 
Stops saying mid 20's is old. I am 56. I am older than your parents.
No actually you're not older than them, my dad had the great idea of marrying an older woman so he could increase my chances of being an autistic subhuman. I'm past my prime anyways, but I get it you're actually a real oldcel
 
When I was young adult seriously I can tell you that I was some kind of asexual. I wanted to have a girlfriend but believe me that that idea don't was in mind so recurrently as when I have twentysomethings I guess that is when I start to worry about that and try to have social interactions more, but with no results, also knowing older ppl and not fiting with the same age or younger ppl. I knowed it's over 2 years ago thanks to this forum tbh.
 

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