RageFuel My only (online) friend soft-rejected me twice but complains about being lonely every few weeks

[Dregster]

Ok, I honestly didn't think of that. But we usually communicate asynchronously, so I am not sure that that is the actual reason.

You're coping bro

Let's see, recently she has been a bit more open to it. Maybe I can convince her in a few months.

She's bored. In the back of her head, she already knows that a meetup will never happen unless you're chadlite tier.

True, but I have the naive hope that one day we could live together. I know it's not a good option and the chances are high, but well, what am I supposed to do?

Make an effort to find someone irl who will actually give you what you most desire, because here with this faceless foid, aint it.

Likely true. But again, I cling to every straw, I think that's my right.

It is your right, but understand that us oldercels speak from experience, and can 99% guarantee that your time is 100% being wasted and nothing will ever happen out of this interaction.

She doesn't know how I look, so I don't think it's related to that. I actually also don't know how she looks. Maybe I should just send her a picture and see if I get ghosted, as usual. Before I concretely plan to travel to her I will definitely because I don't want to risk that she runs away screaming when she first sees me.

You will most likely get ghosted the second she sees your face. If she doesnt, you will notice an even greater withdraw of message exchanges and loss of interest to even continue her little attention whore charade.

What would you suggest? And I know it's a possibility, but like I said, I don't see other options.

I would be more direct and make an effort to exchange pictures. If she likes what she sees, she will make an actual effort to meet you and everything will run alot smoother for you.

If she doesnt like your face , you're cooked and wont have any options if you are a bonafide incel.

I mean, if I had lots of success dating I would not be here ...

Dont hold on to high hopes for this.

 

[Dregster]

He must be a troon, I had a similar story to you, Im destroyed at the moment

An even more devastating potential result, this thing could be a tranny/faggot who is as starved for affection as OP.

@SociallyStupid have you ever talked with this person over the phone ?

 

[Blackpill Monk]

Fakecel

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

If she is embarrassed to hang out with you IRL it's over, she is not your friend.

 

[ERfuel]

Don't get me wrong, I really like her and I am absolutely glad that I have her as friend. But still I think it's annoying that she complains about being lonely to me and I complain about being lonely to her and yet she rejects all my advances.

Rape her. Don’t stay her friend she will fuck Chad and u will be envious and suicidal.

 

[ThanostheGOAT]

I had exactly one (online) friend who sticked around me for a few months in the last 5 years and I lost him. She is the second one. Really, you probably have more luxury if you can afford to lose "many" friends.

Maybe. I hope that when we meet up then we can hug a bit, then cook and then I will ask if I can stay for a bit and maybe we can cuddle. But I would have no clue what to do anyway. How would I properly even go for a kiss? And when would the correct situation be?

Why do those online niggas always leave your ass online friends are fake asf anyway just send them a reel a day on insta and they’ll continue being your “friend”

 

[ThanostheGOAT]

She doesn't ghost me, but responds infrequently (about once per day), but that's completely fine for me, I do the same.

What do you mean with signs?

We talk about various stuff. About being lonely, about how society is unfair to people with autistic traits, about the expectations of society, about our goals, but also mundane stuff like what we ate, what we saw when outside etc.

But i gotta be honest here I advise you to stop talking to her, if she only responds once per day I doubt she actually even wants to talk to you, your better off cutting her off and spending your time alone but at peace, because sooner or later she will hurt you and you will regret not cutting her off earlier

 

[Dregster]

If she is embarrassed to hang out with you IRL it's over, she is not your friend.

This dumb nigger OP needs to confirm if he ever talked to her on a phone call

This retard is probably talking to a tranny for all we know

 

[Dregster]

Fakecel

Nah he's an idiot

The fact that he couldn't answer this question is all you need to know how much of an imbecile he is

@SociallyStupid have you ever talked with this person over the phone ?

 

[SociallyStupid]

Make an effort to find someone irl who will actually give you what you most desire, because here with this faceless foid, aint it.

IRL it's even harder, I cannot even make "normal" friends.

but understand that us oldercels speak from experience,

I'm old (>30) myself

You will most likely get ghosted the second she sees your face. If she doesnt, you will notice an even greater withdraw of message exchanges and loss of interest to even continue her little attention whore charade.

Yeah, another girl I showed my face to also slowly messaged me less and less. I think they don't even intentionally do it, they just associate more and more negative stuff to me the more often they look at my face.

I would be more direct and make an effort to exchange pictures. If she likes what she sees, she will make an actual effort to meet you and everything will run alot smoother for you.

If she doesnt like your face , you're cooked and wont have any options if you are a bonafide incel.

I might. Maybe what I will do is "randomly" include a mirror image of myself when I photograph something else. So I send a picture without actually sending it.

Dont hold on to high hopes for this.

I don't have high hopes.

@ @SociallyStupid have you ever talked with this person over the phone ?

No. I asked her once she didn't seem opposed but also didn't accept. But I'm still 90% sure she's not a troon.

If she is embarrassed to hang out with you IRL it's over, she is not your friend.

We don't live in the same country, so it's not that easy.

But i gotta be honest here I advise you to stop talking to her, if she only responds once per day I doubt she actually even wants to talk to you, your better off cutting her off and spending your time alone but at peace, because sooner or later she will hurt you and you will regret not cutting her off earlier

If I find someone better I might, but for now I don't really have anyone.

The fact that he couldn't answer this question is all you need to know how much of an imbecile he is

I just got interrupted when answering this post.

 

[trksm]

call her, if she is troon, she will refuse to make the call with all her might

 

[Ernst22]

Don't get me wrong, I really like her and I am absolutely glad that I have her as friend. But still I think it's annoying that she complains about being lonely to me and I complain about being lonely to her and yet she rejects all my advances.

how many times do orbiters need to be reminded?