Need help for my anxiety!

[neet]

As you my know I´m now trying to socialise with people however I still have a lot anxiety to cold approach. The probem is that I never get approached leaing to social isolation.

Please give me some support how to overcome this anxiety.

I have already took 3 beers but now so exausted that I had to sleep a hour in the Mcdonalds. Now trying to get my head clear, drinking coffee.


Hard word, hard work....

 

[Deleted member 6470]

Be above average, they'd do all the work.

 

[TheSecondComing]

Have you tried not being genetically inferior?

 

[Blacktarpill]

Its a hard thing to do tbh.

 

[neet]

I´m seriously thinking to quit alcohol since the anxiety suppression it limited and makes me soo tired all the time.

 

[Player]

I´m seriously thinking to quit alcohol since the anxiety suppression it limited and makes me soo tired all the time.

Alcohol is a major depressant and you use it to fight anxiety... You need to choice something.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

I´m seriously thinking to quit alcohol since the anxiety suppression it limited and makes me soo tired all the time.

I am down the same road, haven't touched alcohol for a week or so and my mood is already better, I am more energetic etc.

 

[seija]

You should stop drinking alcohol, it doesn't help with anxiety. If you still want to do drugs, just smoke some weed.

 

[HighTGymcel]

try ritalin

 

[KingOfRome]

Maybe there's a reason you're uncomfortable with cold approaching. A good one. One you can find with a quick look in a mirror.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

Why do people still cold approach? Cold approach is dead it only works if you are good looking or a Youtuber filming an approach video because if it fails they can always say "the camera is over there it´s for youtube" and the girl will be laughing haha yes you can use this on Youtube now I will be a celebrity.

 

[Mystic]

Be above average, they'd do all the work.

 

[FinnCel]

My experience of anxiety is that I think people care about me.
They don't.
They won't even remember you in a week or two.
Just go and approach

 

[neet]

https://incels.is/threads/incel-frustration-fuel.124413/

As you may know the primary reason why I travel now is an attempt to meet girls (and losing my virginity). If I still home and doing nothing will never change my situation. Now I can tell people that I take effort and risks, but that the competition if tough as hell... as weaker person to win the battle.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I’m in the same boat as you. I’m very anxious when it comes to foids

 

[Incline]

Don't ask me if I knew I wouldn't be here.

 

[neet]

You should stop drinking alcohol, it doesn't help with anxiety. If you still want to do drugs, just smoke some weed.

True, I was thinking to supress my anxiety with alcohol and then doing some daygame like these PUA guys what you see on loads of youtube videos. But the reality is that even with alcohol and some benzo stuff I still have approach anxiety.

Approach is the frist step, so even when I have the balls to approach I need to learn how to hold an conversation. So yeah, still a loooong way to go.

 

[ihaveno1]

i've been trying to find out the answer to this question as well, my conclusions is that there is no cure, jewpills and alchohol have done nothing for me

 

[neet]

The problem with daygame is that using alcohol in the daytime is a major DLV, while most people are not really in for a talk. I think going to a pub or nightclub is a better solution it you want quick sex. But you see much more direct competition and require different skills than daygame.

What I hate about nightgame is that it is too much about alcohol and shit up my sleep pattern.

 

[Braincel14w]

I guess practice is the only way to get better at anything. There is not much hope if you are below 5/10.
I am in a similar boat. I went on holiday alone and went out to some bars. I feel like I am an alien in normy world. No foid even glanced at me the whole time there were too many gl guys around all energetic, being loud and having fun. I was invisible and too anxious to even think about approaching anyone.

 

[acnescarcel]

3 beers? slept in a mcdonald’s? u need like 8 shots back to back to become low inhib

 

[ElliotRodgerGod]

cold approach doesn't work if you aren't chad, so there is no point in trying to decrease your anxiety.

 

[Deleted member 10150]

ITS OVER