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RageFuel My only (online) friend soft-rejected me twice but complains about being lonely every few weeks

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Don't get me wrong, I really like her and I am absolutely glad that I have her as friend. But still I think it's annoying that she complains about being lonely to me and I complain about being lonely to her and yet she rejects all my advances.
 
Did you outright ask her or hint at wanting a relationship?
 
e-chad only. I don’t know how you can be friends with a person that doesn’t really see you as human, she’s just using you for attention. I guarantee you that as soon as she finds an attractive guy to talk to, she will start getting more and more distant until she completely stops responding.
 
Did you outright ask her or hint at wanting a relationship?
I did ask whether we want to travel to some city we would both be interested in but she didn't want to.

I did not directly ask for a relationship because I don't want to destroy the friendship, I just hoped we could meet and maybe if we liked each other also in person there could come more of it.
e-chad only. I don’t know how you can be friends with a person that doesn’t really see you as human, she’s just using you for attention. I guarantee you that as soon as she finds an attractive guy to talk to, she will start getting more and more distant until she completely stops responding.
Maybe, but unfortunately she still is my only friend, so I don't really have an alternative. I don't think she doesn't see me as a human but she just isn't attracted to me. And I have to admit we aren't a perfect match anyway, but she is one of the very few women where I would really love a relationship with nevertheless.
 
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Don't get me wrong, I really like her and I am absolutely glad that I have her as friend. But still I think it's annoying that she complains about being lonely to me and I complain about being lonely to her and yet she rejects all my advances.
tell her to choke on a dragon/alien dildo
Foid dildoes
 
Where did you find that online “friend” ?
 
Don't get me wrong, I really like her and I am absolutely glad that I have her as friend. But still I think it's annoying that she complains about being lonely to me and I complain about being lonely to her and yet she rejects all my advances.
Being friends with women is cucked and pointless, find a guy to talk to it probably isn't that hard
 
Where did you find that online “friend” ?
On Reddit, but we are now chatting on another platform.
fakecel confirmed
We have not even seen each other, why would you assume I'm a fakecel? We just both have autistic traits so we are lonely. The difference is that she has options (for example me).
Being friends with women is cucked and pointless, find a guy to talk to it probably isn't that hard
I also try to find guy friends, but I cannot keep any friends, no matter whether male or female. So that she talked to me for a few months, sometimes even initiating conversations, is like a godsend to me, I am really happy. The closest to her I had was a guy, but I had to write him every day, he would never message me on his own volition.
 
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Time wasters will destroy you when they inevitably crush your dreams. I suggest not putting as much importance into girls like this.
 
Opposite. Thinking you can relate to women and be their friend is faggoted. The only other people like us are other guys
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Opposite. Thinking you can relate to women and be their friend is faggoted. The only other people like us are other guys
Honestly, for me the only people I can really relate to would be people with autistic traits and I have to admit I relate to autistic women more than to neurotypical men (but most to autistic men, and probably only if they don't have ADHD in addition). The person I actually relate most to (but is way out of my league) is on this forum.
Time wasters will destroy you when they inevitably crush your dreams. I suggest not putting as much importance into girls like this.
I don't have any other friend. I am not only sexless, but also (nearly) friendless. Honestly, if I had many friends I would maybe have explicitly tried for a relationship and if there was no chance I would have reduced my effort, but I don't have the luxury.
 
she's online, so replace her with some APK, like spicychat.
what's the dif?
 
How tf do you have an online foid friend knowing she fucks echad and regular chad every day?
 
Your better off talking to AI chatbots instead of this woman I can guarantee you, 99% of the time e-girls are just using you for attention
 
 
How tf do you have an online foid friend knowing she fucks echad and regular chad every day?
She claimed no one IRL and only half a person online wanted a relationship with her (obviously discounting me, sigh) so she might actually still be a virgin.
Your better off talking to AI chatbots instead of this woman I can guarantee you, 99% of the time e-girls are just using you for attention
Maybe, but as I said I still hope that we could maybe meet up some day, she at least claims to also not talk to too many people.
 
Jfl wanting to have a female friend or a friend in general. How soy can you be? What's next? Holding a candle while she is fucking some dude? Pathetic.
 
Jfl wanting to have a female friend or a friend in general. How soy can you be? What's next? Holding a candle while she is fucking some dude? Pathetic.
Wtf what is bad about having friends in general?? And she doesn't have a boyfriend and also no casual sex partners. If she had a boyfriend she would likely not talk to be, especially as now she often complains that she is so depressed because she is lonely, so she would not have any reason to talk to me as her life would be fulfilled.

The only thing I am annoyed by is that she complains about being lonely to me while also rejecting me. If you want to be not lonely so bad, then why am I not enough?
 
Wtf what is bad about having friends in general?? And she doesn't have a boyfriend and also no casual sex partners. If she had a boyfriend she would likely not talk to be, especially as now she often complains that she is so depressed because she is lonely, so she would not have any reason to talk to me as her life would be fulfilled.

The only thing I am annoyed by is that she complains about being lonely to me while also rejecting me. If you want to be not lonely so bad, then why am I not enough?
Has she seen your face and have you seen hers?
 
Has she seen your face and have you seen hers
No, we both have made bad experiences with it. Both of us were ghosted after we showed it so now we don't. Maybe I should show it one day but I fear to get ghosted/blocked and it's probably similar for her.
 
No, we both have made bad experiences with it. Both of us were ghosted after we showed it so now we don't. Maybe I should show it one day but I fear to get ghosted/blocked and it's probably similar for her.
failed normie
 
How does me getting ghosted/blocked after showing my face make me a failed normie?! What is your distinction between incel and failed normie?
you have had a history of fakeceldom. I am accusing you of stolen valor
 
No, we both have made bad experiences with it. Both of us were ghosted after we showed it so now we don't. Maybe I should show it one day but I fear to get ghosted/blocked and it's probably similar for her.
Then it’s over bro…
 
you have had a history of fakeceldom. I am accusing you of stolen valor
What? History of fakeceldom? I don't think women are required to turn away in disgust whenever you want to talk to them, but that it's sufficient to never had a relationship which progressed to sex in order to be considered Incel. Just because some women were willing to talk to me (until I showed my face) proves absolutely nothing. Maybe it proves that my personality isn't my greatest problem, but that's the freaking core of the blackpill so I don't know wtf you are talking about.
Then it’s over bro…
Probably, but I don't want to lose hope. When I posted something I cooked she also told me that she wanted to try it but has no hope. I was really close to telling her that if she wanted to eat what I cook, she has to freaking come to me!
 
What? History of fakeceldom? I don't think women are required to turn away in disgust whenever you want to talk to them, but that it's sufficient to never had a relationship which progressed to sex in order to be considered Incel. Just because some women were willing to talk to me (until I showed my face) proves absolutely nothing. Maybe it proves that my personality isn't my greatest problem, but that's the freaking core of the blackpill so I don't know wtf you are talking about.

Probably, but I don't want to lose hope. When I posted something I cooked she also told me that she wanted to try it but has no hope. I was really close to telling her that if she wanted to eat what I cook, she has to freaking come to me!
I wish you all the best with her, and if she’s your only friend I’m not saying you should cut her out right now, but always keep in mind what can and probably will happen at some point
 
What? History of fakeceldom? I don't think women are required to turn away in disgust whenever you want to talk to them, but that it's sufficient to never had a relationship which progressed to sex in order to be considered Incel. Just because some women were willing to talk to me (until I showed my face) proves absolutely nothing. Maybe it proves that my personality isn't my greatest problem, but that's the freaking core of the blackpill so I don't know wtf you are talking about.
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I wish you all the best with her, and if she’s your only friend I’m not saying you should cut her out right now, but always keep in mind what can and probably will happen at some point
Yeah, but it happens with all of my friends anyway. I enjoy while it lasts, I guess.
 
you are a cuck and a retard for being “friends” with a toilet :feelskek:
 
you are a cuck and a retard for being “friends” with a toilet :feelskek:
As I already explained I have zero friends and I also want to know a bit more on how to talk with women. I not only have bad looks but also extremely bad social skills.
 
As I already explained I have zero friends and I also want to know a bit more on how to talk with women. I not only have bad looks but also extremely bad social skills.
dont be friends with toilets, ever. you shouldve never said another word to her after getting rejected
 
dont be friends with toilets, ever. you shouldve never said another word to her after getting rejected
Well, I try asking her to meet every few months, maybe one day she won't reject me. At least that's my hope. I know my chances are like 0.01%, but still better than 0%, I guess.
 
Well, I try asking her to meet every few months, maybe one day she won't reject me. At least that's my hope. I know my chances are like 0.01%, but still better than 0%, I guess.
pathetic. have some respect for yourself
 
pathetic. have some respect for yourself
Maybe, but I don't have the luxury to choose between lots of women willing to date me ... in fact I have no one so yes, I maybe irrationally cling onto every straw.
 
Well, I try asking her to meet every few months, maybe one day she won't reject me. At least that's my hope. I know my chances are like 0.01%, but still better than 0%, I guess.
shes only sucking attention out of you.

Its even worse since shes an online friend.Nothing good will ever come from that

But I guess to keep trying is all you can and will do, and I won't blame you for that either. I wish you all the luck off the world.
 
Maybe, but I don't have the luxury to choose between lots of women willing to date me ... in fact I have no one so yes, I maybe irrationally cling onto every straw.
just stop coping and cut ties immediately. you are part of the problem for giving a dumb toilet whore any attention after rejecting you
 

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