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No One Wants to Admit They’re Ugly, Which Makes It Hard to Fight Beauty Bias
Nobody wants to join the ugly lobby, but that might be what we need to battle “lookism”


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Article: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smar...legally-protect-people-beauty-bias-180950331/
March 31, 2014


Being beautiful is really convenient. Studies show that good looking people get offered more money and better jobs. They're also treated better by their teachers, their students, their waiters and even their jury. Not even moms are immune: they favor their prettier babies. All of us, actually, assume beautiful people are healthier, more intelligent, nicer and more competent. And those assumptions help us feel a little bit better about the fact that these pretty people are treated better than we are.

But should they be? Ruth Graham at the Boston Globe recently explored the ways in which the law isn’t really equipped to deal with “lookism.” Laws protect people from discrimination based on race, sex and other qualities that are, as a rule, out of our control and not indicative of actual qualifications or skills. And yet, creating and enforcing laws that protect the less-amazing-looking is really difficult.

“There is no lobby for the homely,” Graham writes. “How do you change a discriminatory behavior that, even though unfair, is obviously deep, hard to pin down, and largely unconscious—and affects people who would be hurt even to admit they’re in the stigmatized category?” She outlines a few of the solutions that have cropped up in the past few years:

Tentatively, experts are beginning to float possible solutions. Some have proposed legal remedies including designating unattractive people as a protected class, creating affirmative action programs for the homely, or compensating disfigured but otherwise healthy people in personal-injury courts. Others have suggested using technology to help fight the bias, through methods like blind interviews that take attraction out of job selection. There’s promising evidence from psychology that good old-fashioned consciousness-raising has a role to play, too.
According to Graham, beauty is a lot more objective than perhaps we would like it to be. Studies have shown that what people consider “beautiful” is pretty consistent, even across cultures. So if it's possible to establish who is and who isn’t benefitting from so-called “lookism,” what’s keeping us from creating legislation to protect people who are discrimated against?

One issue is that laws don't necessarily solve the problem. Some states have laws that address discrimination against people based on weight and height. But nobody really uses them. But the biggest problem, Graham argues, is that ugly people aren’t united like other lobbies. “There are no ‘unattractive’ lobbies,” Connor Principe, a research at Pacific University, told Graham. “For that to really work, you have to have people who are willing to be recognized as unattractive.” And nobody wants to join the ugly club.

Some researchers say that we might be able to tackle lookism like we tackle racism—by convincing people to admit they have a bias and to start recognizing it in their daily lives. But that'll mean changing the story we've been telling kids from very early on—that looks don't matter. Perhaps instead of stories that champion the idea that “it’s what’s on the inside that counts,” we need some stories that are honest about our bias for beauty, or a rousing tale of a young princess who rallies the ugly people together to fight for equal rights. Because most of us are more like the frog than the prince.

Commentary: the same thing can be applied to inceldom, no ones want to admit thats they are incels; in a sense incels in denial and bluepill copers would never account their physical characteristics as the main contributor to their state of sexlessness and rejection, they'd acknowledge the impact of lookism in almost all areas of life, but when it comes to the most looks based human behavior we know as sexual selection they'd rather hide behind their fragile mental crutches, so their fragile egos remains intact.
In a perfect world; build around honestly, integrity and self reflection incels might unite together to combat the social marginalization.
 
97% of brazilian males believe they're good-looking.

100% of brazilian females say less than 1% of brazilian males are "passable" in looks, and consider truly good-looking ones to be in the ballpark of parts per million.
 
yes it was hard to swallow that i was ugly. I always thought i was average until i realized it was just people being nice to me. Every incels should humbly accept that they are ugly.
 
97% of brazilian males believe they're good-looking.

100% of brazilian females say less than 1% of brazilian males are "passable" in looks, and consider truly good-looking ones to be in the ballpark of parts per million.
1%!!!!!1 fucking clown world
 
yes it was hard to swallow that i was ugly. I always thought i was average until i realized it was just people being nice to me. Every incels should humbly accept that they are ugly.
 
Inability to accept your ugliness is a false pride. Even in this forum we have users who propagate soy normie 'virtues' like self-love. It's unnatural to love yourself if you're ugly.
 

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