Venting Need some advice I keep having suicidal thoughts

[Zogpilled]

Need some help/advice. I’ve been having suicidal thoughts/ thinking about roping. I don’t know what to do to keep those thoughts at bay. I made a list of why I should rope and why I shouldn’t.
Here is why I should rope. My list for why I shouldn’t is tiny. I don’t care about women anymore it’s just living in peak clown world is getting to me.

Stop health problems (anxiety , high blood pressure)

No more stress

No more pain

No more clown world

Hair loss

Can’t cope getting old

I have no friends

I’m miserable

Life is mundane (everyday feels the same)

There’s nothing to look forward to

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Truthfully I don't know. The way I was able to get past my suicidal thoughts was surrounding myself with as many copes as possible. I usually play video games for 30 minutes to an hour and then switch to building legos for 30 mins to an hour while watching movies, then go back to video games and repeat this process. This way I don't get bored, and this way I'm never thinking about the shit that makes me want to kill myself. I don't know if this helps but I hope it can.

 

[khajiitk]

I need more informations.

How tall are you?

Do u have parents alive?

Do u have siblings?

Do u have an inheritance like property or business?

I'm personally against suicide because there is always something that can help, even if just a little.

 

[HopeisDead777]

Need some help/advice. I’ve been having suicidal thoughts/ thinking about roping. I don’t know what to do to keep those thoughts at bay. I made a list of why I should rope and why I shouldn’t.
Here is why I should rope. My list for why I shouldn’t is tiny. I don’t care about women anymore it’s just living in peak clown world is getting to me.

Stop health problems (anxiety , high blood pressure)

No more stress

No more pain

No more clown world

Hair loss

Can’t cope getting old

I have no friends

I’m miserable

Life is mundane (everyday feels the same)

There’s nothing to look forward to

I have no friends man, I alienated everyone in my town so they hate me. I love self destructing my life so I can feel something other than this perpetual blah feeling. My parents health is declining because there dumbasses and get the clot shot besides that my mom shes really mentally ill and never sees a doctor or brushes her teeth like she has foot of tar in mouth so you can obviously tell what's gonna happen there and she smokes a shit ton. Everyone is dropping like flies in my family, especially the ones who got the covid shot. I have nothing to my name absolutely nothing, not even my social security that's controlled by my dad now. I can't get a job because of my akathisia and dystonia caused by fucking psychiatry and I'm watching my brother move on with a smoking hot girlfriend. It's all crashing down on me at once. I'm just waiting to have heart attack man it's so fucked I feel you, I feel for all you. I wish could help all you guys I really feel for you. Makes me fucking sad watching men suffer like this, society is fucked. Not to mention the direction the country is going it scares me pretty bad.

 

[SilverBullet]

I want to rope 24/7, not exaggerating. I just accept the pain, physically and mentally, so it doesn’t affect me too much. I spend my days with shitty copes, and once you accept this world is meaningless, you pass it by doing dumb shit. What’s their to give effort to? A worthless job? The only way to forget about roping is to accept the reality and distract yourself

 

[xhainsawe]

Life is truly sucks and it must be extremely hard to be isolated and constantly in boredom, I remember having no irl friends for like three years and it was horrible i don’t know how i made it out. A way to help you stop roping and stop the negative thoughts is by making it positive thoughts. Giving yourself life goals like career/passion wise that take about five years to complete is useful because if you feel like roping you redirect your thoughts into something beneficial acting as a motivation tool to help you get better, forcing you to work towards your goal, leading to you getting more money so surgery so ascension. This may be useful idk it depends if you’re open minded enough…But it keeps you alive for five more years where perhaps you ascend, reaching your goals or if you don’t then you can kys and you can die peacefully/guiltfree knowing there was no hope for you as you waited out the five years.

 

[estonia2k]

Need some help/advice. I’ve been having suicidal thoughts/ thinking about roping. I don’t know what to do to keep those thoughts at bay. I made a list of why I should rope and why I shouldn’t.
Here is why I should rope. My list for why I shouldn’t is tiny. I don’t care about women anymore it’s just living in peak clown world is getting to me.

Stop health problems (anxiety , high blood pressure)

No more stress

No more pain

No more clown world

Hair loss

Can’t cope getting old

I have no friends

I’m miserable

Life is mundane (everyday feels the same)

There’s nothing to look forward to

give yourself more time to make that decision. The thing that I remember is I always could do it, but not yet.

 

[suicidecase]

Be grateful you're just *thinking* about suicide. It gets real when you're feeling like you have to commit suicide, just to relieve the physical pain.

 

[DutchCel01]

Do you have anything in life you are excited for? Is there something when you wake up that makes you excited? It can be small things

 

[boneless goblin]

I get these thoughts once a month and I just cry and just rot and eat alot.
Then if I'm alone, I'd just go back home cuz I live in a college dorm.
spend a few days at home and just come back.
Helps a bit.

 

[athousandwishes]

I just keep on suffering because of psych meds too. I can't believe Doctors are allowed to disable you permanently.

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Be grateful you're just *thinking* about suicide. It gets real when you're feeling like you have to commit suicide, just to relieve the physical pain.

I've came so close to ending it various times in my life. I'm not the kind who would just overdose on painkillers and call it a suicide attempt either. Funny how we can actually do it any time of our choosing. I could do in in 5 minutes if I wanted to

I relate a lot to the physical pain thing as someone with serious health issues. The sickness alone made me want to finish myself off many time in my life when it was less mangaged

 

[Fantasea]

I have no respect for Neets. What’s the point of sitting around doing nothing. It’s the same as being dead. Fucking pathetic leeching off us incels that actually contribute. Then you complain about being useless Neets lol. Either shut up or rope

I make 80k a year and have a house. With good copes and escortmaxing. Being a neet is pathetic

Lol they’re just pathetic. I’ll enjoy my house with my good copes while escortmaxing

 

[メンヘラ]

I can't properly help you but I will share what's helping me: find something you enjoy, no matter how little it is. It could be petting a cat, watching the sunset or eating foods you like, at long as it brings you joy, even in a minimal amount, you have at least something to long for.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

thinking about roping

can relate

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I can relate to that. My mind is plagued by these thoughts almost every hour of the day, and the truth is, it's merely a natural reaction to the intolerable circumstances of my life. Despite that, I remain too fearful to take any drastic action, at least for now. And I will be honest brother, there is no meaning to our lives or an ultimate reason to go on—it's futile. But you must not forget—they want you gone. Don't give them what they want. Cope until you have no other option but to rope.

 

[nzth]

no advice, i am going through same myself, nothing to look foward to and so many fuck ups in my life i would have killed myself on my worst one if it wasnt bc i had no drugs.

I honestly just cope, i drink alone and pop pills to endure my reality, if you ever decide to do it, at least live fully free for a time before you do it, i will do that if i cant with life anymore

 

[Emba]

You need a fuzzy puppy

 

[Poindexter]

Just try and distract yourself as much as possible it’s a temporary solution but worked for me for a bit.

Just don’t give into those thoughts. you’ll fail 99% of the time and you’ll be in more pain, trust me I know from experience

 

[Unhingedcel]

I just keep on suffering because of psych meds too. I can't believe Doctors are allowed to disable you permanently.

Jews ruined my dick and i have no recourse

 

[reveries]

If there's a way to hardmaxx your life (say, you have a decent looks base and can be a normie or better with surgeries, or an unresolved health issue getting rid of which would improve everything) then you have to try it first.

If no such things, use the best, most fitting for you copes you can find, to distract yourself. Also there's hope for technology fixing a lot of our problems in a probably not very distant feature, I'd keep living at least for that.

 

[athousandwishes]

Jews ruined my dick and i have no recourse

Permanently?

 

[Unhingedcel]

Permanently?

yes

 

[Leon98]

Truthfully I don't know. The way I was able to get past my suicidal thoughts was surrounding myself with as many copes as possible. I usually play video games for 30 minutes to an hour and then switch to building legos for 30 mins to an hour while watching movies, then go back to video games and repeat this process. This way I don't get bored, and this way I'm never thinking about the shit that makes me want to kill myself. I don't know if this helps but I hope it can.

I can relate to that. My mind is plagued by these thoughts almost every hour of the day, and the truth is, it's merely a natural reaction to the intolerable circumstances of my life. Despite that, I remain too fearful to take any drastic action, at least for now. And I will be honest brother, there is no meaning to our lives or an ultimate reason to go on—it's futile. But you must not forget—they want you gone. Don't give them what they want. Cope until you have no other option but to rope.

no advice, i am going through same myself, nothing to look foward to and so many fuck ups in my life i would have killed myself on my worst one if it wasnt bc i had no drugs.

I honestly just cope, i drink alone and pop pills to endure my reality, if you ever decide to do it, at least live fully free for a time before you do it, i will do that if i cant with life anymore

 

[メンヘラ]

there is no meaning to our lives or an ultimate reason to go on

That's what I can't understand, why people keep living when they realize life has no meaning at all, or why they don't simply rope after having their normalfag-tier saddest moment on life. I mean, I don't know why I just don't rope myself yet

 

[Mistake]

can relate

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

That's what I can't understand, why people keep living when they realize life has no meaning at all, or why they don't simply rope after having their normalfag-tier saddest moment on life. I mean, I don't know why I just don't rope myself yet

It's because we, as biological beings, have an intrinsic desire to live and to fulfill our biological imperative to propagate our genes. It is oftentimes illogical, but be that as it may—it's an instinct wired into us. Besides, although life has no inherent meaning, I believe the approach of existentialism and active nihilism is the best one; it's up to us to find our own personal meaning. Yes, life is meaningless and nonexistence may be superior, but we must not fall into passivity and despair, even if it may be difficult—especially for an incel.

 

[negativexp]

I am in the same situation. The advice in this article helped, even though of it is super cringe and typical normie advice.
I guess the solution is to focus on making your current moment better rather than focusing on your life as a whole, it is much more easier. Anyways, wish you luck.

 

[athousandwishes]

That's what I can't understand, why people keep living when they realize life has no meaning at all, or why they don't simply rope after having their normalfag-tier saddest moment on life. I mean, I don't know why I just don't rope myself yet

Because the fear of failure is strong and being worse off than before is also scary. Also things could always turn around for the better maybe

 

[VeryNiceGuy]

Too many GrEYs lives in pain