RageFuel My only (online) friend soft-rejected me twice but complains about being lonely every few weeks

[ThanostheGOAT]

Idk about y’all but I had a similar situation with my looksmatch, anyway now I’m glad that it’s over and being alone is so much better than being with someone only pretending to like you, you may feel the same way in a few months

 

[SociallyStupid]

shes only sucking attention out of you.

I don't think so, she doesn't reply that often, but then to a bunch of messages, just like me. It's my preferred form of communication but most people want constant talking which I am too introverted for.

Its even worse since shes an online friend.Nothing good will ever come from that

It's already good. I would not regret anything because the time talking with her was nice because we could talk about our problems. Even if she will never get into a relationship with me it's a net positive. I don't think you understand I have no friends, none. It's not even that I use some time I could use for a male friend for her, I use time I spend lying in my bed doing nothing writing with her.

But I guess to keep trying is all you can and will do, and I won't blame you for that either. I wish you all the luck off the world.

Thanks! Yeah, I can do nothing but continue to try even if it's hopeless.

just stop coping and cut ties immediately. you are part of the problem for giving a dumb toilet whore any attention after rejecting you

Like I said the problem is that she is also my only friend. So I would go from one online friend and no IRL friends to no friends whatsoever. Probably it's my fault that I cannot find friends, but I really don't have the luxury to reject people who are as similar to me as she is. She is the first person ever in my life where I can be somewhat myself and maybe you don't have the same autistic traits as me, but I really don't want to lose her. In some sense I love her platonically more than romantically but also want the latter.

Idk about y’all but I had a similar situation with my looksmatch, anyway now I’m glad that it’s over and being alone is so much better than being with someone only pretending to like you, you may feel the same way in a few months

Oh damn, why did she pretend to like you? Because she also didn't have anyone else? What happened? Could you elaborate?

 

[Rapistcel]

Don't get me wrong, I really like her and I am absolutely glad that I have her as friend. But still I think it's annoying that she complains about being lonely to me and I complain about being lonely to her and yet she rejects all my advances.

Having foid friends is dumb

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Wtf what is bad about having friends in general??

You want to fuck her and presumably have a relationship while she fucks other guys. Pain.

 

[Abgesang]

I don't think so, she doesn't reply that often, but then to a bunch of messages, just like me. It's my preferred form of communication but most people want constant talking which I am too introverted for.

It's already good. I would not regret anything because the time talking with her was nice because we could talk about our problems. Even if she will never get into a relationship with me it's a net positive. I don't think you understand I have no friends, none. It's not even that I use some time I could use for a male friend for her, I use time I spend lying in my bed doing nothing writing with her.

Thanks! Yeah, I can do nothing but continue to try even if it's hopeless.

Like I said the problem is that she is also my only friend. So I would go from one online friend and no IRL friends to no friends whatsoever. Probably it's my fault that I cannot find friends, but I really don't have the luxury to reject people who are as similar to me as she is. She is the first person ever in my life where I can be somewhat myself and maybe you don't have the same autistic traits as me, but I really don't want to lose her. In some sense I love her platonically more than romantically but also want the latter.

Oh damn, why did she pretend to like you? Because she also didn't have anyone else?

Yeah im guessing she sees you as friend she dosent want to lose ,thats why she soft rejected you instead of cutting you off.

Im not sure if you should keep pushing then tho idk how online realtionships work and i dont talk to woman either but you might lose her if you keep trying.

Maybe she will fold and have romantically relationship with you, But we all know life aint a disney movie so idk man not like anybody can help you with that moving forward

 

[SociallyStupid]

You want to fuck her and presumably have a relationship while she fucks other guys. Pain.

She doesn't, at least she always tells me that she badly wants a relationship and has no one.

Yeah im guessing she sees you as friend she dosent want to lose ,thats why she soft rejected you instead of cutting you off.

Could easily be, but tbh I kinda also want her to not always complain that it's "impossible" for her to find anyone to cuddle with when she always rejects me so.

Im not sure if you should keep pushing then tho idk how online realtionships work and i dont talk to woman either but you might lose her if you keep trying.

Yeah, that's why I only try about once every 1-2 months and don't push it constantly. She hasn't said anything that I should not make any more advances so and we have agreed that we say when the other one does something one doesn't like, so I will continue until she explicitly tells me to stop.

Maybe she will fold and have romantically relationship with you, But we all know life aint a disney movie so idk man not like anybody can help you with that moving forward

Yeah, well, I hope for that. It certainly wouldn't be a great relationship, but I think still better than none. The nice thing is that she doesn't like talking a lot (not only to me, she wrote on Reddit she doesn't like it so it's not something she made up so she could talk little to me), so I imagine it would essentially just being on our own, but cooking together, cuddling together, some hiking together etc. and otherwise have our own lives.

Yeah, I know nobody here can help with it, I just wanted to vent my annoyance about her in this topic.

 

[frmentalcel]

Like I said the problem is that she is also my only friend

men and women cant be friends. youre her beta orbiter who gives her free attention

 

[SociallyStupid]

men and women cant be friends. youre her beta orbiter who gives her free attention

Even if, I get attention in return, so shouldn't it be equal?

 

[BSGMANLET]

The fact she acknowledge you as a friend but still says she lonely. She doesn't care about you bro. All foids are the same. The moment she finds a chad she'll leave you cold until chad had enough of pumping and dumping her for the next E-foid

 

[frmentalcel]

Even if, I get attention in return, so shouldn't it be equal?

attention is pointless as a man when you already know she’s rejected you and not interested. unless you are gay

 

[Never began 4 me]

You're overdosing on soylent

 

[SociallyStupid]

The fact she acknowledge you as a friend but still says she lonely. She doesn't care about you bro. All foids are the same. The moment she finds a chad she'll leave you cold until chad had enough of pumping and dumping her for the next E-foid

Maybe, but I hope she doesn't find Chad.

attention is pointless as a man when you already know she’s rejected you and not interested. unless you are gay

Well, I try sometimes. Especially because she wrote that she wants to eat what I cook and yet doesn't want to meet, I will question that. It's a logical impossibility. I will not send her a package with my food somewhere, especially as it's only good when fresh.

 

[ThisShitIsOva]

Simp

 

[Hatred0603]

Don't get me wrong, I really like her and I am absolutely glad that I have her as friend. But still I think it's annoying that she complains about being lonely to me and I complain about being lonely to her and yet she rejects all my advances.

She just doesn't like you.
I know it sucks ass, but that's the truth. All my female friends do that to me all the fucking time. Seems like they can only "see me as a friend/brother, tee hee!" "Oh! I'm sure you'll meet someday one special girl and you'll make her so happy!" and all that pity bullshit of the like that only unattractive fucks like us hear all the time.

I FUCKING HATE FOIDS.

 

[Apex.Koala]

Holes are Chad-only

 

[Fire]

She will never fuck you. How you still choose to orbit her baffles me.

 

[Fire]

Call her a dumb cunt and walk away.

 

[SilverBullet]

Because she is an e-whore who has other soy orbiters doing the same thing.

 

[tranny destroyer]

The so called foid his talking to

 

[SociallyStupid]

She will never fuck you. How you still choose to orbit her baffles me.

She's also my only friend who sticked around for quite a long time. This is actually also the reason I don't make a stronger move akin to "relationship or I will walk away" because I don't want to lose her as a friend.

BTW: She complained to me about being lonely AGAIN. But she also somehow knows complaining to me while rejecting me is a bit stupid. Because some time ago she claimed she wanted to eat something I ate and cooked (and sent her a picture) and I told her that we have to meet if she wants to eat something I cook. And she acknowledged that. Maybe after a few more times I can convince her to at least meet up.

Because she is an e-whore who has other soy orbiters doing the same thing.

Maybe. She claims to not have that many orbiters, but maybe she has.

 

[Fire]

because I don't want to lose her as a friend.

I lost many friends, that's how it is. On them.

Maybe after a few more times I can convince her to at least meet up.

If she doesn't at least kiss you, you got cucked

 

[SociallyStupid]

I lost many friends, that's how it is. On them.

I had exactly one (online) friend who sticked around me for a few months in the last 5 years and I lost him. She is the second one. Really, you probably have more luxury if you can afford to lose "many" friends.

If she doesn't at least kiss you, you got cucked

Maybe. I hope that when we meet up then we can hug a bit, then cook and then I will ask if I can stay for a bit and maybe we can cuddle. But I would have no clue what to do anyway. How would I properly even go for a kiss? And when would the correct situation be?

 

[Fire]

Maybe. I hope that when we meet up then we can hug a bit, then cook and then I will ask if I can stay for a bit and maybe we can cuddle. But I would have no clue what to do anyway. How would I properly even go for a kiss? And when would the correct situation be?

Don't get your hopes up since you're chasing this pussy. Go in for a hug while watching something together, then go in for the kiss I suppose.

 

[SociallyStupid]

Don't get your hopes up since you're chasing this pussy. Go in for a hug while watching something together, then go in for the kiss I suppose.

Hmm, good idea, should it ever come to a meet I would try that, thanks!