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My parents think working should be my biggest way of coping, alongside some hobbies

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No girlfriend, no part-time working (otherwise we'll disown you and no financial support, also no inheritance). They strongly imply: work a Full-time job, that's your life and cope, accept it. Maybe some hobbies that will make your life complete, but you have no right to want a girlfriend.
 
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No girlfriend, no part-time working (otherwise we'll disown you and no financial support). They strongly imply: work a Full-time job, that's your life and cope, accept it. Maybe some hobbies that will make your life complete, but you have no right to want a girlfriend.
They would disown u for part time working? Working a job will subject u to more overthinking and anxiety from the people most likely depending on what job, if u are forced too, try and find a job that’s comfortable and not stressful and u will enjoy.
 
Just be a slave to society theory :lul:

Your parents are fucking retarded, but mine aren't better. They recently told me this retarded redpiller cope of accumulating money and then "it will just happen once you're in your 30s". Literally this meme:
Prime
 
Wagecucking for no reason is a fate worse then death.
 
Then let then disown you..
 
Mine are similar. While they are happy that i finally found a part time job, my family ey expect me to get full time over time, they just want to drag you down to their level and want you to be as miserable wagies as them. They hate that you have more free time than them
 
Mine are similar. While they are happy that i finally found a part time job, my family ey expect me to get full time over time, they just want to drag you down to their level and want you to be as miserable wagies as them. They hate that you have more free time than them
Brutal... my dad is part-retired now and my mom just works the household but thing is I could afford to work like 30 hours per week but they say it's normal to work 42. They have implied that work will fulfill me -- and "it's better to work a job you don't like than to just sit around". Absolutely not
 
Brutal... my dad is part-retired now and my mom just works the household but thing is I could afford to work like 30 hours per week but they say it's normal to work 42. They have implied that work will fulfill me -- and "it's better to work a job you don't like than to just sit around". Absolutely not
brutal, your parents are straight up cruel and dont care about your well being at all
 
They would disown u for part time working? Working a job will subject u to more overthinking and anxiety from the people most likely depending on what job, if u are forced too, try and find a job that’s comfortable and not stressful and u will enjoy.
Exactly right... but they think differently.

They also demand I get a certain kind of job (office, because of my degree) but I have extreme social anxiety already bc of my looks. Thing is, they think the job will not only fulfill me but that I then don't want a girlfriend anymore (as in, he's an introvert so having a job would cause him to want time for himself --> no gf). Look I'm used to being alone, I've never had IRL friends really. Maybe one friend when I was 14, that lasted about 6 months.

Finally, my already anxious mind is now even more apprehensive. Their attitude is what bothers me, not taking me/my struggles and desires seriously and thinking I'm a machine -- who is NOT allowed to be depressed.
 
Brutal... my dad is part-retired now and my mom just works the household but thing is I could afford to work like 30 hours per week but they say it's normal to work 42. They have implied that work will fulfill me -- and "it's better to work a job you don't like than to just sit around". Absolutely not
Thats so unfair, it’s 12 hours difference and in a job u don’t like u will still overthink and be the same person and have the same mindset except u will just be slaving away and depending on the job, either get a disrespectful shitty boss or have to deal with douchebag customers
 
Then let then disown you..
Yes someday but not now, I can't live alone due to my autism/other diseases, the state has officially deemed me dependent. I was even offered a place in a institution for "special people"
 
Exactly right... but they think differently.

They also demand I get a certain kind of job (office, because of my degree) but I have extreme social anxiety already bc of my looks. Thing is, they think the job will not only fulfill me but that I then don't want a girlfriend anymore (as in, he's an introvert so having a job would cause him to want time for himself --> no gf). Look I'm used to being alone, I've never had IRL friends really. Maybe one friend when I was 14, that lasted about 6 months.

Finally, my already anxious mind is now even more apprehensive. Their attitude is what bothers me, not taking me/my struggles and desires seriously and thinking I'm a machine -- who is NOT allowed to be depressed.
Im so sorry for u bro, idk why parents don’t understand that anxiety coz of looks is serious. Also if u don’t mind how old are u? Coz if ur younger than 30, then u should just tell them a majority of poeple are unemployed, so you doing 30 hours is still amazing
 
Thats so unfair, it’s 12 hours difference and in a job u don’t like u will still overthink and be the same person and have the same mindset except u will just be slaving away and depending on the job, either get a disrespectful shitty boss or have to deal with douchebag customers
Exactly bro, smart. Please tell that to my parents , they won't listen to me. But yeah my point to them is, I can't get a gf so I want to work less, they think you can't get a gf so you have to work "normally" and just be happy with that and copes.
 
Exactly bro, smart. Please tell that to my parents , they won't listen to me. But yeah my point to them is, I can't get a gf so I want to work less, they think you can't get a gf so you have to work "normally" and just be happy with that and copes.
I genuinely don’t understand their logic, surely working extra time won’t make u want a gf less or help with depression and anxiety
 
Im so sorry for u bro, idk why parents don’t understand that anxiety coz of looks is serious. Also if u don’t mind how old are u? Coz if ur younger than 30, then u should just tell them a majority of poeple are unemployed, so you doing 30 hours is still amazing
Thanks man. Oh wait I wasnt' clear. I'm not working at all atm. I'm studying online/remote until start of November. The 30 hours is just what I want. Or 31-32 is also fine lol
 
I genuinely don’t understand their logic, surely working extra time won’t make u want a gf less or help with depression and anxiety
:yes:
 
Sounds more like the government than parents
 
You'll have more money to buy copes, thats the only good thing about wage slaving. Outside of that, it just made me more miserable.
 
Just be a slave to society theory :lul:

Your parents are fucking retarded, but mine aren't better. They recently told me this retarded redpiller cope of accumulating money and then "it will just happen once you're in your 30s". Literally this meme:
View attachment 1541579
:feelshaha: :feelsautistic: lol similar here -- by it will just happen, do they mean a girlfriend?
 
You'll have more money to buy copes, thats the only good thing about wage slaving. Outside of that, it just made me more miserable.
true but thing is my dad inherited money from his parents and he gave me and my sister some but he said he will demand it back if I don't work full time. My mom also gave me some money she inherited from parents. Yeah I have these savings but I'm not rich. I could survive working part time and using up that money and I could afford a few copes but I'd just need to plan very well and I'd have nothing left in a few years.
 
:feelshaha: :feelsautistic: lol similar here -- by it will just happen, do they mean a girlfriend?
Yeah, they didn't have an answer when I told them that others just have to exist and not lift a finger to get one :feelshaha:
 
Yeah, they didn't have an answer when I told them that others just have to exist and not lift a finger to get one :feelshaha:
Do we have the same parents? I'm 28 but I've been telling them this for years, they kinda evade the question but yeah... basically 2 things are true. They never thought and still don't think, that I can get a girlfriend. And two, they think I should and will eventually grow out of wanting a girlfriend, like a good boy.
 
Wagecucking for no reason is a fate worse then death.
yes, that's what they don't get. I'd be more ok to work full time if I had a loving gf.

Yet at the same time, they tell me having a gf is MORE expensive than being single. They too are sure I can never have a gf.

So wouldn't that kind of mean I could afford to work less than full-time? If according to them, a gf would cost me more money than being single (I guess that's true but their logic isnt right).
 
Mine are similar. While they are happy that i finally found a part time job, my family ey expect me to get full time over time, they just want to drag you down to their level and want you to be as miserable wagies as them. They hate that you have more free time than them
Exactly what it is. After my parents "retired" or at least stopped working, immediately they changed and were accepting of my autismbux situation when they used to do the bitter wagie "good people work work work work" bullshit.
 
Exactly what it is. After my parents "retired" or at least stopped working, immediately they changed and were accepting of my autismbux situation when they used to do the bitter wagie "good people work work work work" bullshit.
Interesting, because my dad is semi-retired and my mom was always a "housewife." And they have enough money. For them it's just about the "principle".
 
Just be a slave to society theory :lul:

Your parents are fucking retarded, but mine aren't better. They recently told me this retarded redpiller cope of accumulating money and then "it will just happen once you're in your 30s". Literally this meme:
View attachment 1541579
caged at the image

if it never happened in your prime years it’ll never happen at all
 
yes, that's what they don't get. I'd be more ok to work full time if I had a loving gf.

Yet at the same time, they tell me having a gf is MORE expensive than being single. They too are sure I can never have a gf.

So wouldn't that kind of mean I could afford to work less than full-time? If according to them, a gf would cost me more money than being single (I guess that's true but their logic isnt right).
Women will take all of your money, so really not having a gf is a plus.

Don't work harder then you need to brocel :feelsYall:
 
Arbeit ist der Götze der Normie-Deutschen, und sie lieben es Arbeitslose zu beschämen und zu beschimpfen. Darum konnte die Elite dieses Volk und Land auch dermaßen gut ausplündern. Der Deutsche hilft bei seiner Abschaffung noch fleißig mit. Lol irgendso ein Typ, der ein Politikforum betrieb, meinte mal: "Mit diesem Volk lässt sich kein lebenswertes Land (mehr) errichten, sondern bloß ein Arbeitslager mit Bundesliga." (Und Totalüberwachung, weil brave, obrigkeitshörige Lemminge es lieben, wenn sie sich gegenseitig denunzieren können).
 
Sounds more like the government than parents
Most Germans are obedient to authority, they're happy slaves. Work is their idol. Even though it is used to finance their downfall and feed millions of shitskins/rapefugees, etc.
Because the most important thing for many Germans is that you're not an unemployed scumbag. That's part of the mentality of this people. Adolf H. used it for something productive, and ultimately, this mentality is the reason for their tremendous rise within a few years.
However, German hard work can also be used against themselves, because they often place work and obedience to the system above much more important values.
 
Yet at the same time, they tell me having a gf is MORE expensive than being single.
They're actually right on that point. However, you're too deformed to become a betabuxxer, and even average-looking men are often treated like dirt by foids when they take on the betabuxxer role.
If I were you, the most I'd earn money for is some copes or the opportunity to live alone and get away from such parents who bore me with bluepill stuff.
One thing I can tell you at 36 is that you'll eventually come to terms with your fate. At least, that's how it is for me. And when certain longings arise again, I'll just watch the madness of modern foids for a bit, and then I'll be "cured" again.
 
Arbeit ist der Götze der Normie-Deutschen, und sie lieben es Arbeitslose zu beschämen und zu beschimpfen. Darum konnte die Elite dieses Volk und Land auch dermaßen gut ausplündern. Der Deutsche hilft bei seiner Abschaffung noch fleißig mit. Lol irgendso ein Typ, der ein Politikforum betrieb, meinte mal: "Mit diesem Volk lässt sich kein lebenswertes Land (mehr) errichten, sondern bloß ein Arbeitslager mit Bundesliga." (Und Totalüberwachung, weil brave, obrigkeitshörige Lemminge es lieben, wenn sie sich gegenseitig denunzieren können).
Genau. Ich könnte es nicht besser sagen! Sie sind beide sehr deutsch. Wir leben zwar in der Schweiz, wo die Leute ähnlich denken, aber bei den Abgaben nicht so ausgenommen werden wie eine Weihnachtsgans (nicht in der NATO/EU, weniger Auslandshilfe, weniger Flüchtlinge pro Einwohner).

Ich gelte halbwegs offiziell als behindert und wurde auch schon von der separaten "Behinderten"-Sozialversicherung anerkannt. Ich fühle mich hier sicherer (die meisten Einwanderer sind Europäer) und könnte mit einem normalen Job mehr sparen als in Deutschland. Aber so einen Job werde ich wohl nie haben.

In Deutschland ist es etwas einfacher, Bürgergeld zu bekommen, deshalb werde ich sehr wahrscheinlich irgendwann zurückkommen. Hier könnte ich zwar auch Bürgergeld beziehen und entweder gar nicht arbeiten oder nur Teilzeit, aber die Hürden sind hier höher.

Deine Meinung?

They're actually right on that point. However, you're too deformed to become a betabuxxer, and even average-looking men are often treated like dirt by foids when they take on the betabuxxer role.
If I were you, the most I'd earn money for is some copes or the opportunity to live alone and get away from such parents who bore me with bluepill stuff.
One thing I can tell you at 36 is that you'll eventually come to terms with your fate. At least, that's how it is for me. And when certain longings arise again, I'll just watch the madness of modern foids for a bit, and then I'll be "cured" again.
Das hab’ ich zwar noch nicht ganz "gelernt", aber hoffentlich kann ich bald so denken. Ich bin 28 und was mich seit ca. 1 Jahr mehr stört, als keine Freundin zu haben, ist wie die Leute auf mich reagieren. Egal wo ich bin, egal in welchem Land, in welchem Dorf oder in welcher Stadt, die Leute reagieren immer gleich.

Ich will nicht schon wieder nerven, weil ich immer das Gleiche sage, aber ich kann nicht mal aus dem Fenster schauen, wenn das Licht an ist – dann rufen irgendwelche Jugendliche, die genau in dem Moment mit dem Fahrrad vorbeifahren und hochschauen (ich hab immer totales Pech... weil meine Schwester genau in diesem Moment das Licht im Gang anmacht, etwas über mein Gesicht, sodass es die ganze Nachbarschaft hört. Solche Sachen stören mich viel mehr, als keine Freundin zu haben, was mich natürlich auch stört. Aber ich werd' versuchen, mehr so zu denken wie du.
 
Most Germans are obedient to authority, they're happy slaves. Work is their idol. Even though it is used to finance their downfall and feed millions of shitskins/rapefugees, etc.
Because the most important thing for many Germans is that you're not an unemployed scumbag. That's part of the mentality of this people. Adolf H. used it for something productive, and ultimately, this mentality is the reason for their tremendous rise within a few years.
However, German hard work can also be used against themselves, because they often place work and obedience to the system above much more important values.
:yes: :yes: :yes:
 
Deine Meinung?
Meine Meinung? Versuch lieber in der Schweiz Fuß zu fassen und spare Dir das deutsche Bürgergeldsystem. Was willst Du in einem Vierte-Welt-Land, das vielleicht bald völlig zusammenbricht oder sich im Krieg befindet? Am Ende schicken sie Dich noch an die Front. Oder Du gerätst zwischen die Fronten, wenn die Shitskins hier die Revolution und Einführung der Scharia starten.
Ich weiß nicht, wann uns der Laden hier um die Ohren fliegt. Das kann schneller gehen, als viele glauben. So wie zum Beispiel damals bei Covid. Wer hätte im Herbst oder Winter gedacht, dass wir wenige Monate später im totalen Klodown sitzen und alle zu Maskenmännern mutieren sollen für die nächsten zwei, drei Jahre?


Das hab’ ich zwar noch nicht ganz "gelernt", aber hoffentlich kann ich bald so denken. Ich bin 28 und was mich seit ca. 1 Jahr mehr stört, als keine Freundin zu haben, ist wie die Leute auf mich reagieren. Egal wo ich bin, egal in welchem Land, in welchem Dorf oder in welcher Stadt, die Leute reagieren immer gleich.
Ja, das ist wirklich beschissen und darum musst Du die Sache realistisch sehen. Auch wenn es hart ist. Ich hätte sowas vor zehn Jahren auch nicht hören wollen.

Ich will nicht schon wieder nerven, weil ich immer das Gleiche sage, aber ich kann nicht mal aus dem Fenster schauen, wenn das Licht an ist – dann rufen irgendwelche Jugendliche, die genau in dem Moment mit dem Fahrrad vorbeifahren und hochschauen (ich hab immer totales Pech... weil meine Schwester genau in diesem Moment das Licht im Gang anmacht, etwas über mein Gesicht, sodass es die ganze Nachbarschaft hört. Solche Sachen stören mich viel mehr, als keine Freundin zu haben, was mich natürlich auch stört. Aber ich werd' versuchen, mehr so zu denken wie du.
Das ist einfach nur brutal. Ich hätte mich vermutlich in meinem Zimmer eingeschlossen und wäre nie wieder herausgekommen und wenn sie es mit Gewalt versucht hätten, mich rauszuholen, wäre ich ausgerastet.
Einfach nur brutal.. :feelscry:
 
Meine Meinung? Versuch lieber in der Schweiz Fuß zu fassen und spare Dir das deutsche Bürgergeldsystem. Was willst Du in einem Vierte-Welt-Land, das vielleicht bald völlig zusammenbricht oder sich im Krieg befindet? Am Ende schicken sie Dich noch an die Front. Oder Du gerätst zwischen die Fronten, wenn die Shitskins hier die Revolution und Einführung der Scharia starten.
Ich weiß nicht, wann uns der Laden hier um die Ohren fliegt. Das kann schneller gehen, als viele glauben. So wie zum Beispiel damals bei Covid. Wer hätte im Herbst oder Winter gedacht, dass wir wenige Monate später im totalen Klodown sitzen und alle zu Maskenmännern mutieren sollen für die nächsten zwei, drei Jahre?



Ja, das ist wirklich beschissen und darum musst Du die Sache realistisch sehen. Auch wenn es hart ist. Ich hätte sowas vor zehn Jahren auch nicht hören wollen
Danke dir mal wieder! :feelsYall: Den Krieg, ein mögliches Einberufen und dass es vielleicht bald knallt, hab ich für einen Moment vergessen.

Das ist einfach nur brutal. Ich hätte mich vermutlich in meinem Zimmer eingeschlossen und wäre nie wieder herausgekommen und wenn sie es mit Gewalt versucht hätten, mich rauszuholen, wäre ich ausgerastet.
Einfach nur brutal.. :feelscry:
Das ist genau dann passiert, als ich gerade dabei war, meine Antwort an dich zu verfassen.
 
Danke dir mal wieder! :feelsYall: Den Krieg, ein mögliches Einberufen und dass es vielleicht bald knallt, hab ich für einen Moment vergessen.
Ja, wer weiß, wie lange es hier überhaupt noch was gibt. Am Ende bist Du im totalen Chaos, weil die Regale leer sind und der Euro nur noch als Toilettenpapier taugt. Hyperinflation. Was nützt da noch Bürgergeld?
Vielleicht bleibt die Schweiz mal wieder halbwegs verschont, wie damals (?)
Neutralität und Schweizer Franken retten euch den Arsch. Lol
Oder Du kannst Dich in den Bergen besser verstecken.
Das ist genau dann passiert, als ich gerade dabei war, meine Antwort an dich zu verfassen.
Habt ihr denn keine Rollläden?
Bevor ich hier das Licht einschalte, lass ich die immer runter. Ich kann das auch nicht ertragen, wenn jemand reinglotzen kann. Oder wenn die Sonne reinscheint und es mich zu sehr blendet.
 
I was even offered a place in a institution for "special people"
Would you consider this? I think I'd take it over being forced to work tons of hours at a job I hate.
 
Brutal. At some point unless they are very rich it might be worth just to cut losses?
 
Ja, wer weiß, wie lange es hier überhaupt noch was gibt. Am Ende bist Du im totalen Chaos, weil die Regale leer sind und der Euro nur noch als Toilettenpapier taugt. Hyperinflation. Was nützt da noch Bürgergeld?
Vielleicht bleibt die Schweiz mal wieder halbwegs verschont, wie damals (?)
Neutralität und Schweizer Franken retten euch den Arsch. Lol
Oder Du kannst Dich in den Bergen besser verstecken.
Stimmt … aber wenn’s den 3. Weltkrieg gibt wird's hier auch knallen. Vielleicht muss ich dann eher in einen Bunker in den Bergen, wie du sagtest.

Habt ihr denn keine Rollläden?
Bevor ich hier das Licht einschalte, lass ich die immer runter. Ich kann das auch nicht ertragen, wenn jemand reinglotzen kann. Oder wenn die Sonne reinscheint und es mich zu sehr blendet.
Doch, schon. Sie waren nicht unten, weil ich einfach nicht daran gedacht habe.

So wie ich am Schreibtisch sitze und wie der Tisch steht, kann man eigentlich von der Straße nicht reinschauen. Ich hörte draußen Geräusche, stand auf und streckte den Kopf etwa 40 cm nach vorne, um nach links rauszugucken. Dann ging das Licht im Flur an, und sie fuhren vorbei, drehten den Kopf um 90 Grad und schauten hoch. Hätte ich den Kopf nicht 40 cm nach vorne bewegt bzw. gar nicht rausgucken wollen, hätten die mich gar nicht gesehen. Also irgendwie hab ich mir das selber eingebrockt.
 
Brutal. At some point unless they are very rich it might be worth just to cut losses?
Well because of my autism and being semi-disabled due to my face, I also have extreme social appearance anxiety, I can't live alone at the moment. They are definitely not poor, and they own the house we live in, I likely lose some inheritance plus the house if I cut my losses plus atm I get lots of financial support from them because I don't work. But soon I need to find a job they said, I'm 28 and never really had a job, I only studied remotely.
 

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