Venting Not being able to speak consistently (Pausing, stuttering, mumbling, being too fast/slow) is one of the worst traits you can have in life

[shyloser]

Unless you have a good enough looks halo (HTN+), this trait is basically a death sentence because you can't even communicate with others in an intelligible way, human society is literally designed in a way where communication is central so it's like being born as a pigeon but your left wing is missing, everyone else will treat you like a braindead retard and getting a job would be basically impossible, even the most basic task is literal hell and it's even worse if you have something like social anxiety

 

[nirvana]

I stumble over my words, stutter, have difficulty making myself heard, and forget what I was saying mid-sentence (retard trait).

 

[Soystein]

everyone else will treat you like a braindead retard and getting a job would be basically impossible, even the most basic task is literal hell and it's even worse if you have something like social anxiety

 

[The Wolf]

Yes I do that and have always done it. I'm almost 30 years old.

 

[The Death Devil]

Yes I do that and have always done it. I'm almost 30 years old.

SAME. Have you ever found a way to fix it? I think that a large part of it might just be inherent to me considering my low IQ likely makes it so that I just can't organize my thoughts fast enough to form coherent sentences..

 

[The Wolf]

SAME. Have you ever found a way to fix it?

Not really. There have been times where it has been worse, when I chose knew I will stutter or stumble so I didn't speak at all. For example when I was about 18 or so I wanted to speak to my mom who was downstairs but no words came out, I just opened my mouth and nothing happened. Now I just speak very hesitantly and haltingly or say uh a lot.

I think that a large part of it might just be inherent to me considering my low IQ likely makes it so that I just can't organize my thoughts fast enough to form coherent sentences..

Interesting... I think for me it's the same, and maybe also because I'm very insecure due to my facial deformities (negative feedback loops -- negative reactions lead me to stutter, which leads to more negative reactions, and on and on for over 17 years).

 

[Neurotic]

Yes

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

It's hard trying to communicate with others.

I'm socially retarded, and lack the ability to articulate my thoughts quickly/concisely.

Sometimes I struggle to do so even in online settings and second guess myself. It's brutal.

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

It's hard trying to communicate with others.

I'm socially retarded, and lack the ability to articulate my thoughts quickly/concisely.

Sometimes I struggle to do so even in online settings and second guess myself. It's brutal.

 

[St3v3Cel]

 

[chudcel]

Sometimes I speak too loud without realising.

 

[subhumanmonkey]

its brootal

 

[superpsycho]

i have the worst stutter out of anybody that i know.

 

[Veiko]

That's basically what made me hate being born, as everytime I talked I sound like a retard, I do not sound like someone who's about to turn 21. I hate how I talk. I hate it so much. I do not sound grown up or normal. It really bothers me. I stutter constantly, and it makes me sound fucking stupid. To say this is the worst trait to have is somewhat short of an understatement. It's catastrophic.

 

[NearestNeighbor]

STUTTERCEL HERE
i fucking hate my life, people dont understand what i go through, they either ridicule me or dismiss it saying "it's not a problem" when IT REALLY FUCKING IS and even i was HTN/chad my quality of life would still be shitty

 

[irishforeheadcel]

I have this autist trait of having a super loud awkward laugh that probably makes people scared of me

 

[Youthpilled]

the funniest part is that i sound incredibly eloquent in my head, but when it comes to real life communication i sometimes make impression of a total sperg

 

[Erenincel]

It's hard trying to communicate with others.

I'm socially retarded, and lack the ability to articulate my thoughts quickly/concisely.

Sometimes I struggle to do so even in online settings and second guess myself. It's brutal.

Same. My voice can go haywire from stress. Plus, I have a speech impediment.