Based "My wife stopped having sex with me so I stopped doing things for her"

[Oneitiscel]

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Every time I bring it up, she says she's too tired or not in the mood or that i make her feel pressured by even bringing it up.

So about a year ago, I just… stopped. Stopped doing the little things I used to do for her, making coffee in the morning, leaving notes, fixing things right away, giving her massages, planning surprises. I still pull my weight with chores and the kids, but the “extras” felt pointless when I’m basically being treated like a platonic roommate.

Now she’s upset that I’ve “changed” and that I’m “not as loving anymore.” I told her straight up that love feels different when it’s one-sided. She says I’m punishing her for not having sex with me, and maybe she’s right, but I’m also just tired of feeling rejected over and over.

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[FastBlast]

I bet this guy feels superior to us. His wife won't touch him but least he's not incel, right?

 

[FEMCELS FANTASY]

I bet this guy feels superior to us. His wife won't touch him but least he's not incel, right?

lol yup.

R/deadbedrooms

 

[Angry_runt]

I bet this guy feels superior to us. His wife won't touch him but least he's not incel, right?

If he ever had a girlfriend, he's had a superior life experience. Almost everybody becomes an incel if they live long enough.

 

[ItsOverMan]

The Bible commands women to not withhold sex from their husbands.

1 Corinthians 7:5 (New Testament): "Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won't be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control."

Interpretation: "The verse clearly states that withholding sex should only be done with mutual agreement between husband and wife."

 

[chalk son]

shit dhit shit i read as ‘mom stopped having sex with me’

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Many, many such cases. He's among the few being proactive about his dead bedroom, at least.

This will be your fate if you're not the most attractive man she feels she can get, and maybe even if you are.

 

[Antorian]

Wives dont have the right to withold sex from their husbands unless its for explicitly health reasons.

 

[LastGerman]

The comments are so cucked. Just look at this:

FuRadicus
•vor 16 Tagen


Bro, counseling. You're trapped in a circle of resentment. You both need to figure out the root cause for her lack of libido and she needs to be made aware of how hurt you are without intimacy.

Why is he trapped in a "circle of resentment"? The female started it. She is using coitus as a weapaon. She is the one holding resentment towards the man. Why is nobody pointing that out?

Sp1cy_Wat3r
•vor 16 Tagen


Hey your wife isn’t a sex vending machine that you put a good deed in and then get laid in return. You should be making her coffee because you love her and appreciate her and know it helps her with her day.
Are you only helping her out with the kids and the house and the many other things, the mental load, to get some or are you doing it as her partner without expecting something in return. Because… she doesn’t owe you anything for you pulling equal weight in the home.

Is this real? Are those people real? This is not what someone real would say or even think. This has to come from another female, by a cuck or is generated by an AI. @GeckoBus made a good post recently, talking about how everything seems to be generated by AI. This comment sounds like it is generated by an AI, same goes for most comments there. We hear those sentences over and over again. The comment turns the female into a victim for some reason and blames the man. The comment gives the typical response of "she doesn't owe you anything". So, the man does not owe her anything as well. He does not have to fix anything anymore if he does not want to. Simple as that. But for some reason, that is not ok.

It is not the man having resentment, no, not at all. It is the female who started it, having resentment towards the man.

Overthinker-bells
•vor 16 Tagen•Bearbeitet vor 16 Tagen
Was married for 18years.


I stopped reading at

even helping more around the house.

You don’t help. You do your part. That’s the problem with some husbands. They think we owe them something because they “helped”. That’s you doing your share.

Now someone claims, that he does not help. Help with what? Also look at him "Was married for 18 years."
This comment has 758 likes. Someone else replied to it:

deadrabbits76
•vor 16 Tagen

Care to comment on her attitude towards sex and the role it plays in a healthy romantic relationship?

This comment has 275 dislikes.

What is going on? Why is it not ok, to even address her attitude towards not having coitus? Her attitude of not having coitus with HER MAN. She refuses him coitus. She is witholding it from him. I legit do not understand this. People in the comment section see him as the one wh odid something wrong, yet he did not even do anything. The female started it. She is witholding coitus from him. She is using it as a weapon.

I could copy a lot of more comments. Basically, 99% of the comments are blaming the man.

 

[hatepilledandrich]

The comments are so cucked. Just look at this:



Why is he trapped in a "circle of resentment"? The female started it. She is using coitus as a weapaon. She is the one holding resentment towards the man. Why is nobody pointing that out?



Is this real? Are those people real? This is not what someone real would say or even think. This has to come from another female, by a cuck or is generated by an AI. @GeckoBus made a good post recently, talking about how everything seems to be generated by AI. This comment sounds like it is generated by an AI, same goes for most comments there. We hear those sentences over and over again. The comment turns the female into a victim for some reason and blames the man. The comment gives the typical response of "she doesn't owe you anything". So, the man does not owe her anything as well. He does not have to fix anything anymore if he does not want to. Simple as that. But for some reason, that is not ok.

It is not the man having resentment, no, not at all. It is the female who started it, having resentment towards the man.



Now someone claims, that he does not help. Help with what? Also look at him "Was married for 18 years."
This comment has 758 likes. Someone else replied to it:



This comment has 275 dislikes.

What is going on? Why is it not ok, to even address her attitude towards not having coitus? Her attitude of not having coitus with HER MAN. She refuses him coitus. She is witholding it from him. I legit do not understand this. People in the comment section see him as the one wh odid something wrong, yet he did not even do anything. The female started it. She is witholding coitus from him. She is using it as a weapon.

I could copy a lot of more comments. Basically, 99% of the comments are blaming the man.

They don't see men as humans with needs. Just a slave that needs to sacrifice for nothing.

 

[Pikacel]

Seems like ragebait

 

[AdolfRizzler]

I bet this guy feels superior to us. His wife won't touch him but least he's not incel, right?

They don't see men as humans with needs. Just a slave that needs to sacrifice for nothing.

 

[Grodd]

I bet this guy feels superior to us. His wife won't touch him but least he's not incel, right?

 

[Grodd]

Betabuxx deluxe

 

[Kanga]

Betabuxx deluxe

 

[anon]

When your "wife" is not fucking you, she's definitely fucking someone else and that someone else is Chad. That guy is a pathetic cuck.

 

[WeirdoDesperado]

Criminalizing marital rape was a huge mistake. Boomers got to enjoy from it being legal too, at least where I live. Men still endure being cucked because of their material assets and fear of having a taste of our lives.