- Nov 19, 2017
The worst was one of my best friends of 10+ years. We were having issues over the last two years unrelated to this after he started forming beliefs that it's in the 'nature' of Asian women to 'worship white men' and be 'white' because his long-term ex cheated on him with a white guy and struggled with her identity due to being adopted (the latter sometimes being messy but understandable!) First of all, that's a shitty thing to say to an Asian woman especially when you're not Asian (he would never say this about the women in his own community!). Secondly, he wouldn't listen to anything I sent him about the history of the impacts of white supremacy and colonization, the fetishization of Asian women that has led to a high rate of SA/abuse (which is literally my own lived experience), or the ACADEMIC studies I sent that literally showed over 70% marry Asian men, which has only increased in the last decade. And my own dating history didn't reflect his stupid assumptions.
Even normies are blackpilled about noodlewhores now, they reap what they sow
Suddenly, if I had a special interest that he considered 'white,' I'd never hear the end of it. For example - my oldest special interest is Tolkien. I love how Tolkien gets so detailed you can literally track the impacts of migration between groups of people throughout the ages down to diverging dialects and cultures. My cousin got me into it when we were kids and when she died I clung to it harder. I'm also a massive Dragon Age lore nut because it gets incredibly dense lore-wise too since it has 3 games and a shitton of extended media including 2 lore books. But noooooooo it must be because of white men or me wanting to be 'white.' I'm incredibly proud of my Japanese and Filipino cultures! Why can’t I just like things.
Why can't I just like blond white men in medieval outfits and blond Elves and anyway just everything blond and white