My whole life I have coped by daydreaming

[WheelsofConfusion]

I have wasted my entire life daydreaming about being someone else, having a girlfriend, being respected by other people. None of this will ever happen. As a result, I am an adult with no social or life skills. The only things I know are useless shit I learned at university and a moderate amount of guitar but not enough to be taken seriously by anyone. I have no other life skills at all. If I am ever in a group of people I am unable to contribute to the conversation at all because I have no life experience. I feel like this is going to go on until I die. I am stuck in limbo and nothing will ever change.

 

[Deleted member 16624]

Used to do this.I still slip into those moments,just fewer times.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

I have been doing this a lot all my life , But i'm still a youngcel

 

[Deleted member 818]

Same. I always imagined myself having a group of friends when I barely had any.

 

[zangano1]

Same, it's good cope

 

[boringcel]

It is normal for an incel. Maybe not very benefitial, though.

 

[TheIncredibleIncel]

I understand. You can't relate to the people around you so end up even more in solitude.

 

[Manlet subhuman]

Daydreaming is all I have left.

 

[AntiPain]

I relate to the daydreaming part
better than reality

 

[Deleted member 21504]

The only things I know are useless shit I learned at university and a moderate amount of guitar

Lmao, based

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Maladaptive daydreaming they call it. It's a coping mechanism, surprised it has only been recognized recently.

 

[Wettinghose]

Have been doing this for over 35 years Nd of course I have a loving Hapa waifu, am financially independent in my dream

 

[Deleted member 19546]

When I was a child I used to daydream massively, hours and hours. Half my waking day was daydreaming.

Now It's impossible, especially after taking he blackpill I can't even fantasize about what I want, I can't suspend disbelief.

 

[zombie]

I also spent my life daydreaming... about dragons, magic, wars, characters and adventures.

 

[Gymcelled]

When I was a child I used to daydream massively, hours and hours. Half my waking day was daydreaming.

Now It's impossible, especially after taking he blackpill I can't even fantasize about what I want, I can't suspend disbelief.

I used to day dream about having a decent looking, loyal and loving gf.

Nowadays I can't imagine anyone wanting to be around me. Even just cuddling or hugging has become such an absurd thought that my mind can't conjure that when I'm day dreaming.