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Cope My Social Anxiety

Clownworldcell

Clownworldcell

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most people don’t seem to care when I make arrangements for people to hang out with me. I’m aware that the way people don’t come to me is beyond my control yet what’s beyond my control still brings misery in to my life. I don’t want to control what’s beyond my control cause it’s pointless. Some other guy I know will make arrangements for people to hang out and everyone will follow him like a pack of sheep when it’s me trying to invite people it’s like no one will come over to see me. I’m just feeling lonely and I fear being socially excluded. The people who get excluded to easily aren’t all that bad while people who are worse than them seem to get kept in groups. My loneliness isn’t that bad I’ve still got places I can go to hang out for social interactions.
 
The people who get excluded to easily aren’t all that bad while people who are worse than them seem to get kept in groups.
it's better to be good looking evil asshole with a smile on your face than ugly nice guy
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people dont respect your time because you are a loser. You're only drifting by out of pity. In fact you are lucky to even be invited to anything at all. The second you try and assert yourself THEY WILL PUT YOU IN YOUR FUCKING PLACE-- remind you, that you literally have no capability whatsoever to make a genuine friend all by yourself
 
I am 28, have strong social anxiety, had my last IRL friend at around 13. I try to avoid going outside (when I can avoid it) bc I'm so self-conscious and want to avoid negative reactions.
 
It's brutal that even when you act in good faith and genuinely try you still have to struggle like that. This is the war of all against all of the modern world. Despite the timid attempts i made, they were enough to give me a foretaste of that bullshit and i want none of it.
 

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